? After experiencing the collision between dreams and reality, when we find that our fighting spirit is exhausted by this reality, young people have gone through many vicissitudes, so they are no longer young. The burden on my shoulders is getting heavier and heavier, the smile on my face is getting more and more stiff, and the number of times I go home is getting less and less. Son, it's my father. I'm sorry. This childhood should have been accompanied by me as a father, but I can only watch you standing alone at the intersection, counting the buses that flew by, but I took away a little bit of your expectation again and again.
? This is the helplessness and sadness of all young fathers in this era in the late 1980s and early 1990s. Their background is far away from home, like migratory birds, and they work on their way home all the year round. Son, you know that when you were born, I stayed outside the delivery room. At that time, I was so excited as if the whole world belonged to me. There is the joy of being a new father and the fear of welcoming a new life. As a father, I have no other expectations, only hope that you can thrive and have a happy life.
? Son, it's my father. I'm sorry. When you were a toddler, your father couldn't see you stubbornly get up from the ground for the first time. When you babble, your father can't be with you and listen to you shout out the word "dad" that is not very clever. Later, when you complained on the phone that I couldn't give you your birthday, your immature tone was full of disappointment, which made me sad at the other end of the phone.
? Son, in fact, dad also wants to come back to accompany you. In spring, we will go for an outing and catch butterflies with you. In summer, I teach you to swim and catch fish with your bare hands in the river. In autumn, we will sketch together and teach you to draw yellow leaves all over the mountain. In winter, we take you to have a snowball fight in parent-child clothes and make a snowman in the open snow.
? It's just my father's injustice that I can't tell you. Because father wants to be your hero forever. Because dad doesn't want you to see him decadent when he fails, in fact, dad is not as great as you think, but he will feel glad for a long time because of your sentence "Dad is the greatest person in the world". Father is just one of so many ordinary people. My child, please forgive my father for cheating you for so long. In fact, my father didn't carry out the secret work of defending the earth. My father is just an ordinary member of this factory. He works late every day, and the work on the assembly line is boring and imprisons freedom. After my father was afraid to tell you this fact, my image in your mind collapsed instantly. Please forgive my father's selfishness.
? Your mother called me the day before yesterday and said that this month's expenses were running out. I've worked hard on the assembly line all day, but I still can't give you a rich life. As a father, I feel that my life is really a failure. In the eyes of leaders, I am a cheap labor force. But in the eyes of you and your mother, I just hold up the sky of this family. So I can't fall down and I can't back down. Son, dad will turn out your picture and look at it again and again before going to bed every day. When I feel that I can't support myself at work, just thinking about you will rekindle my fighting spirit. For you, father is worth doing anything. There is a calendar at my bedside. My greatest wish is that when this calendar is torn to the last few pages, because the thought of holding you in my arms again makes me so excited that I can't sleep all night.
? This should be what a young father who has been wandering all the year round wants to say to his children. In the face of affection and reality, the young father, as the pillar of the family, can only choose to give up affection and leave his hometown to earn family rations.
? I also watched a program like this the other day, which was about what left-behind children wanted to say to their parents. The little hero's name is Ouyang Shuangrong. Since she was born, her parents have been working outside and rarely come back several times a year. Although her grandparents are very kind to her, she is still unhappy from the bottom of her heart. Whenever she sees other children's birthdays, she will be accompanied by her parents. She can't help asking, "Mom and Dad, will you come back?"
? The scene that moved me the most was that she never spent her birthday with her parents. On her birthday, she expressed her greatest wish on this stage. With the help of the media, she repeatedly asked "Mom and Dad, will you come back?" In the end, I didn't get a response from the audience. Although she didn't see her parents, she was extremely disappointed at that time, but she told her parents what she wanted to say through the media. "Mom and Dad, I miss you so much. I hope I can spend my birthday with you. "
? Maybe when this program is broadcast, the protagonist's parents may be sweating in the workshop, but when they see this program again, they will burst into tears. Son, it's not that dad doesn't want to go back with you for your birthday. It's just the delay and the round-trip fare. How many gifts can Dad buy for you? Maybe in the little hero's heart, she just wants to have a birthday with her parents. But in the eyes of this father, if he gives up the job at hand, it means that he can never give you a life with a material foundation, so the two are always contradictory, and there is no right or wrong.
? Perhaps, the hero's father also wants to say sorry to the child. Maybe my father doesn't want to stay with the little princess all the time and celebrate her birthday until the rest of her life. There is not a father in this world who doesn't love his children. But in order to live, even if I live like a dog, I must persist, so, my child, I am sorry! Please forgive my father for not being with you all the time.