1, the function or purpose of politeness is only to make the person we are talking to feel comfortable and satisfied, nothing else. You should be able to prove your respect, attention and affection for others through proper common courtesy and respect. This is a very high realm, and it is a great skill to be able to do this without being suspected of flattery, hypocrisy or meanness.
2, whenever, please be sure to believe: try to avoid the cold wind whistling in your ear, there is always a place to warm your heart. Relatives, friends, lovers and even strangers around you will always offer their kindness at an unexpected time and place.
3. A white lie is a perfect wish that people place on things, a dialogue between people's kind hearts, the warmth that people comfort each other, and the tenderness that people feel from the heart. No one will investigate its credibility.
Even if the person who hears a white lie knows that it is a lie, he will try to believe it, will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes he will be grateful from the heart!
4. A woman's real mature state is that after experiencing sadness, inner anxiety and many troubles, she can still raise a clear mind and a good impression on life, and she can also have a maternal mind. I think this realm is extremely high, and the naivety born in this situation is a mature beauty.
5. Zhu Guangqian flaunted a new concept and established a new camp in every argument, which made many academic friends sweat. From time to time, someone gave him good advice, but he was calm and indifferent.
6. Even the world we see and hear every day is still separated from reality by a vacuum. Once the lies lurking in the cerebral cortex are added with kindness, they will become as perfect as a mirage, which will calm people's hearts and make them pretend to give in and pay blindly. Actually, it's just to avoid inevitable judgment.