Experience of Thanksgiving Parents' Practical Activities
The mother used the needle and thread in her hand to make clothes for her long-distance son. Before leaving, I had a stitch for fear that my son would come back late and his clothes would be damaged. Who can say that a filial child like the weak can repay his mother's love like the sunshine in spring? -inscription
Learning to be grateful is a feeling, and learning to be grateful is a feeling. Gratitude, learn to be grateful, winter is no longer cold, night is no longer long, happiness is around you and me. Gratitude is conveyed by heart, and everyone has everyone's understanding. But I believe that as long as you have the heart, then this love will be further passed down and spread for a long time.
Thanksgiving parents are regardless of practice, regardless of location, regardless of distance! It is not just a sentence, but also reflected in the dribs and drabs of life. Filial piety is a lifelong course. There is no end to the class, there is no best, only doing and not doing. When you are around your parents, be close to them; When you leave your parents, you will miss them more and call them often. I think it is a good way to learn to be grateful, do more housework and communicate more.
I spent most of my holidays at home. When many students are having a happy party and planning where to travel or work part-time, I will stay at home and do those complicated and repetitive things that my mother did at home before the holiday. Although boring, you can do your filial piety and thank your parents with practical actions. After a hard holiday, I really realized the hard work of my parents. When my parents were so happy because of my little actions, I felt joy and remorse inside ... At that moment, many complicated feelings surged in my heart.
I have always wanted to repay my parents since I was sensible. When I was a child, I thought it would be good to be obedient, study hard and do housework, that is, "being sensible" and "honoring my parents"; When I grow up, I think "self-reliance, not letting my parents worry too much about themselves" and "working hard now and creating the best living conditions for my parents in the future" are the manifestations of "filial piety". In fact, these ideas are a bit superficial. Perhaps, in the face of their aging, what they need more is spiritual communication besides life care. Nowadays, with the development of science and technology, young people have mobile phones or computers. When we go home, we basically turn on our mobile phones and computers to do our own things, but we ignore the communication with our parents. Most of our older generation can't use technology products such as computers. They feel empty when they have nothing to do in their spare time on weekdays. They want to communicate with our children more, but all they get is the back of computers and mobile phones. Isn't this cruel? Doing housework at home and chatting with parents is a great comfort to parents.
Food, clothing, housing and transportation, a large amount of knowledge, very brain-consuming. The first is the place to stay, which involves the quality, price and communication of buying a house and decoration; Buy electrical appliances and read the instructions; Laundry, cooking, safety, maintenance, etc. must be considered; Not to mention gardening, self-cultivation and health care. It's hard to make life work. Thinking of this, I can't help but admire my parents, who have handled these aspects in an orderly way.
Doing housework as much as possible will comfort parents. Let's talk about folding quilts first, and encourage yourself to get up early every morning to lose weight and clean up the housework. It's not difficult to fold the quilt. After getting up, close the curtains, open the window, open the quilt for ventilation, then fold it neatly and cover it with cloth. I sometimes think about laying the quilt on the bed without folding it, which just saves the night. But then I thought, what does it feel like not to fold the quilt? I'm so lazy in the morning, and I have to be sloppy all day, like a pool of mud? A day's plan lies in the morning, and a positive start indicates a dynamic and down-to-earth day. Folding quilts is an indispensable part of regular and rhythmic life. A neat quilt is not only pleasing to the eye, but also reflects a person's good living habits and philosophical attitude towards life.
Then clean the room, dust, wipe, sweep the floor, mop the floor, take out the garbage and boil water. These chores seem easy, but in fact they are very tiring. It takes an hour to do these things when I come back from morning exercise every day. Although you are very tired, you should exercise and have fun while you are tired. Generally, it is enough to sweep the floor at home once. It is very important to sweep dust and hair after meals. The hair on the ground is the most eye-catching, so that "sweeping hair" has almost become synonymous with "sweeping the floor", and the ground is mostly dirty because of hair. Especially when combing your hair and washing your hair, your hair loses the most and needs to be cleaned up in time.
Speaking of cooking, it is the biggest housework. Three meals a day, stew, stir-fry, cook noodles, pancakes, steamed buns, and go to jiaozi? Various styles, each with its own emphasis. I wanted to learn many times before, but I didn't make up my mind. I just stood by and watched, and I couldn't remember if I didn't do it. Small details like what seasoning to add and how much soy sauce to put make me dizzy. However, this matter can't be delayed any longer, and time and tide wait for no man, especially when I think that some of my colleagues can cook several dishes well, I can't help but feel that I am half-finished.
Every time I cook, I stand beside my mother, listen to her instructions and operate carefully. Learning to cook requires skill. When cutting vegetables, hold the knife too far back, you can neither saw nor chop, but also hold the back of the knife with your knuckles to protect your fingers. I'm left-handed. It's awkward to hold a knife in your right hand, but it must be. It takes time and repeated practice to grasp various key points flexibly. To learn pancakes, you must first know how to knead dough. Pour two bowls of noodles, sprinkle water and stir, and the noodles are almost mixed together. Let stand for 2 hours, and then knead. You need oil to make pancakes. After the above dishes are cooked, put them in the pot, add some oil and stir fry frequently. Looking at the first cake I made, I felt twice as good when I ate it. Although I was afraid of the power of splashing oil when pouring oil, I was still careful when scooping oil. My mother was not satisfied with putting out her arm and pouring a little into the pot, and even I was personally responsible for it later. Oh, well, I'm a little stupid, but isn't a good beginning half the battle? Learning to stew rice and wash rice emphasizes the collocation of water and rice, and the water is too soft; Less water is too hard. In short, it is very important to grasp the quantity.
