What is the most appropriate word to measure the quality of life? Happiness? Two words, but happiness is always one step away from me, I can't catch it. In fact, happiness is fleeting in every short moment. If you don't experience it in time, you will slip away from your feelings. If you lose every short moment, you lose the whole process of happiness. There are many elements of happiness, and there are also many feelings of happiness. Happiness, excitement, joy and warmth all give our spiritual space incomparable beauty and unlimited relaxation to our bodies. Therefore, the feeling of happiness is not an abstract concept, but something concrete brings us. Worrying about food, clothing, housing and transportation is happiness, love is sweet, family happiness is happiness, good health and smooth work are happiness, and harmonious communication is also happiness. People with these elements of happiness are of course happy, but the degree of happiness is different. Happiness is just around the corner, and you may not feel it. Therefore, people who know how to feel happy are lucky. He can make every happiness element extend circumferentially, expand the radius of happiness and surround himself. Like what? Aesthetic fatigue? People cannot appreciate more beauty. Do you feel tired? People will not experience more happiness.
Happy people have the same characteristics, while unhappy people have different reasons. Happiness is the common feature of everyone who is happy, and unhappy people will not be happy. However, the triviality of life, the pressure of work, the frustration of feelings and the disappointment of wishes will make us unhappy. Idealist philosophers believe that human consciousness determines existence, and the heart gives birth to everything. Modern people also say that mentality determines everything, and attitude determines fate. It all makes sense. Most sources of unhappiness have something to do with our hearts. Often our desires exceed the reality of happiness, our imagination exceeds our actual ability, and our pressure exceeds our motivation. Everything is not satisfied. You want more material things, more power, more praise and more heart? If you think too much, you will lose more. In fact, it's not that you get less, but that the gap between your wish and your actual realization is too big. Cold scissors make you look embarrassed.
Happiness is always in an instant, and the process of hard work is arduous and tortuous. At the moment of success, the feeling of happiness always invades the body, but the time that this feeling exists is inversely proportional to the degree of your efforts. That is to say, the greater the effort you make, the shorter the time you feel happy, which is followed by a dull mood, but you feel a little relieved psychologically, the degree of excitement gradually cools down, and the feeling of happiness is quickly diluted by the hardships of hard work. People who get something for nothing are often excited, not really happy, and can't really understand the meaning of the harvest itself. More likely, it encourages the increase of desire. In contrast, unexpected gains often give people more surprises and last longer. It has gained countless times with less energy. In retrospect, it is a sense of accomplishment, and a sense of accomplishment is happiness. If you want to keep yourself happy, you should always expand your sense of happiness, try to reduce the memories of avoiding pain, find happy elements in life, string together some beautiful memories, and constantly add bright and warm colors to your life.
Happiness is plain, plain doesn't mean mediocrity, happiness is free and easy, free and easy doesn't mean sloppy, happiness is positive and enterprising, positive and enterprising doesn't mean quick success, happiness is an Enron detachment, and Enron detachment doesn't mean complacency?
The connotation of happiness is rich, the answer to happiness is not unique, and the discussion about happiness will never stop.
Sweet love, sweet prose, sweet love in poetry.
You must remember.
A quiet mountain forest covered with moss.
Remember when you accidentally fell into my arms.
Since then, I have been grateful to Moss.
Appreciate the quiet mountain forest
They sent you into my arms.
Let me feel the sweetness of love
You must remember.
That quiet and foggy night.
Remember the moon halo, because it is hazy.
That's why I dare to look at you boldly.
Dare to kiss you secretly
Since then, I have been grateful to the moon.
Grateful halo
It's them who hold you in their arms.
Let me feel the sweetness of love
I never thought.
We fell into a ditch by the side of the road
What a mess!
Otherwise, I won't have a chance to carry you behind my back.
You'll never feel it
The tenderness and sweetness of your leaning on my back
You'll never feel it
Your hair is dripping on my neck, which makes me itch.
You will never feel it.
From the warmth and softness of your lips
No one knows my mind better than moss.
So it sent you to my arms.
No one knows my mind better than the canal.
So it put you on my back.
No one knows my mind better than the moon halo.
So it surrounds you in my heart.
No one knows our thoughts better than the moon.
So it can read our minds.
I know that such a beautiful thing is far away from us.
But every time I think about it,
I still think
The story that once happened is so close to us.
It seems like last night.
As if it were today.
I know we are all old.
No matter how romantic, I will no longer patronize the mossy bamboo forest.
No matter how healthy you are, you will never return to your prime.
But we can recall
Can recall
You can have a good memory.
I know I can't go behind your back anymore.
But I can guard your bed day and night.
Watch your hair turn white under the energy-saving lamp.
Dilute gradually
I still have the strength to lift your stiff head.
And you can feed sugary water to your mouth.
You slowly stretch out your shriveled hand.
Grab my arm like firewood.
Then slowly pull it to your bed.
My hand.
I felt warm at once.
As sweet as love.
Sweet love, sweet prose, sweet love in poetry.
My love is like grass,
It's lush,
Hiding in the mountains,
But no one knows.
I have been sleeping alone,
You appeared before my eyes in my sleep,
My eyes are the stars at your window,
Looking at you affectionately every night.
Reach for the stars, even in vain.
Missing is sweet melancholy,
It can turn people's natural jealousy into sadness,
Into affection,
Bright as moonlight.
I want to kiss you, honey,
You are like a piece of candy,
So sweet, clingy and happy;
I want to smell you, honey,
You are like a flower,
So fragrant, so beautiful, so elegant, so beautiful.
I can't believe how wonderful it is to love you.
Now I realize that a kiss is so sweet,
Like the summer sunshine,
It contains your gentleness to me.