1, "She can lead a poetic life", this sentence lingers in my mind for a long time, which makes me constantly think about what kind of life I am living now.
2. What kind of life do I yearn for? As a post-80s woman, I have many traditional ideas. Before I get married, I hope my life should be a stable but not so busy job, with clear boundaries between work and work. After work, you can teach your husband and children, take your family to travel in your spare time, enjoy family fun, or have tea and chat with your girlfriends. Therefore, when many people don't want to have children for the sake of figure and freedom, I still have the idea of having a second child. After getting married, I encountered economic depression. The workload began to increase, but the salary began to shrink and the quality of life was affected. In order to increase my income, I even moved the idea of being an account manager at the grassroots level. I was exhausted. After work, I worry about housework. After having children, there is basically no so-called leisure time Therefore, living like a poem is really far away from me.
3, however, this is real life, real existence, everyone lives like this, and everyone can't help it. I can't change my present life, but I can change my understanding of life and change the way I treat life. In this life, the hardest thing is inner cultivation. Since I was born, everything has been arranged so tightly, such as going to school, taking exams, going to college, choosing a major, taking a certificate, getting married and having children. I am a boat in the vast ocean, pushing me forward with the torrent of fate. But now, I wish I could have a bird's eye view of what is happening. I don't want to change the rhythm of fate, just want to have a mentality of seeing through everything. I hope I can protect my sky with living colors and incense in this troubled times, just like Xu. Be able to remain calm in a difficult situation and not be affected by it; Can live like a poem.