In life, not everything can go as you wish, and not everyone you fall in love with can return the same love. Some people are just passers-by in the mortal world. They should not be loved and cannot be loved.
The chance of falling in love with someone who also loves you is very small. Most of the time, the person you love does not love you. Even if you fall in love, there is no possibility of growing old together.
The reality is so cruel. Everyone cannot escape the tricks of fate. People who should not be loved should not be provoked. However, some people know that there are tigers in the mountains, but they choose to go to the tiger mountains. .
Some people are too persistent, thinking that they can defeat the arrangements of fate and hold fate firmly in their hands, so even if they know that there will be no good results, they still continue to struggle.
The result of entanglement is not that you can get what you want, but that you are trapped in it, making it even more difficult to extricate yourself. People who can't control their emotions can't control their lives either, and will only be followed by pain in the end.
If you fall in love with someone you shouldn’t love, don’t get entangled. Being entangled will only make you humbler and more embarrassing. The destined outcome cannot be changed by one's own efforts. Instead of engaging in meaningless struggles, it is better to take control of one's own steering wheel and create more happiness for oneself.
Looking at the real society, among those people who are deeply involved in wrong feelings, which one gets a happy ending? The vast majority of people have paid the price for their obsession, and only a few people have truly broken away from it and lived a new life.
Yao Li was once a person who was desperate for love. In order to get the happiness she wanted, she didn't care about her reputation at all. She knew that the other person had a wife and children, but she still wanted to pester her.
She is just like Lin Youyou in "Thirty Only", relying on her youth and beauty to keep pestering married men. But in this entanglement, she lost her original happiness and her good reputation.
The friends around her couldn't stand her behavior, and they all chose to stay away. It wasn't until she was alone that she realized that she had done something wrong. Without benefiting from the entanglement, she could only force herself to let go.
In order to let go of this relationship, she went to another city alone. Yao Li told me that the best way to forget someone is not to meet, even by chance. Only by leaving and going to a new place can you truly start over.
Leaving was just the first step. After leaving, Yao Li put all her energy into her work. She made herself busy, because being busy could make her forget the past and the person she loved deeply. .
Yao Li did not dare to talk about this relationship anymore. She was afraid that she would not be able to control her longing. In order to let herself go completely, she began to try new relationships. Under the favor of her new boyfriend, Yao Li slowly let go of the past.
Relying on these methods, Yao Li escaped from the mud and algae and got the happiness she wanted. If she had continued to struggle, I'm afraid it wouldn't have been so beautiful.
It’s not anyone’s fault to fall in love with someone you shouldn’t love, it’s just fate playing tricks on you. We are destined not to be together. No matter how much you give, it is useless. Letting go and starting over is the best choice. If you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, don't dwell on it, just do this.
Leave the sad place and start over
Fate is really wonderful. Before falling in love, even if you pass each other countless times, you will not miss it; after falling in love, even if Even if we have no contact, we will meet at a familiar street corner.
Falling in love with someone you shouldn’t love, seeing each other frequently will only make the mistake continue. Only by staying away, only by completely disappearing, can you let go of your obsessions as soon as possible.
If you fall in love with someone you shouldn’t love, don’t dwell on it. Leave this sad place and start a new life in a new place. Only then will the days ahead become better.
Dedicate yourself to your work and divert your attention
When people are free, they will think randomly. Thoughts that they have clearly given up will breed again when they have nothing to do.
You can’t control your thoughts, so don’t let yourself have random thoughts. Only by keeping yourself busy will all the random thoughts leave your mind one by one.
If you fall in love with someone you shouldn’t love, don’t dwell on it. Put your energy and thoughts on work and make yourself busier. You won’t have so much time to miss the person you shouldn’t. Missing people.
If you want to forget someone, you must learn to divert your attention. When your attention is not on your feelings, you will no longer be sad about your feelings.
Accept a new relationship
The best way to forget someone or a relationship is to accept a new relationship. Under the nourishment of new love, the wounded heart will slowly heal, and the sincere love will slowly transfer.
If you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, entanglement has no effect. Only by accepting a new relationship can you truly keep the hurt away.
Accepting a new relationship is actually a way to divert attention. If you spend your attention on others, you will no longer think about the previous relationship.
Some people are just your passers-by. No matter how much true love you give, you can't exchange for their lifelong companionship. There are some people who just can’t get your love. Even if you love them to the core, you can’t get even half a step closer to them.
Everyone has his own destination. If his destination is not you, he will not bring you happiness. Your destination is not him, so you can only find it slowly and wait patiently.
Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love is like reaching a fork in the road. The right one is obviously on the left, but you have to go to the right. When you reach the end and can't find the way, you have no choice but to retreat.
Don’t expect everything to go your way throughout your life; if you fall in love with someone you shouldn’t love, don’t get hung up on it. Only by learning to do this can you let go completely and gain happiness again.