Dai Wangshu likes Shi Jiangnian and writes one confession poem after another. This fanatical and eager pursuit embarrassed Shi Jiangnian. She is a woman who has been instilled with the concept of a lady since childhood, and Dai Wangshu can only laugh at her affection. Dai Wangshu has a cavity of love, and the beauty is unintentional. Faced with feelings, Dai Wangshu made up his mind on the same impulse. He chose to commit suicide.
Shi Jiangnian panicked. She is just a girl of 18 years old. Although she has experienced a good education, this situation has never been answered in her textbook. Whether based on sympathy or forced, Shi Jiangnian finally agreed to Dai Wangshu's courtship. Dai Wangshu quickly telegraphed his parents in Hangzhou and asked them to come to Shanghai to propose marriage.
Shi Jiangnian's parents strongly opposed it at first, but then the situation got out of control and reluctantly agreed. 193 1 year, Dai Wangshu and Shi Jiangnian got engaged, but Shi Jiangnian still couldn't accept it, so she made a request that Dai Wangshu study abroad and have a stable income. Dai Wangshu went to France, but life in France was not easy. He is poor. He works as an interpreter for others.
But only a year later, he heard the rumor that Shi Jiangnian had emigrated, and he returned to China. Shi Jiangnian admitted that Dai Wangshu fell into the cold lake. He saw Shi Jiangnian's refusal and knew that there was no room for redemption in this relationship. In front of Shi's parents, he slapped Jiang Nian and ended their eight-year love.
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Dai Wangshu had three women in his life, Shi Jiangnian and Mu He. However, in these three emotional experiences, Dai Wangshu failed. How high his literary achievements are, how deep his emotional failures are. He didn't learn to deal with the difference between ideal and reality, which made his ill-fated life see the dawn and fell sharply.
The poet Bian once said: "Dai Wangshu died young. The old social system made it impossible for him to give full play to his talents. Seeing that a new society is about to emerge, Dai Wangshu left. " The same is true of Dai Wangshu's emotional experience. The time has come, but the time has passed.
Dai Wangshu is a soft and sentimental person with perfect emotional requirements. From his poems, we can see that he is a romantic, but it is such a romantic that three women have left him. Perhaps it is precisely because of his persistence in love that Dai Wangshu's emotional experience is extremely bumpy.
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