You will, and so will I. Because I focused on these things, I changed from humor to gentleness and rigidity! Going out to play with girls who used to like being with me is not as active as before. So although talent is needed, humor is the most important thing. Go out and communicate with friends more, both men and women can! Also, people must have confidence in themselves, there will always be. If they can't be found in developed cities, are they still single when they return to China? So your worry is unnecessary. I can see that you are a little introverted, which shows that you don't speak so casually in front of strangers.
Remember to go out with friends (when there is a girl you like) and talk more nonsense. Don't be bored like a coquettish gourd. My brother is a man. What are you girls afraid of?
Come on, talk a little more and you will be humorous. Girls will like you. At that time, humor and talent will be combined, and flowers will be picked by you.