1. If you love someone, love him as a whole and love him as he is, instead of hoping that he will be like this or that way out of reality?
2 .Eating is beneficial only when you are hungry. Likewise, interacting with others is beneficial only when you are loving.
3. The reason for this series of terrible changes in him was simply that he no longer believed in himself and turned to trusting others. As for the reason why he no longer believes in himself and trusts others, it is because if he believes in himself, life will become too difficult: believing in himself means that when dealing with various problems, he cannot consider the pursuit of easy and happy physical self, and Almost always against him; trusting others means that there is no need to deal with any problems, all problems have been solved, and the principle of solving problems always does not consider the spiritual self, but only the physical self.
4. People are like rivers. The water in all rivers is the same, and the water is the same everywhere. However, the water in every river is narrow in some places, wide in some places, and rapid in some places. , some places are flat. Everyone has the germs of various natures. Sometimes they show one kind of nature, sometimes they show that kind of nature, and sometimes they become completely different, but in fact they are still the same person.
5. He felt that he had no way to solve the various evils in social reality. Later, he found the answer in the Bible: instead of hating the enemy, one must love the enemy.
6. We live in the world with an absurd belief that we ourselves are the masters of life and that life is for enjoyment. This is patently absurd. You know, since we are sent into the world, it is out of someone's will and to achieve a certain purpose. But we conclude that we live only for our own happiness. Obviously, we will not end well, just like the farmer who did not carry out the will of the owner. The master's will is expressed in those commandments. As long as people implement those precepts, heaven will be established on earth and people can achieve supreme happiness.
7. Strange to say, this kind of admission of one's own despicable mood is certainly painful, but at the same time it makes people happy and at ease.
8. What he calls the cleaning of the soul refers to a state of mind: often after a long period of time, he suddenly feels that his inner life is tired, and sometimes even stops. , and began to clear out all the rubbish that had accumulated in his soul and was the cause of this pause. ... From that time to today, he has not cleaned his soul for a long time, so he has never been so dirty, and there has never been a gap between what his conscience demands and the life he lives. There has never been such an incongruity. When he saw this gap, he couldn't help but feel frightened.
9. At that time, he felt that the world was a secret, and he tried every means to unlock the secret with joy and passion. Now he feels that everything in reality is simple and clear, and everything is determined by where he is. Determined by the real environment.
——Leo Tolstoy's "Resurrection"
10. Although hundreds of thousands of people live in a small area, they try their best to make the land It was ruined beyond recognition, even though they smashed rocks into the ground wantonly, preventing flowers, plants and trees from growing, even though they wiped out the newly unearthed grass, burned coal and oil until the smoke was rising, even though they cut down trees and drove away birds and animals, in the In the city, spring is still spring after all.
11. At that time, what he thought was necessary and important was to get in touch with nature, and to get in touch with the predecessors who had lived, thought, and been in contact with (such as contact with philosophy and poetry). Now he thinks it is necessary and important. It’s man-made rules and regulations, and interacting with colleagues.
12. At that time, he was an honest and self-sacrificing young man, ready to devote himself to all good causes. Now he has become a dissolute and outright egoist, who only loves his own things. Enjoy.
13. Wherever the grass has not been hoed, it is green and full of life
14. To what extent do people live their lives according to their own thoughts? Submitting to other people's ideas is one of the major differences between people.
15. There is a terrible beastiality in human nature. If this beastiality is not exposed, but is hidden deep under the so-called poetic appearance, it will be even more terrible
16. Whether it’s flowers, plants, trees, birds, insects, or children, they are all happy and full of life. Only people, only adults, have been deceiving themselves, torturing themselves and others. What they think is sacred and important is not this charming spring morning, nor the beauty in the world created by God for the benefit of all living beings, the kind of beauty that makes all things tend to peace, harmony, and mutual love; what they think is sacred and important is themselves Various means invented to rule others.
17. At that time, women were mysterious and charming, and it was precisely because of mystery that they were charming creations; now, except for women at home and wives of friends, the functions of all women are very clear: women It was the best tool for enjoyment he had ever tried.
18. At that time, he thought that the spiritual person was the real me; now he thinks that the strong, energetic, animalistic me is himself.
19. Always forgive everyone, forgive others countless times, because no one in the world is sinless, no one does not need forgiveness, and therefore no one has the power to punish Or correct someone else.
20. If you like to recall, then only recall pleasant past events.