1. Lead students by example
ushinski, a great educator, once said, "The personal example of a teacher is the most useful sunshine that nothing can replace for students' hearts." Pupils have a special feeling of trust and dependence on the class teacher. The head teacher's own quality, moral cultivation, words and deeds, and every move of the head teacher will invisibly become an example for dozens of children in the class to imitate. If the teacher casually throws short chalk heads to pick up easy-to-use writing, students will learn to choose and throw away short pencils, throw away small erasers, and don't use pens with broken shells ... Therefore, for the sake of students, our teachers should be cautious in their words and deeds. Therefore, in class work, I always pay attention to my own image, and everything starts with me, setting an example with a good image, which exerts a subtle influence on my students. Usually, I do what students are asked to do first. I once solemnly promised the whole class at a class meeting: "children, look up to me!" " Take the simplest etiquette habit of "teachers and students say hello". I first changed "say hello when meeting the teacher" to "say hello when meeting the students", and cultivated the students' polite habits with my own practical actions. When the students saw that their teachers actually took the initiative to say hello to them, they quickly learned. Every class cleaning, I don't stand on the spot to "direct", let alone sit in the office to "remotely control", but sweat like rain with my students. If the teacher is like this, won't the students clean carefully? In the classroom or on campus, whenever I see scraps of paper on the ground, I will bend down and pick them up. I also took the plastic bottles after drinking water to the class and accumulated them. When the children saw the teacher, they all followed suit. Some students did not forget to pick up the plastic bottles on their way to school. Once, the school held a parent-teacher conference on the playground. After the meeting, all the students in other classes left with their parents. Only the children in our class were running around the playground. What were they doing? So it was collecting plastic bottles discarded by parents? In a short time, Guo Shuangqian, Cui Wenjuan, Wang Xinkui and other students excitedly ran to me and said, "Teacher Zhang, look, I picked up two plastic bags of bottles!" I smiled at the children's little faces turned red with excitement. Students in our class have been insisting on this behavior for more than three years, and we can sell five yuan a week. Other class teachers say I am a "rich man". I use this money to buy some awards, ink, garbage bins and so on for the children. All these are not the persuasiveness and appeal of the example?
second, criticize a shortcoming, praise two advantages first
"Be careful that there is Watt under your pointer, Newton in your cold eyes and Edison in your ridicule", which is a sentence said by Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator in China. The class teachers who educate our students are warned that they must pay attention to ways and means when educating those "problem" students, and they should not be simple and rude. My method is-to criticize a shortcoming, praise two advantages first. That is to say, the teacher must pay attention to affirming his one or two achievements before criticizing the child for being wrong, and then criticizing his shortcomings, and the effect will be very good. Because this makes students understand that teachers not only see their own shortcomings, but also their own achievements, which is practical and realistic. Remember to exaggerate children's mistakes, which is what they dislike most.
Third, deep love moves the students
"Those who touch the heart, don't worry about the feelings first." What will be divided more and more in the world? That is love. For more than ten years, I have tried my best to see the truth in detail, care for my children sincerely and help them enthusiastically. When teachers sincerely give love, they will certainly get more love from their children! On weekdays, when a student is ill, I will call my parents or send him home in person. And always pay attention to the weather and remind students to add or subtract clothes. Every dry season, I will "force" my children to drink all the water they bring ... Although these are trivial things, they leave a deep memory in students' minds. What I sent out was true feelings, and what I got was more sincere returns: this winter, the weather was extremely cold, and the road was slippery because of several heavy snows. One day, I went out to work with my purse in my hand, and I accidentally stumbled. At this time, I heard the most beautiful voice in the world: "Teacher Zhang, be careful." That voice, with eagerness and incomparable care, made my heart warm. Another day, I opened the door of the classroom to prepare for the first Chinese class. I was just about to step onto the podium when a pair of small hands reached out. I looked down, ah! It's Siraitia grosvenorii. "Teacher Zhang, this is Siraitia grosvenorii. You can break it to make tea after class, which can cure your throat, especially your pharyngitis." At that time, my eyes were moist. At that time, no matter how much money you gave me, I wouldn't exchange that Siraitia grosvenorii with him. I was in a great mood in that class. After class, I sent a short message to my parents thanking them for cultivating such a loving child. Soon, my parents wrote me a letter, which was written by the child's mother: Hello, Teacher Zhang! We should say thank you. You have been with the children for six years, and you have devoted as much effort to the students as your parents, and you know your children as well as your parents. It is your teaching that makes the students regard you as a relative, learn to care and understand love. It is our parents who should say thank you. That day, I just said "Siraitia grosvenorii clears my throat" because of my throat discomfort. I didn't expect the child to immediately say that I would take it for you. The child is also very pleased to know that he cares and loves me. In fact, some parents raise their children for no reward, and sometimes it will hurt their children. Imagine how good a person who doesn't even know how to repay his parents will be to others and to the country. I often ask my children a sentence: "What's the use of raising you?" The child, after doing something for me every time, proudly said to me, "Look! It is very useful for you to raise me! " Reading the short messages sent to me by my parents, I feel a sense of happiness. In the class, I often affirm this kind of words and deeds that know how to be grateful and care, and the children gradually realize the teacher's good intentions. No, in the Spring Festival of the Year of the Rat in 28, nearly one-third of the children in the class sent me messages of blessing, and I also responded to them one by one. Although I took pains, I enjoyed it. It's nice to feel loved.
