A father thinks he is knowledgeable, tolerant and correct.
A son thinks he can face it, and he thinks he can stand it.
However, my father didn't realize it and didn't want to realize it. Son. Go beyond yourself.
When two people meet, there is bound to be a war. The result of the war will only be the injury of the son, because the son has never been able to prove himself and win wealth and returns for the family through his own efforts. Therefore. My father, like all parents in the world, enjoys the perfect excuse that "both parents are at fault".
My father thinks my son is my son. I gave birth to you and raised you, so you must obey me. As for my son's suggestions and ideas, they are all nonsense, not contradictions. So I use my own strength to continue to prove that I am knowledgeable, tolerant and correct. So my son was injured again. ...
The son thinks that a father should not be a father, but a brother. Listen to your own advice, be able to trust your son, see his advantages, dare to face the fact that his son has grown up, let nature take its course, and don't pull. But the son didn't meet his imaginary father. My son is only 18 years old and has not been able to prove himself. Therefore, his son can only endure all his father's "very knowledgeable, very tolerant, very correct, addicted to the perfect excuse of' there is no such thing as incompetent parents'".
The father can't wait to see his "not too old" son. But the son knows that he has never been a child in front of outsiders. He just doesn't want to hide himself perfectly at home.
On the contrary. My son doesn't like a "self-righteous" father. But the father knows that he doesn't want his son to be unable to bear this social responsibility. He doesn't want his son to suffer the same harm in society and take the same detour.
Two people, a war.
My son thought he was injured and showed off outside. My father was hurt, and the pain was in my heart.
Therefore, what we always see is that our son is hurt.
The father is thinking, "My son is clever and wise. I can't understand him. So I believe he can understand my painstaking efforts as a father. Maybe my present education method is wrong, but my son will forgive me and understand me. Son! Forgive my father's indifference, and you will understand that my father loves you after many years! "
The son is thinking, "I'm afraid such a father will only wait until his son stands on a tall building and wants to commit suicide." To reflect on your own educational methods, not your son! "
But because the son is smart and wise. So the first sentence of my son's idea is wrong, so all the assumptions are untenable. So the son learned to be silent. He constantly improves himself, he wants to prove himself, and he wants to prove that all his father's words will be invalid on himself!
Therefore, many years later, the son succeeded, and both father and son have their own ideas about the reasons for his success.