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A person's baby and old age are like a blank sheet of paper, but the stormy waves experienced in it are naturally unequal. When you were born, the world, like your skin, shrank into a mystery in the womb, waiting for your mental health to unfold slowly; When I get old, those joys and sorrows are like fallen leaves, returning to the realm of things I didn't like at the beginning. Time is running out and I can only take it lightly.
Life is like a circle, from the starting point to the end point, it completes a docking, but in the middle of baby and old age, it is always confused with the growth of age. In the face of an unknown fate, you can never estimate how high it will be and how low it will be; How happy and miserable. The waves rise and fall, and confusion follows. Childhood confusion leads to adulthood, and adulthood confusion looks back on childhood. Life is an endless mystery, and many times I am incompetent, unwilling and refuse to accept the answer.
So human beings deceived themselves and created a profession called psychologist. His/her duty is to teach people the confusion of life and the impermanence of fate, and tell you that when you can't change the world, you can only change yourself. Under the constant adjustment of psychologists, we can let go of the obsession we were reluctant to leave behind, re-establish our beliefs and values for ourselves, and become a cheerful and cheerful believer facing the ship of fate.
In fact, the above passage is more suitable to describe a guru, which is suspected of beautifying psychologists. As a profession that pays money to relieve anger for others, it is often a tree hole in society, a private trash can, and a cosmic black hole that devours money and dark secrets at the same time. The psychological clinic is full of unbearable lightness, bearing a heavy burden when entering the door and completely consuming it when leaving.
What if the psychologist has a problem one day? This person who listens quietly in front of you, he lives worse than you, hypnotizes himself with marijuana every day, and still has the memory and pain of his deceased relatives. After all this time, he hasn't-do you doubt whether the rights and interests of consumers have been properly safeguarded? Should we sympathize with him or question his sincerity in understanding you? As soon as you turn around and go out, he will put away his smile and sit alone in the backyard, looking at the sky, feeling dejected ... people will be unhappy. Don't forget, psychologists are human.
In this chaotic, twisted and empty city, no one's nerves should be overestimated, including the psychologist we thought might be the strongest. From the 90 minutes of this movie, I hardly noticed any plot, only one rusty heart after another, one locked heart door after another, one sick person after another. Yes, yes, we are all sick. Some people are so sick that they don't even know themselves; Some people are very ill, and he knows that there is no cure.
A movie does not provide the key to solving the problem. When you realize that the problems in these movies can't come from the real world, you can't believe that they will have a happy ending like a movie script. God forgive me, I have always been pessimistic about the world: whether a movie should be 24 frames of lies or truth depends on whether it turns a blind eye to the world or stays awake.
I have a friend who grew up playing marbles and mud together in the yard when he was a child. After graduating from college, he went to a middle school as a psychological counselor. He is a character who loves to laugh, at least on the surface, he never takes the confusion of life seriously, so I think he is very suitable-at least not like me, always entangled in the incomprehensible confusion until his death. But it wasn't long before he left his job and was admitted to the civil service, and took a leisurely civil service job-I never asked him if even people with this world outlook were too lazy to answer "each has its own misfortune."
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Kevinspacey fowler is the biggest selling point of this film. I'm not sure how big his name is at the box office in the North American market, but his name is really a great temptation in the movie guides of fans all over the world.
The theme and plot of the film is the staple food: everyone has heart disease, including Dr. Carter, a psychologist played by kevinspacey fowler (still the most seriously ill one); To solve this problem, you need to untie the bell and the person who tied it. Everyone is not cured, but has completed self-salvation and spiritual liberation through a series of events and experiences. There is a very interesting case in the film, that is, Jack, the movie star played by robin williams, insists that he is a sex addict and wants to be officially certified by Dr. Carter, but in fact, he is just looking for an acceptable excuse for his desire to cheat. Sick people deserve sympathy, so some people pretend to be sick in order to do bad things and make their bad things look less hateful. This is actually another disease. The role of Jack is obviously a black humorous setting. First of all, robin williams played a psychology professor in Good Will Hunting earlier, but in this film, he is a "psychological patient", which is a 180 degree role reversal. Secondly, when the black girl recognized Jack as a movie star, she said, "You should make better movies." This joke is self-evident. I even suspect that this is robin williams's self-deprecating lines. He really should make better movies and play the leading role.
