Unbearable Lightness
I like riding a bicycle on sparsely populated roads. Occasionally, a few pedestrians look sideways at my back from the road. I like that kind of excitement and wildness. , at that moment, I didn’t have to look at other people’s eyes, I kept looking forward. This was the only release in my life.
In "The Unbearable Lightness of Being", Kundera is trying to release and let people abandon the "kitsch" of the world. After experiencing the failure of his marriage, the protagonist Thomas can be said to have completely forgotten the responsibilities of life and acted wantonly. Being dissolute and living among countless mistresses became his life principle. However, in the end, he chose marriage again for Teresa, and finally kept that marriage until the end of his life. In the end, the novel concluded: We We have no choice but must choose. We are against kitsch and we are kitsch all the time. Kundera had doubts about the ultimate meaning of life, but he still did not deny it in the end because he could not deny it. We can never live in a so-called completely ideal world. We have the right to pursue it, but we are doomed to fail at the beginning of doubt. So I thought of Li Shutong intentionally or unintentionally. Maybe he chose to escape into Buddhism just to escape the "kitsch" of society. It seems incredible and irresponsible to everyone. Does this count as escaping "kitsch"? , how can we be sure that this will not be another kind of "kitsch"? How can we distinguish the lightness and weight of life? In the end, how do we explain the unbearable lightness and unbearable weight of our lives? This is a question for which there is no answer. Just like Kundera's doubts, they are just doubts but cannot be solved.
Just like we can never find an exact evaluation standard for right and wrong in this world, we are accustomed to using moral standards to condemn some things we think are wrong. However, law and morality cannot be completely consistent. Everyone has the right to choose their own attitude towards life and have their own thoughts. We have our own thoughts, so in all fields of sociology, we cannot find anything that can be called truth. We have been arguing between idealism and materialism, and no one can convince anyone. No one can find a reason for everyone to accept who is right, so we each stick to our own principles and opinions, thinking that is the truth.
We suddenly find that we live to convince others and convince others to recognize our own values ??in life, but we forget that when you are trying to convince others, others are also trying to convince you. We all have the right to choose our own life attitudes and values. Everyone’s thoughts can never be on the same track, so why can’t we choose to just convince ourselves? Let others see your attitude without asking others to follow your attitude. There are many things in life that we personally cannot bear. The existence of heterogeneity advocated by postmodernism may not be absolutely correct, but it can at least give us a certain release. Why are we still wondering how to live until now? Are you worried in the eyes of others?
The problem that Kundera suspected and tried to solve was not solved in the end, because there are others while people are alive, and this world does not belong to one person. And does this mean that we must be "kitsch" and must always live in the eyes of others? In fact, most of us are like this. We tend to make excuses for ourselves. We choose to endure everything that we should not or should endure, and the only thing we have never truly lived for ourselves is once. We often lament after the passage of time that we have strayed further and further away from the original track. While we are remembering, we are still complaining and complaining about this society, but the fact is that we never have the courage to choose our own life, and we are always following others. We don’t have to be like Thomas in his completely irresponsible wantonness. But we have the right to choose what we desire, instead of constantly denying ourselves for the eyes of others and constantly walking in other people's paths. In the end, we find that this is the road paved for you by this society, and you are just one of countless people. One, your values ??are given to you by others. Your original things are thrown far away by you and can never be found again. When you get old, you can symbolically sigh at the dead vines and old trees. We are so "kitsch" that we can't be more "kitsch".
We should never complain to others. All this is our own choice, and complaining about ourselves can only be a denial of our own choices. Regreting on what we have chosen is not the attitude towards life we ??should have at all. . Living with the attitude of everyone in the world is the beginning of our "kitsch". What we call "light as a feather" may become the most unbearable pain for you in the end. Any choice in this world may be interpreted as "kitsch". And we cannot use this reason to deny ourselves and live in the eyes of others. The lightness and weight of our lives should be chosen by ourselves and ultimately borne by ourselves. No matter whether we can bear it in the end, it is always better than what others choose. In the end, it makes sense to bear it yourself!