Fourth, a variety of activities, enriching students
class collective, is a fertile ground for the healthy growth of students. I have always regarded the class I teach as a big family. Our class slogan is: June 1st is my home, and cleanliness depends on everyone. In this big family, both teachers and students are members of this family, and this big family should have rich family activities! In this semester, in order to encourage students to increase their language accumulation, the four walls of our class have opened up a stage to show themselves. The exercises, tabloids, materials, etc. are all students' proud pens, giving full play to their autonomy and promoting their continuous improvement! When the Lantern Festival is coming, a "Celebrating Lantern Festival in solve riddles on the lanterns" activity is held in the class. Children are required to make their own lanterns, write riddles and prepare candy. One is to show whose lantern is creative, and the other is to see which classmate writes the riddle beautifully. The winning classmate will get a lollipop. The lantern made by Ge Chang, a classmate in our class, won the first prize. Guo Linzhi's riddle won the creative award. It's March 8th. Make a greeting card for mom and teacher. Hold class yo-yo contest and basketball match. Reading exchanges and so on. The diverse atmosphere enriches students' lives and they are very willing to integrate into the big family of the class!
5. Home-school contact to help students
take a good class, it is not enough to rely solely on the work of teachers, but should be assisted by parents. Therefore, I have carefully read many books on family education, with substantial theoretical support and mastery of various methods, which has enriched my experience in specific implementation. In every semester's class work, I contact the parents of students purposefully, so that family education and school education are closely coordinated. Hold regular parent-teacher conferences, individual parent training courses, etc. In the training class for individual parents, I suggest that parents adopt the cooling method when their children make unreasonable demands: that is, they let their children use all kinds of means, and as long as they are unreasonable, parents will ignore them, making his means ineffective and self-defeating. After several times, he will realize that willfulness is an ineffective means. If he can't meet his wishes, he will give up and try to adjust himself and rationalize his demands. This is the key to correct children's bad habits, and it also requires parents to settle down and actively cooperate with education. Announce the teacher's phone number and open it for parents 24 hours a day. I call it the home-school contact hotline. This hotline is convenient for parents who are too busy to go to school, and can ask their children's performance at school by phone. "Small hands enlarge hands-parents and children grow together". At the parent-teacher meeting, I told parents to be a parent who loves reading, set an example for their children, and be like what parents are like. The children in our class are required to read a good book every month. Parents must read this book with their children and let them sign it at the back. Children are very excited to receive such homework, and finally have a chance to take care of their parents. Recently, in view of the high divorce rate, I recommended the book "Five Languages of Love" for my parents. The parents of Li Haoxu, a classmate who didn't buy this book, called me anxiously and asked where I could buy this book. His children were very dissatisfied with his failure to finish his homework on time. I hope their parents will set a good example for him. Parents who insist on reading as required have written me their thoughts after reading. Among them, Liu Zhipeng's mother wrote in the letter: My child Liu Zhipeng spent two days reading the book Bronze Sunflower, and he always manages to read, but this time you asked him to go out, but he didn't go out. I read this book, too. It can be said that I finished it with tears. The book you recommended for children is so well written and touching. I really hope my children can learn what love is from this book. How to love? How to love everyone around you? I must recommend this book to the rest of our family. Thanks to Mr. Zhang's good intentions. Parents from Liu Zhipeng. After reading this letter, can you still deny the function of small hands and big hands? With the cooperation of parents, the activity of reading a good book every month in our class is carried out vigorously.
Sixth, excellent study style, shaping students
As a class teacher, it is an unshirkable responsibility to grasp the class study style, because excellent study style is the lifeline of the class collective. Whether a class group is excellent or not depends mainly on its performance in learning. Diligent study style is the driving force to promote the continuous development of the class, which can effectively enhance the cohesion and combat effectiveness of the class. In view of the concept of curriculum reform, I encourage students to ask more questions in class management, so that students can develop the habit of thinking and asking questions. At the end of the term, I will set up the "Diligent and Inquiring Award". Establish an atmosphere of mutual love and help, and often educate boys to be like gentlemen, girls to be like ladies, and men to protect the weak. Establish "Gentleman's Manner Award" and "Lady's Appearance Award". Over time, the phenomenon that boys bully girls in the class is much less, especially when there is a contradiction between boys and girls, which will be regarded as a matter of losing men's face and despised by boys. And make great efforts in the class to establish a good atmosphere of reading for everyone in the class-set up a class book corner, hold a class reading exchange meeting every Friday, and write a review every month. After class, there is less fighting and more reading quietly in the classroom.
I remember a poem by the famous young poet Wang Guozhen:
Since you have chosen the direction,
you only care about the hardships.
So, since I have chosen a teacher, I will go all the way without hesitation. "I will never regret my infatuation, but I will pour out the flowers of hope with my hard work."