When someone tells you "I'll call you another day and treat you next time", don't ask when the other day is and when the next time is. You have to understand that being called is just an excuse. You don't really want to call you or invite you to dinner. In the world of adults, many times some words don't need to be made clear, so you have to experience and understand them yourself.
No matter how good a friend or relative, don't borrow money. There is no currency exchange. Once there is money exchange, even the best relationship may break down.
Most people do not like their jobs. Adults talk less about love and more about responsibility. If you don't have the ability, take care of your own survival first and take care of your family. It's not too late to do what you like when you have the ability. People who always ignore their families and want to do what they like are too naive.
In this world, no one really wants you to live better than your parents and the other half. Therefore, try to show your goodness as little as possible, and sometimes learn to lower yourself in front of others and be a low-key person, so that others will be willing to be friends with you.
6. Many people just want to make money. They really just "think" and never want to take action. The biggest gap between people actually lies in action. So, when you take action, you have won many people.
7. Don't talk about your goals. If you don't succeed, you will be laughed at. Before you do something, just keep your goal in mind, and if you do it, others will think you are great.
8. Never settle down in marriage. You will get it for a while, but not for a lifetime. The people I talked to were really different. I must find a suitable person so that my marriage can last. Sense of responsibility and fun are particularly important in marriage.
Don't be discouraged if you didn't get into a good university in the college entrance examination. When I first graduated, the diploma was very important, and it was a stepping stone. But with the passage of time, the role of diploma becomes weaker and weaker, and your professional ability becomes more and more important. Therefore, it is more important to improve your professional skills than to lament the failure of the college entrance examination.
10. Graduation doesn't mean you don't have to study. Society is also a university, but in this university, there is no formal examination like in the school, and social life is an examination room every day. People should keep learning all their lives. If you don't make progress, you will be left behind by others. Life is like this. If you don't advance, you will retreat.
1 1. What a person does after eight hours off work really determines what kind of person he can become in the future. Therefore, when you are young, make more use of your spare time. If you don't know what to do, read a book, at least better than brushing your mobile phone or chatting.
12. If you want to get in touch with powerful people, you must make yourself powerful. The dialogue between people is actually equal. You associate with the people you are. Circles are particularly important, so we should strive to improve our own circles.
13. Money can bring a sense of security, so don't think talking about money is vulgar. When you have experienced the pain of having no money, you will know that having money on you is really a very good thing. Money can't solve everything, but it can solve more than 99.99% of your troubles and make your life worry-free.
14. Say less that I don't have time to do it. Time is the fairest for everyone. It depends on whether you want to.
15. Even if you go to work, you should have entrepreneurial thinking and treat yourself as your boss. Don't always feel that you are led by a salary and don't want to do more things. It is good for you to learn more. In this life, people must live and learn, and always maintain a learning attitude, so that they will not be eliminated.
16. It is really useful to read more books, although the effect will not be seen in the short term. Reading can not only improve one's quality, but also improve one's horizons. People who can't read will understand everything as soon as they speak.
17. Effort is useful, but choice is more important than effort. As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. If you choose the wrong career, it is likely that no matter how hard you try, you will not achieve your goal. Therefore, when choosing, we must carefully consider it. If you make the right choice and work harder, you will get twice the result with half the effort.
18. There is no need to pour out your heart to anyone, just leave some heartfelt words for yourself and learn to deal with your negative emotions. After all, everyone is busy and no one wants to listen to you unconditionally.
19. You must understand the principle of reciprocity. If someone invites you to dinner today, you must find an opportunity to invite someone to dinner tomorrow, so that the relationship between friends can be better maintained. If you just want to take advantage of others in interpersonal relationships, you will eventually find that people around you are gradually leaving you.
20. It's nothing to eat a small loss in everything. A person who knows how to take the initiative to suffer losses in life must be very popular. I believe many people will be willing to help him when he is in trouble. Losing money is sometimes a blessing.
