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The cross talk "Special Disease" said:
It is undeniable that there are always such people around us: when they see others comparing themselves, When you are good to yourself, you have a villain mentality, talking and slandering others behind their backs, hoping that others will suffer misfortune.
It is these people who are said to have strong jealousy but small vision. They often do not realize their own shortcomings and instead attribute their misfortunes to others.
Psychologists have done an experiment:
Put lobsters in a basket. If there is only one in it, it will crawl out easily. However, once a few more are installed, none of them can climb out.
The reason is simple, because as long as one lobster climbs to the mouth of the basket, the other lobsters will grab it with their pliers and pull it down, while the other lobster steps on it and climbs up.
In this cycle, no lobster can succeed.
The conclusion drawn from this experiment is the famous "lobster effect". Today, it is often used to satirize those who have no ability but cannot see the good in others.
In our lives, there are actually many people who don’t like the good things of others:
Some people maliciously and falsely call the police many times because they are jealous that other people’s business is better than theirs;
< p> Some people tamper with their classmates' college entrance examination choices, just because they are jealous that others do better than themselves;Some people often give their colleagues small shoes just because they are more capable than themselves.
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You see, people who hate the good things of others are everywhere. However, the reason why these people exist is because they are incompetent. The less capable they are, the less good they are to others.
People who are incompetent will not reflect more on themselves and understand others more. Instead, they will satisfy themselves by slandering others.
The greatest ignorance of human nature is that they do not know how to make progress and appreciate others. Such people often end up harming others and themselves.
In real life, there are always too many people who like to criticize others behind their backs. Whenever people’s lives are a little rough, they will make unreasonable comments and make malicious speculations.
L talked about her experience. She was promoted before and held a party to thank people in the company.
It was originally a happy gathering, but the comments made by several colleagues were so sour that people didn’t want to hear them:
“My abilities are so poor. If it were my experience, I don’t know. Many times better than her."
"It's too green, there must be some conspiracy."
"What is she without us?"
What they ignored was that L was promoted entirely because of his ability.
In this world, there are always some people who like to maliciously slander others in order to highlight their own superiority.
Before Zhu Zhiwen became famous, he was an out-and-out farmer, and even the neighbors looked down on him.
But after he became famous, those people were like armyworms, secretly filming the life of Brother Dayi and his family, posting them online, and selling them to others for profit.
Even so, Brother Dayi did not blame those people, he just told the facts to the news media, but those people slandered him behind his back. After becoming popular, he forgot his roots and looked down on rural people.
Therefore, Brother Dayi suffered inexplicable abuse from many unreasonable netizens.
Human nature is like this. If you are happy, he will be jealous of you; if you are rich, he will do evil; if you have a good life, he will be happy...
People who have no ability , I feel jealous when I see the excellence of others, but find it difficult to see my own problems.
Once upon a time, people in a village often praised a wise man.
A man was very jealous after hearing this, so he traveled across mountains and rivers to find this wise man.
Half a year later, he met the wise man, but the wise man was ordinary in appearance and lived in a very simple place.
He said to the wise man disdainfully: "Others say you are a saint, but I think you are more like a mouse."
But the wise man just glanced at him and continued to look at his hands. book and ignore him.
After the man left, the student asked the wise man, "Why don't you get angry when others insult you?"
The wise man smiled and said to him, "Smart people all understand. Surrender to stupidity, otherwise, he will throw stones at you. "
People who don't like others and often talk about others behind their backs can be said to be villains.
In the world of villains, you only have yourself. How can they care about your feelings? The more angry you are, the happier they will be.
When you meet such people, never argue with them about right or wrong, because it is unnecessary.
Your time is limited, don’t waste it on irrelevant people.
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