I enjoy the feeling of running alone on the road as always, exciting and wild. Anyone can see my posture and back, but I can't see their eyes, and my eyes are always looking ahead. After the turn, it's smooth sailing and then enters the next unknown turn!
Waving your clothes and sleeves to fight against each other
Waving your clothes and sleeves to fight against others is a kind of courage that is rare in life and a rare extreme in life.
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Generally open-minded people will feel that love is gone, so the two of them just become friends, which was not as good as before.
It's rare to have a chance to be destined in this life, but even if we don't, we are still friends. However, I don't think so. If love is gone, it's better to wave our clothes and sleeves and fight each other. Everyone should focus on their own lives and not infringe on each other.
Perhaps, people like me will be mistaken for being ruthless and unjust, but this is not the case. Some people will say that no matter what, the old feelings are still there, why should we go to such extreme lengths to deny the past? I used to think that it would be a good choice to keep some good memories, but now I feel that it is tiring to have too much room for thinking about many things in the past.
People, why do you keep asking for trouble for yourself? In a previous love, it didn't matter who was right or wrong, but it no longer felt like it was in the past tense. For things in the past, missing each other too much is just too much entanglement in life. Most of the time, we people are looking for trouble. We hold a bunch of messy pasts and turn them over and count them, but we still end up with tears in our eyes. Then, just let it go and forget it. There is no need to wrong yourself or beg others.
Some people like to betray a so-called love. In order to show their guilt, they pretend to be friends with you and confess a few times from time to time. Perhaps, in order to show his hypocritical demeanor, I am extremely disdainful of such people, and I don't even have the intention to snort. He is obviously a villain, but he pretends to be a gentleman, but the result is still sanctimonious, which is really ridiculous. How tiring is it to deal with such people? It is really cruel to oneself to wave one's clothes and sleeves with such a person and fight against each other without making any distinction. Why should you wrong yourself because of the so-called hypocrisy in the past?
In fact, many times, after waving your clothes and sleeves to fight, you will feel that your sky is very bright, and the blue sky and white clouds are so comfortable. Sometimes after facing dark clouds for a long time, you look up and find that the white clouds are even whiter. If your eyes are always facing the hazy sky with dark clouds, how can you have other moods to appreciate the pleasing blue sky and white clouds?
To wave one's clothes and sleeves, and to fight against each other, sometimes is not a kind of ruthlessness and righteousness, but an abandonment of a mistake and a re-examination of a new life. Only when we protect ourselves can we love ourselves to the greatest extent and love others well. Is it really cruel to myself to have been troubled by many hopeless past experiences? We cannot be cruel to others, nor can we be cruel to ourselves. Wave your sleeves well and say goodbye to the past; make a good fight and say goodbye to your old love.
Waving one's clothes and sleeves to draw a fight is a kind of straightforwardness and a kind of neatness. Many times, we are indecisive. Such judgments and hesitations still tire ourselves out. It's better to flick your sleeves and let everything go with the wind; it's better to wave your pen in a circle and let everything disappear. This kind of simplicity and neatness does not require too much thinking. Sometimes the more you think, the more delayed the action will be, making people wander and wander again, and sometimes they will make wrong decisions one after another. In life, I am afraid that if there are constant interruptions, I will suffer from chaos instead. Therefore, when it is time to take action, it is better to take action easily.
It also takes a kind of courage to bear to wave your clothes and sleeves and fight against each other. Sometimes the secular perspective may not be correct, and public opinion tends to follow the crowd. A person who likes to explain and a person who does not like to explain, it can be seen that which one is favored by the public. An addict often likes to explain too much, maybe to win sympathy, maybe to cover up mistakes...