2 1. Most of the pain in life comes from comparison and greed. Therefore, if you want to live a happy life, you must learn to be a contented person, not greedy, and keep up with others. People have different starting points and origins, less than others and more than themselves in the past. As long as you are better today than in the past, that is the greatest thing.
22. "Reliable" is more difficult than "awesome". It is difficult to be a great person, but you can try to be a reliable person. Whether at work or in life, give people a reliable image, and others will dare to tell you anything in the future, then you are a very powerful person.
23. Friends, no matter how busy, should always greet each other and care for each other. After leaving the society, even the best friendship, if not maintained, will also lose contact. Don't keep in touch with others all year round. Borrow money or need other people's help as soon as you get in touch. In this case, it is natural for others not to help you.
24. Don't complain that others don't help you. This is an obligation to help you, not to help you. When you are in trouble or trouble, someone is willing to help you, so you should thank each other. When the other person needs help, you must lend a helping hand. Don't take it for granted that others help you. In the adult world, all behaviors are based on equivalent exchange. People who can really help you unconditionally are very valuable. When you meet them, cherish each other.
25. Good health is very important, especially after work. If you don't strengthen your exercise, your body will easily collapse, so you must keep exercising. Don't try to make money when you are young. When you are old, you will spend all the money you earned when you were young on medical insurance, which is not worth the candle.
26. Don't ask people's privacy, even their best friends, such as how much they work and how much money they save. Asking will hurt each other's feelings. People should have a sense of space and distance. As the saying goes, distance produces beauty.
27. Girls do have great advantages in being good-looking, and so do boys. But this is just a stepping stone. In the end, everything depends on your actual professional ability. Professional ability determines how far you can go.
28. Life is not about who runs fast, but about who goes further. So, don't care about temporary pride or frustration. Life has ups and downs. It's normal. Those who can gradually accumulate themselves when they are lost and finally make a comeback are the most remarkable.
29. Love yourself first. No matter friendship or love, we should love ourselves seven points and three points. Only when you know how to love yourself can you get the love of others.
Don't vent your temper on the people closest to you, especially parents and lovers. Save the best for the people closest to you.
What's in life, but the sooner you know, the better:
1, regret is the most useless thing.
2, free is actually the most expensive.
3. Planning efforts are not equal to efforts.
4. The essence of social communication is value exchange.
5. Cultivate your own insensitivity appropriately.
6. Investing in yourself is more reliable than investing in anything.
7. Being afraid to do it is more terrible than being unsuccessful.
8, don't casually debunk other people's bragging games.
9. The biggest difference between people lies in the depth of thought.
10, 80% of the pain that most people experience is caused by themselves.
1 1, effort is very important, but choice is more important.
12, no regrets about the past, no doubts about the future.
13, don't believe this "reading is useless" bullshit.
14, don't be afraid of loneliness. People are strong because of loneliness.
15, don't bother others if you can.
16, don't do things on impulse, dozens of seconds before the conflict.
17, don't always listen to others, have your own opinions.
18, problems that money can't solve are more difficult to solve with other things.
19, whether it is friendship or love, it can stand the test before you see your heart.
20. Kindness is a warm force and a circle of love.
2 1, never listen to what a person says, but watch what he does.
22. Set a threshold for your kindness, otherwise it is easy to stab yourself.
What is precious is not the experience, but the reflection and summary after your experience.
24. Some people want you to live well, but no one wants you to live better than him.
Your only weakness is that you don't study well, think too much and do too little.
26. Remember to write an IOU when borrowing money, no matter how good a friend you are.
Be kind to the people closest to you, only they can tolerate you infinitely.
28. Never trust those successful people who say: My success can be replicated.
29, regardless of men and women, don't lower your mate selection criteria because of loneliness.
30. Being a good person with thorns, the more correct your attitude, the less likely you are to be bullied.
3 1, silently improve yourself and be a "goldfish in a salted fish coat."
32. You will never make more money than you know.
Don't make a decision at night, because night is the worst time for self-control.
34. Good love is based on two people growing up together.
A true friend doesn't need to keep in touch, but if you are in trouble, I will be by your side.