The film presents a "morbid" tone, and many literary dramas have similar common faults. In order to achieve temperament, we must sacrifice the coherence of narrative and not pay attention to the entertainment of the plot. For some works, we can say that it is a kind of melodramatic moaning, but the film itself is about "illness", and the moaning tone makes me feel very good. Under this premise, the play of actors is very important. Unexpectedly, this film is not a solo performance by kevinspacey fowler, but a group performance with a better level. Every actor can express his inner illness with just the right scale. Not bad ~ only at the end, the plot design that everyone "recovers" at the same time seems to be too jumping and deliberate.
Anyway, this is another work that different people have different opinions. If you really like kevinspacey fowler, you might as well visit it.
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Shrink in my eyes:
Shrink is an informal nickname for psychiatrists, originally derived from the word "head shrink". In ancient times, when fighting, the winner would shrink his opponent's brain and air-dry it. What psychologists do is to persuade patients not to think, that is, to shrink their heads. As reflected in this film, these guys, whose job is to heal people's hearts, often have psychological problems themselves and their skulls are often broken. Therefore, as a psychologist's nickname, psychologist has a slightly ironic meaning.
Unlike the word patient, which is used to refer to patients with other physical diseases, psychologists usually refer to their patients as clients. First of all, people who are physically injured or sick have different definitions. We can definitely say that he/she is a patient. However, an unhealthy person with psychological problems must be a sick person? In that case, hospitals on the earth will probably become mental hospitals, and there will not be enough patients to live in. Secondly, the word "client" is more suitable for the form of psychotherapy. The main job of a psychologist is not to prescribe drugs for "patients", but to listen. In this process, people who receive treatment have greater autonomy, and the effect of treatment depends entirely on whether they are willing to tell the truth. I once had a foreign teacher friend who was a psychologist before teaching English. In a very depressed period, I like to "take out the garbage" and pour out some troubles that have been suppressed in my heart. In the process of chatting, it is really a decompression experience. As a listener with professional background and professionalism, he also makes me feel suddenly relaxed after every conversation. Every time I think about this experience of "psychotherapy", I feel that I have taken advantage of it because it is free. XDDDDDDD
In the film, Dr. Carter and my psychiatrist friend are very similar. Both of them are sloppy-looking uncles with thick beards. They are all heavy smokers, smoking very hard; They are all lonely. Dr. Carter lost his wife. The closest relationship is the boy who supplied him with marijuana, and the other seems to be worse. He is divorced and has no children, in his words, he has no relatives. On the contrary, he hooked up with some nice girls in China, but whenever people mentioned marriage, he ran away and left the city directly. ...
I guess psychiatry is a maddening profession. If you can't cure yourself, you have to cure others. If you accidentally cure others, but you are still the same, it will be even crazier.
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I watched this movie with a curious mind. I think this should be about the daily life of a psychologist. I was particularly moved after reading it. In fact, people really need other people's care when facing pain. When they are psychologically hurt, not only some professional knowledge can be repaired, but also the painful repair needs the care and comfort between people. In my impression, although psychologists are very powerful and can help many confused people, they feel that their psychology is abnormal and they are cold-blooded. Maybe they met too many people with problems, so they became numb! Sometimes I wonder, when psychologists also encounter pain, will they give themselves the same advice as patients in peacetime? This film describes this situation. In fact, psychologists are human beings and have their own emotions. They will also encounter problems that they can't solve. There is a saying in China that "those who are in charge are lost, but those who are on the sidelines are clear". All people will have emotions when it comes to themselves, and they will not be so objective. This is the crux of the problem. When they can't see the essence of the matter, this problem will not be solved!
Man is a gregarious animal. Everyone in this world is more or less connected with others. No matter how lonely a person is, it is impossible to live alone in this world. So why do you have to recite it yourself when you encounter problems? What's wrong with saying it and letting people around you express their concern? ? In fact, don't blame people for not caring about you enough, but have you given them a chance to care about you? What moved me most in the movie is that they all have a heart that really helps others. When your heart opens a door for others to convey concern, your heart also opens a door for yourself to accept concern, so everyone in the movie not only solves other people's problems, but also solves their own problems by helping each other. We can see that people who have been psychologically hurt have finally opened their hearts that have been closed to others for a long time. In everyone's mutual care and comfort, everyone's.
I haven't seen a movie that touched me so much for a long time, and I really want to write down my feelings. This is just my humble opinion. I like watching movies very much, and I have seen many movies, but I seldom write down my feelings, so please include more if I can't write well, and bow ~ ~ ~