When Bai Juyi 1 1 years old, he moved to Xuzhou mansion (now Su County, Anhui Province) with his mother, and his father was an official here. Then I met a neighbor woman who was four years younger than him. Her name is Xiang Ling, lively and lovely, and she knows a little about temperament, so they became childhood friends. When Bai Juyi 19 years old and Xiangling 15 years old, the seeds of love began their first love. Bai Juyi has a poem "Daughter Next Door", which recounts the fifteen-year-old Xiangling and praises her beauty and sweet voice.
In the 14th year of Zhenyuan (708), Bai Juyi was 27 years old. For the sake of family life and his future, he had to leave Fu and his uncle in Jiangnan. Along the way, he wrote three poems in memory of Xiangling. They are To Xiangling, Cold Night and Sauvignon Blanc. It can be clearly seen from the poem that Bai Juyi and Xiangling fell in love 17 years and 8 years. After I left, I not only missed each other, but also thought about getting married. But Xiangling is worried that her family is the lowest and she can't climb Bai Juyi. Finally, I expressed my sincere hope to work together step by step.
At the beginning of the sixteenth year of Zhenyuan, Bai Juyi was admitted to the Jinshi at the age of 29 and lived outside for nearly 10 months. She earnestly asked her mother to marry Xiangling, but her feudal mother refused. Bai Juyi left home with great pain. In the autumn of the twentieth year of Zhenyuan (7 14), Bai Juyi became a schoolmate in Chang 'an and needed to move his family to Chang 'an. After returning home, he begged his mother to allow him to marry Xiangling again, but his mother, who was more than anything else, not only refused his request again, but also refused to meet the whole family when they moved away. Their marriage was hopeless, but their deep love didn't end there. Bai Juyi punished his mother's mistake by not marrying others, and wrote three poems to commemorate Xiangling: Missing Xiangling on a Winter Night, Feeling Autumn and Farewell.
At the age of 37, Bai Juyi was forced to death by his mother and was introduced to marry his colleague Yang's sister. But until Yuanhe seven years ago, he still wrote poems for Miss Xiangling. Such as rain at night, sensors, etc. Later, on the way to Jiangzhou where Bai Juyi was wronged, he and Mrs. Yang met the wandering Xiangling father and daughter. Bai Juyi and Xiangling cried bitterly and wrote a poem entitled "Meet Old". At this time, Bai Juyi was 44 years old and Xiangling was 40 years old, but she was not married. In this poem, Bai Juyi uses the word hate again, which has nothing to do with the hate in Song of Eternal Sorrow. Therefore, Bai Juyi's personal experience of this tragedy laid the foundation for Song of Eternal Sorrow.
It was not until Bai Juyi was 53 years old that on his way back to Luo Jing, he saw the change of the old village neighbors, and Xiangling had disappeared, and this love tragedy that lasted for 35 years came to an end.
2. Poetry
the girl next door
Have a graceful demeanour fifteen wins the fairy, and Chang 'e dries the lotus in the daytime.
Where can I teach parrots to learn to talk? Embroidered bed under screen window.
Give it to Xiangling.
Cold eyes and tears, turn back every time you get higher.
If you know from a distance that you are not in the West Building, you have to lean against the railing and worry alone.
A cold boudoir night
It's so cold in the middle of the night that I can't sleep alone. The incense in the cage burns out, and the tears in the towel turn into ice.
Cherish the shadow and keep the light on all night.
Endless longing
Bianshui flow, Surabaya flow, flows to Guazhou ancient ferry. Wu Shan is a little sad. Think long and hate long, until it's time to pay back. Yuerenming first floor