What will you do in the face of changes in your life? Is it impatient or dull? The most important thing in the world is change. Only by maintaining a good attitude and changing yourself can we live well in the torrent of this era.
There is a tea seller who always chooses two pots of tea to sell. The buyer tasted the first pot of tea, which was bitter. Then drink the second pot of tea, which is sweet. Ask him how much sugar he put in. He replied with a smile, if there is no bitterness of the first pot of tea, how can you taste the sweetness of the second pot of tea? Life is like this. People who are bitter first and then sweet can always cherish the opportunities in front of them more and more. It's like eating sugar, saving it for last, and it's sweeter for longer.
Reading Lin Qingxuan's prose makes people understand that life is not easy. However, in this hard life, he turned the past into words, books and beautiful melodies, which echoed in people's hearts. Because it is not easy, I cherish it. Because of wisdom, it does not hurt. In this materialistic society, many troubles are caused by ourselves. But some people are calm and complacent. Ask the canal to be so clear, because there is running water at the source. Spring refers not only to knowledge, but also to the strength of faith and mind.
So what is happiness? How to get it? In the eyes of the poor, happiness is abundance; In the eyes of people separated from their loved ones, happiness is reunion; In the eyes of ambitious people, happiness is the eternal glory of celebrities. In the eyes of ordinary people, happiness means that you have no worries about food and clothing, good health and parents and children are still alive. All happy things are the same, but all unfortunate things are different. What do you have to pay for happiness. However, happiness after giving is not guaranteed. So obsession is born from this. Don't be paranoid about people and things, don't be indifferent, and stay rational in everything. This is what the Buddha said. Don't be emotional, accept ups and downs and enjoy the process of life. This may be the great wisdom of life.
Want happiness, in fact, is very simple, change what you can change, accept what you can't change, and have the wisdom to distinguish between the two. The truest state of life is only happiness and sorrow. What we can do is to keep a good attitude and seize the opportunity. I remember a friend once told me that you should either try to do what you like, or accept yourself as an ordinary person, live a good life and forget your dreams. However, I want to say that it seems difficult to choose between the two. In fact, it is closely related. Only by accepting yourself as an ordinary person, living a good life and taking good care of your body and mind can you have the opportunity to pursue what you want. And only you have no paranoia and delusion about it. Do what you can and do what you should in this situation. When a person adjusts his mind, maintains his body and is healthy. On this basis, it is ideal to pursue your dreams and enjoy the sense of accomplishment in doing everything, rather than being obsessed with winning or losing.
I don't know how useful my words can be in this impetuous society. I just hope I can do what I should do, what I want to do, that's all.
So what is life? Gains and losses, pains and pleasures, worries and anxieties, and blooming flowers and falling flowers are all the essence of life. Life is beautiful at this moment, and none of us know what will happen next. In the face of the hardships of life, we can only treat it with a normal heart.
If you have a good attitude, you can be good every day and lotus blossoms everywhere.