Reflections on Children's Emotional Psychology

? During the winter vacation, our art teaching and research group read the book "Children's Emotional Psychology" after discussion. A person's emotions and ability to control emotions directly affect his IQ and EQ, and play an inestimable role in his career and life. Therefore, more and more parents begin to pay attention to their children's emotional problems, hoping to help them develop good emotional management skills. In many problems, 80% are caused by parents and teachers who don't understand their children and don't have enough patience. The action suggestions in the book are extensive, which can be widely read to consolidate children's emotional knowledge. I have gained a lot in the process of reading this book.

? From the perspective of scientific theory, there is no difference between good and bad emotions, but positive emotions will lead to good behavior and negative emotions will lead to bad behavior. Similarly, there are positive emotions and negative emotions that affect children's behavior, that is, "positive emotions" and "negative emotions". Among people's emotions, optimism, positivity, self-confidence and peace are positive, while anger, fear, sadness and anxiety are negative. Scientific research shows that negative emotions will not only affect children's physical and mental health, but also have a negative impact on children's life and career; Positive emotions help to cultivate children's good character and improve their cognitive level and social skills. In short, positive emotions can have a positive impact on children and achieve a happy life for children; Children who grow up in negative emotions will be adversely affected in their personality development and growth path. Therefore, if you want to be a qualified parent, you should not only take care of your child's life, but also help him manage his emotions.

? Children, like adults, have rich emotional experiences, but because of their limited cognitive level, they are often unable to detect their emotional changes, let alone manage their emotions effectively. Therefore, as parents and teachers, we should first be good at observing, be familiar with all kinds of emotions shown by children, and understand the reasons why children have such emotions. Only in this way can we prescribe the right medicine, eliminate children's negative emotions and encourage children to develop positive emotions.

? Of course, we should not only help children learn healthy emotional expression, but also control their emotions. It takes a long time to cultivate more positive emotions, but in any case, it must be remembered that emotions should be channeled, not suppressed.