Ian's Note: From this poem, we can see a living Buddha's attitude towards women. Here is just my understanding.
Have you seen me?
I was there.
Not sad or happy.
This means that you and I exist objectively, but it doesn't matter whether you look at me or not. I won't be happy because you see me, nor will I be sad because you can't see me. There are actually two solutions here. One solution is that my love for you has gone beyond watching and not watching. According to my opinion, there are five realms in the development of love: feelings that meet by chance, better mutual appreciation, and knee-deep lingering. The second solution is that the love between you and me is dispensable, which can be understood as only the love of flesh and blood, and can also be understood as the great love of the world.
You can either read me or you can't read me.
Love is there.
Don't come or go.
Do you love me or not?
Love is there.
Neither increasing nor decreasing.
These two paragraphs continue the main tone of the first paragraph.
Are you with me or not?
My hand is in your hand.
Never give up.
This passage began to expose the poet's true thoughts. When the poet recites, the beautiful jade hand still holds the poet. At this time, there may be a kind of pride in my heart, and pride may also be a misnomer. There is a strong demand. Yes, what poets want is the feeling of being "needed". At the same time, I can feel the passivity of the poet and like the initiative of others.
Come into my arms.
or
Let me live in your heart
Silent love
Silence and happiness
This passage still shows that the poet prefers people to take the initiative, like people throwing themselves at each other physically, and like that he can capture people spiritually. After capturing people's hearts, he felt a kind of course (silence) and a kind of calm (silence), which echoed the so-called "no * no *" structure from beginning to end. According to Fan Zhongyan's realm, it is really "relaxed and happy, forgetting all insults". Of course, because one of them gives the body and the other gives the soul, both need it, and this is love; Relax, because they are quiet and comfortable after the passion, so they are happy.