36. Don't be too humble when hanging out. Only people with personality can win the respect of others.
37. Refuse when it's time to refuse. I'm sorry. People who embarrass you are not good people.
38. Don't be in a hurry to fall in love. You are still young at the age of 20. Getting rid of poverty before the age of 30 is more important than getting rid of the bill.
39. The so-called luck is that you happen to have the strength and you can seize the opportunity when it comes. This is luck.
40, remember to save money, no one knows when tomorrow and accidents will come, no deposit means no ability to resist risks.
4 1, depravity is a privilege. When you want to do it, see how long the backer behind you can last.
42. If you like someone, go after him bravely. Don't leave any regrets for yourself. People will live all their lives. Do you want to live in regret all your life?
43. Never expect too much from others' promises. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment, and there will be surprises without expectations.
44. People who make you feel comfortable around you are not gentle in character, but have higher emotional intelligence than you.
45. If you want to improve your ability, you should challenge what you can't do. The more challenges, the faster growth.
46. Spend more time with your parents and make more phone calls when you are not around. Repaying their kindness and parents' life is really getting less and less every day.
47. In life, everyone's biggest cost is time. You can waste time appropriately, but you can't always consume time.
48. When you encounter something, don't immerse yourself in emotions. Try to solve the problem, so that you will reduce your troubles by 80% and accomplish a lot of things.
49. Failure once doesn't mean you can't. Everything can be reversed. But if you give up on yourself, you really can't.
No matter what you do, someone will criticize you. Anything can be done as long as it is not illegal. You can even go further and annoy those who can only talk.
5 1, few people are overvalued, but many people are underestimated, so you don't have to be sad or doubt yourself in the face of others' ridicule. You just need to be yourself. After all, who you are, only you have the final say.
52. There may be some unfair things in life.
For example, you will see people who are not as good as you, but better than you, but it doesn't matter. Trying to beat them is proof of your excellent ability.
I am the wind in the distant forest, walking and watching, measuring every beauty with my heart.
Welcome to share the little things around you and interpret the fireworks in the city.
I'll give you nine minutes. You are welcome to take them with you.
1. People with high values are really more likely to succeed than those with low values.
So, be sure to clean yourself up. You don't have to use a knife.
But you must be clean and tidy.
Most people around you have no independent thoughts.
I can only speak like others and can't think at all.
So, when you start thinking,
You have opened the gap with them.
Don't care about their eyes, just move on.
Reading is really useful, especially for an ordinary child.
So, when you have no succession to the throne,
When you don't know the way to struggle,
Just study hard.
Only money can gain respect.
So, don't be dealt good cards again.
You are kind, which is your advantage.
Ordinary people can't appreciate that level,
Only money can make them respect you.
By the same token, if you are useful, you will be respected.
So, don't think about heart for heart, loyalty,
The principle of getting along with others is to be useful to each other.
Everyone is busy. Let's talk about money instead of feelings.
6. Being poor is not terrible, but being busy is more terrible than being poor.
Whether you're in booth 996 or delivering a courier,
You are diligent every day, and you are on the road to struggle every day.
But you find that you can't finish the original accumulation at all.
So we must use our brains, and it is very important to choose the right path.
In addition, poverty is not terrible, and what is more terrible than poverty is that there is no hope.
Nowadays, many people are working dolls.
After work, I have no spirit during the holiday.
I don't want to go out, I don't want to meet guests, I just want to sleep and stay at home.
Live a hopeless life like a walking corpse.
No one wants you to live well except your parents.
Don't trust the faces of relatives and friends,
When you have a bad life, they really mean well and just pity you.
When you are happy, they are jealous and even want you to be down and out.
People are kind and want others to live well.
The premise is not to be better than yourself.
Especially people you know.
9. Don't make friends/fall in love with people with poor economic level.
Because normality and gratitude are scarce,
One side's mentality is easily out of balance,
Lick the dog or be jealous,
Therefore, it is ok to associate with people who are similar to their own circles.