202 1 This year has passed in a hurry, as if everything was still yesterday! 202 1 I'm really in a hurry. I'm leaving before I can turn around! Looking back is for better progress. Reload the memory anchor of 202 1 year and write it down in words!
? Meet a good friend
I am glad that I really met my good friend Shu after I was not confused. I accidentally read this sentence: "Many problems in life can be answered in books. You are confused because you don't read many books and think too much. " If you read too many books, you may be suddenly enlightened by reading them. "
This year, I used my housework time to listen to books on my way to and from work. In recent years, I have listened to books 1200 for more than 200 hours, which is equivalent to reading more than 400 books. What makes me feel more fortunate is that when I need to answer questions most in my life, I came across the great works about human nature, life, life and emotion in Ordinary World and Human World, and I think it is the right time. Although I have forgotten most of what I have heard, it has unconsciously influenced my thoughts, broadened my horizons and perfected my pattern. Listening to books has become my daily spiritual food, and I get some insights from books and motivate myself!
This year, I came back from a temporary post in a township, and it was quite easy to get back the industrial stocks I had worked for more than ten years. In the last month of 202 1, I took over the "hot potato" in everyone's eyes. Reading it makes me understand that when you have a sense of ownership, you don't work for others, and you don't live for others. In many cases, your motivation and results are completely different. Thought produces behavior, and behavior produces results. Different ideas bring completely different results. When you know what you want, you will understand what you should do and how to do it, instead of complaining, blaming others and blaming others. If you look inside, many problems will be clear at a glance. What you need is your inner breakthrough and self-innovation. Just like an egg, food is broken from the outside, life is broken from the inside out, stress is broken from the outside in life, and growth is broken from the inside out. Only active and passive, subjective and objective differences, but the energy field and strength behind it are completely different, and individuals can feel it completely. Constantly do self-innovation actions, constantly eliminate the past self, and constantly achieve the future self.
Breakthrough self
202 1 is a year of growth and transformation. During this year, I began to cultivate two important habits, writing and sports.
In fact, the beginning of writing comes from an audio. Everyone should make progress every day, and everyone should set aside at least 30 minutes to be alone and think for themselves every day. Especially when there is so much tempting information in electronic products such as mobile phones, we should keep ourselves sober and calm, keep ourselves rational and rational about life, and don't be left aside by others. Keep doing self-reflection and iteration every day, and keep doing it. I believe that at least you are sailing against the current, at least you are exerting yourself. 1 1 In June, I registered my account in a book and started my writing journey. In the past two months, I have written more than 20,000 words, which may be rubbish to others, but in my heart, they are a great wealth. Because in these words, I can still find my former self, I can also record the dribs and drabs of my life, I can also complain and vent my emotions ... So, many things brought by words are very meaningful, which made me know my real self on 202 1. Fortunately, I finally had the courage to write down my growing experience-dreaming about Xie Qiao.
After I came back from the township, I insisted on running 1-2 times a week, which has accumulated nearly 300 kilometers. Although it is not much, it is really a pleasant surprise. No matter how you feel inside or outside, you have different experiences. It is really meaningful and valuable to love sports and be responsible for your body. The driving force behind it is that one day when you are old, your body can still be so healthy and nutritious, and you can do more things you want to do.
? Have a small gain
Our small family is also developing in a good direction. Although we are not rich enough, we are better than a little life. Our family relationship is relatively harmonious, and my wife likes listening to books. We will often have heart-to-heart talks, share the experience of listening to books, share the same philosophy of life and love life more. My daughter is also growing up healthily. Although she is in the so-called "rebellious period", mother and daughter often quarrel. I believe that as long as our husband and wife have the same educational philosophy, encourage more, blame less, let go of their parents' dignity and let us become her friends, our daughter will eventually grow up slowly.
Learn to love yourself and express your needs appropriately. Know yourself more comprehensively and deeply, know your own advantages and disadvantages, know the direction of your progress and efforts, and practice hard.
Don't care about other people's comments, be yourself bravely; No anxiety, relatively stable mood; Face problems, don't complain, don't escape, and face them positively.
Step on a dream
Looking back at 202 1, we are moved, relieved, reluctant, confused, and have gained and grown ... but it is this smell that makes our days complete. In this year, each of us encountered all kinds of small bumps and disappointments. At that time, we may be depressed and wronged, but looking back at this time, we will praise ourselves and cheer for ourselves. After all, every seed that has survived the winter has a dream about spring.
Hello, 2022! A new year is coming. May I end up with the old things and still welcome the flowers in the coming year. May we cherish love together and stick to the past; Walking in my dream as usual.
Goals for 2022:
Health first (insist on running to eliminate sub-health);
Second mentality (love family, be kind to friends and work hard);
Personal growth (listening to books, continuing to write and striving for self-innovation).