I like the beautiful scenery of jiaozi City. Mom rolls, dad rolls, and I roll for a while. I listened to them chatting and joking, and occasionally mixed in a few words. The stuffing is dry, but I wrapped it very smoothly; There was too much water in the dish, and it ran away before it was wrapped. Finally, the dumpling skin was sticky, and we had to sprinkle some flour and mash it for a long time before it became like this. If the problem is serious, let dad fix it. Rolling leather is not fast, and it can't catch up with dad's bag. When I feel anxious, I am in a hurry. Sometimes if you don't follow the routine, just roll a few times and slap again. According to this method, the speed has also improved a lot, hehe. Rolling is exciting until your palms itch and you want to stop. Seeing that there was not much left, I simply rolled it all up. Once born, twice cooked, eat more jiaozi, and you will naturally follow the routine. Have a little success and feel good about yourself. Of course, cooking time is a very relaxed and frank opportunity to communicate with parents. Talk about the national sentiment reported in the news, anecdotes on TV, or talk about the daily life of my relatives and neighbors while I was away from home, and my feelings and confusion about school life. Communicating while working and having a mild atmosphere is the best opportunity to communicate with my parents, which is more conducive to improving my sense of family responsibility.
Post-meal processing is my specialty. It is much easier than cooking, and I am more willing to accept it. Wipe the table for a while and sweep the floor for a while; Wash dishes and brush pots, soak, brush and rinse, simple and clear; Finally, swinging chairs and cleaning the pool are not complicated. It's just slow. I'm busy for at least half an hour after dinner, unlike my mother's ten minutes, and it's neat. I can't help feeling that life can't be empty talk, only down-to-earth work, even a meal is unambiguous.
I'm afraid washing clothes and curtains is quite a big project. Every day, my mother rushes to the balcony and shuttles to the bathroom. The least I can do is to try not to get into trouble. The clothes that can be washed before going home are solved at school, so don't bother to go home; In the first few days after returning home, I washed my own clothes. Wash your feet before washing your socks. Pay attention to keeping clothes clean at home at ordinary times. There is no washing machine at home, so my mother can only wash it by hand. I usually vote for her and get rid of the hanger. Who made her big clothes always dirty? But I will try!
Every night, I take time out to spend with my parents. Chat with parents, watch TV with parents, go shopping and walk with parents, watch fireworks, watch lanterns ... chat with parents, talk about interesting things about neighbors, relieve parents' inner pressure, and relieve unhappiness caused by work, family and other troubles. Looking at my parents' foreheads covered with years, watching the rain, dew, wind and frost, and looking at the white hair that has gone through difficulties and hardships, an inexplicable feeling comes to my mind.
Repeating these things day after day during the holiday, to be honest, it's really hard to persist. Actually, I'm lazy and playful. I don't really want to do this, but I don't want to see my mother busy. I feel guilty. For example, sometimes, when I finally have fun playing computer, my mother is busy again. I have to leave the computer to help my mother, who is always busy. Sometimes I get tired of it, but considering that my mother has done these housework all the year round, what's there to complain about?
Through this holiday social practice, I learned a lot of knowledge that I couldn't learn in class. I know that as a college student, in order to realize my dream, to put it bluntly, it is to realize the Chinese dream. What is supported on my shoulders is not only the mission of learning, but also how to be a man, how to live and how to lay the foundation for the future. All this has benefited me a lot, and I have accumulated a lot of life experiences, which greatly enriched my life experience. A mother's love is a boat, and a father's love is the sea. Mother's love lit the hope in our hearts, and father's love swelled the sails of our voyage. It is our parents who gave birth to us, let us experience life and understand everything during this time; It is our parents who let us grow constantly and let us understand one philosophy of life after another; It is parents who help us tide over the difficulties and give us strength when we are lonely. I understand the hardship of being a parent. Although I only knew that my parents worked hard before, I really realized this this time. Managing a family is not an easy task. My parents get tired of the same thing every day. Sometimes watching TV after work is their only entertainment. I must find more entertainment for my parents and spend more time with them in the future.
After this activity, I decided to take on the responsibility of a family. It is enough to do housework several times, but we also need to take responsibility and persevere. Doing housework can't be only three minutes of enthusiasm, can't be afraid of trouble, and can't resist. Starting from doing housework, we should really appreciate the hard work of our parents, be grateful, repay our parents with our own practical actions, reduce their burden, find happiness from doing housework and cultivate our sense of responsibility. I will do it with gratitude and be filial to my parents.
The care in life, no matter how much we do, is insignificant, and it is absolutely not as good as the sweat and hard work that parents have paid to raise us from babies to now. Raising children is the responsibility and obligation of parents, and giving back to children is our responsibility and obligation. We are growing up, and they are getting old. I think material feedback is irrelevant to them. What is important is that the closeness of the heart and the listening of children can enrich their hearts.
I recommend it carefully.