Under the exaggeration of this kind of people, maybe sometimes white becomes black, What was black was wiped out into white. Some people may say that I am being ridiculous and unreasonable, but I have met such people and encountered such things. Now that I think about it, I really want to laugh in bed. How can someone be so shameless? However, this also requires courage and is not something ordinary people can do. However, as long as you have courage, everything will still be good for you.
Waving your clothes and sleeves to fight, sometimes it is a decisive momentum. Many times we timidly want to show our magnanimity and friendliness, but instead we are taken advantage of, and then we sneer at your helplessness and ignorance. Life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes being cruel to yourself may not be a bad thing. You can't keep tearfully trying to win the sympathy of others. It's better to protect yourself first and love yourself well.
Waving the clothes and sleeves, marking the ground for war. Say goodbye to the past and live a calm and calm life.
The years are quiet, and we move forward calmly
When I am alone, I like to make a cup of green tea, play some music, and immerse myself in my heart. In the melodious melody, scenes flash past the eyes one after another, either as clear as a painting or as light as smoke. Time really waits for no one, flowers bloom and fade, clouds roll and relax, time grows old, and hair grows darkly. In the flow of day and night, people unknowingly have entered middle age.
The noisy years are gone like the wind, but the heart that has been tempered by life has become calm and soft, sowing the seeds of warmth, and sprouting a peaceful state of mind. No longer chasing prosperity, knowing that time is a ruthless sword that will amuse everything in the world. It is inevitable that good flowers will be colorful all over the place, and the grand scene will have a dark day. Only those ordinary years accompany our simple life, looking at the long stream of water, listening to the singing of birds and the fragrance of flowers, and walking together to the end of life.
Walking freely on the earth, I like the light scenery and the charm of ink painting.
I was amazed by the various forms of nature, and fell in love with its fresh beauty. Under the clear sky, surrounded by green mountains and green waters, with clear springs and rocks flowing up, the beautiful scenery was heart-stirring, and life was washed away from the dust in an instant. I appreciate a flower blooming in the rain, a pine standing on the top of a mountain, a line of water flowing in the wilderness, and a cloud floating in the sky. They have different postures, are free and unconventional, and are at peace with the situation. They face the sky and the earth indifferently, maintaining a quiet beauty away from the noise.
At this time, I couldn’t help but think of Rabindranath Tagore’s poem “Death is as quiet and beautiful as autumn leaves”. Autumn leaves are the last scenery of a leaf, and death is the moment when life ends. It is necessary to maintain a beautiful state when death comes, but it is too poignant and shocks people's hearts. Of course, "quality comes and goes clean again." When facing death, keeping your soul beautiful is not only a way to a noble life, but also a beautiful life. Jingmei cultivates an inner spirit and pays attention to her inner cultivation, which is more of a spiritual portrayal.
Everyone’s soul needs nourishment. In this fragrant season, I will welcome the peaceful spring breeze, along the winding path, to the vibrant wilderness, linger in the sea of ??flowers and green world, watch bees flying and butterflies dancing, and listen to skylarks singing. , the fresh air blows against your face, the melting warmth flows throughout your body, and a beautiful feeling quietly grows in your heart. On a rainy day in spring, choose a secluded place, hold your breath and listen to the rain by the window. The sound of the pattering rain is like the melody played by the guzheng. , have a wonderful time.
In the dead of night, a faint ray of light penetrated the room from the window and sprinkled a few rays of light on the ground. I am accustomed to spreading my thoughts in a silent world, and recording a lingering feeling with colorful and warm words. If life is a journey, happiness and sadness are the two long railroad tracks, following closely behind us. Optimists often see bright colors, while negative people often see dim images. What is rare in life is the freedom and leisure, the joy and comfort.
Life is a mirror. If you smile at it, it will laugh. If you cry at it, it will cry.
In this case, we might as well move forward with a smile and grow old leisurely and calmly. I hope that the tranquility of the years will stay in the world forever, like the indifferent smile on the lips, as warm as a flower, as warm as water, soft and harmonious, and continuous. And long...