I read an article two days ago, saying that if children are raised like snails, slow down and you will find a different world.
In today’s materialistic society, the pace of life has become faster. This is also true in the small 18th-tier county where I live. Especially when it comes to dolls, I feel that everyone is starting to act like a chicken. I work hard and don't want my baby to lose at the starting line, so I spend a lot of money on my baby and schedule my baby's time fully. Just like my friend Taotao brother, a baby who has just turned six years old has learned eloquence, calligraphy, and English. , hip-hop, taekwondo, and painting. In the words of his mother, he is either giving birth to his baby on the weekends or on the way to do so. [Hold face][Hold face][Hold face] I think this situation is very common. As parents, we want our babies to become talents too much, but we ignore what the babies themselves want. When they are five or six years old, in fact, It's time to play, play whatever you want.
I have always been based on this concept and hope that little brother Taotao can have a happy childhood. But when I see everyone around me being such a jerk, I can’t help but feel a little panicked. Little brother Taotao Because he was in poor health and suffered a lot when he was a child, I was still very accommodating to him. In terms of study, I felt that as long as he was happy, I didn’t make too many demands. Especially the training classes, he chose them by himself and he learned as much as he liked. , don’t learn if you don’t like it, so little brother Taotao is still relatively loose and a little lazy. I have never asked little brother Taotao to write, but this semester (the second semester of the big class), the teacher has started to ask them to write. , the other students in the class have a good pen-holding ability, but little brother Taotao's pen-holding ability is not good, and the mathematical pinyin he writes is terrible. [laughing][laughing]
This weekend Taotao brother has homework, writing ai and ei, writing an homework, it feels like it is killing him, he can't sit still at all, he can't sit down Within a minute, he started to stand up and stagger around. The general secretary wrote five rows, which took him an hour and a half. It was an art form.
I was so angry at that time! Because after reading what his classmates wrote, they were all written neatly. As for him, he couldn't write well. He also said that the teacher didn't teach how to write, and his concentration was not good. To be precise, he didn't have enough concentration to do his homework. If Doing what he likes, his concentration is so good that even if you call him, he won't agree.
The ruler is short, the inch is long, the things are insufficient, and the wisdom is unclear. I think every child has his own strengths. Although little brother Taotao has been a little troubled by writing so far, little brother Taotao likes to do experiments and listen to stories. He also has strong language expression skills and is super. I like to care about national affairs. On the way back to my hometown today, I kept discussing things about Ukraine and Russia [laughing][laughing][laughing] Brother Taotao also knows many countries and their national flags. Tonight He insisted that I show him a map of China. I looked there alone and said, I have found Shanghai, I have found Beijing. Shanghai and Beijing are not as big as our Sichuan Province. I was quite surprised at the time.
Therefore, as parents, we should not be impatient. We should be patient and wait for the flowers to bloom. Each child has his or her own strengths.
On weekdays, I am indeed impatient. Every time, I feel that little brother Taotao is too slow and slow. Sometimes I can’t help but yell at him. Every time I yell at him, he becomes angry. I felt so aggrieved and cried non-stop. After seeing how children were raised like snails, I realized that children at this age cannot get up fast. As parents, we should accept the slowness of children. There is a very classic saying: children dawdle. It's not the disease, it's the parents' urging that kills me.
So I have reflected on myself in the past two days, hoping that I can understand the child, follow the child's growth pattern, do not judge the child from an adult's perspective, and use encouraging words to treat the child. I hope that Tao will Brother Tao, this slow snail, can grow up happily.