Gu and Jiangnan Zheng have different ideas, so they can't go to the end. Male customer Ye Yi was born in a military family. He was ambitious from an early age, which made him a professional. Jiangnan Zheng, who grew up in his parents' family, is a loveless character. Her mother's love life has a great influence on her, forcing her to need more society and love. She joined the army to find her father. She hasn't seen her father since she was born. The reason is that she needs a loving partner. Her father is very similar to her husband. They are all committed to their own careers, and their contact with their mothers is getting closer and closer. Many contradictions eventually led to their divorce. Being with the man, this is a love story similar to her parents, and she ended up dead.
The man and Zheng Jiangnan first met in Huahai, and they gave Whitman's handwritten poems to him to express their feelings. After being forced to break up and suffering from withdrawal and war, the two finally came together. This unacceptable love finally blessed everyone. But at that time, the death of his comrade-in-arms broke everything, and the scar that the man didn't want to touch was rediscovered. When the man learned that his mother was seriously ill in hospital, he sent the old man to a hospital thousands of miles away and paid the medical expenses. The man looked back at the crying Axiu and decided to take good care of Axiu.
Compared with the southern expedition, they can understand and support Gu better, which is also an important prerequisite for their marriage. There are too few people like Axiu who can understand this man. Even his good friends think he can handle anything. He needs someone to support him and understand him. If he is hired by the front line and the army, his wife should give him great support. Axiu is a strong woman. She can support her family alone. Can unconditionally support men's careers. Axiu stood on the motorcycle, bid farewell to the train driver, and shouted that he must repay the country well. She doesn't want to give up, she knows better. So Axiu should be the one who knows him best and can support him best.
Gu is a very responsible person. He couldn't bear to see Axiu suffer alone, so he married a man from Axiu and grew up in the army. His father is also very demanding of him. He has high standards and self-discipline. His intense military training day after day did not hide his gentle heart. He always does the right thing, takes responsibility, and never superficial. When people come out of the pain of war and accept the promotion of military schools, men are always immersed in sadness. He feels incomplete. Comrades are all dead. Why did he go to war? He does not allow the blood of his comrades-in-arms to enter the world of weapons, enjoy military exploits, study and have a beautiful love.
His strong sense of mission made him feel that he had to do something. The man's father hopes that he can give up his inner tenderness and sensitivity and become a strong person. But his sense of mission forced him to save Axiu. He took everything by himself.
That man can't lift his head. He doesn't know what to do, because he has never experienced these things. When sending Zhang Fei back, he seemed relieved and ready for a better life. But the letter from the station and Axiu's crying in the hospital pushed him down again and again through his comrades-in-arms and fate.
Although he escaped from himself and reality again and again, it was meaningless. His inner guilt and remorse poured in like the sea. He can't turn a blind eye to Axiu's experience. His inner sense of mission and responsibility forced him to give up his bright future and take care of it.