The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death.
It's that I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you.
The furthest distance in the world is not when I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you.
But I love you so much that I can't say I love you.
The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I love you.
I miss you deeply, but I can only bury you deeply in my heart.
The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I miss you.
But love can't be together.
The furthest distance in the world is not loving each other, but not being together.
But pretending not to care when you know that true love is invincible.
The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between trees.
But branches born from the same root can't depend on each other in the wind.
The furthest distance in the world is not that branches cannot depend on each other.
But those stars that look at each other but don't meet.
The furthest distance in the world is not the trajectory between stars.
But even if these tracks meet, there is no place to find them in the blink of an eye.
The furthest distance in the world is not that there is nowhere to be found in an instant.
But we are doomed not to meet before we meet.
The furthest distance in the world is the distance between a fish and a bird.
One is in the sky, and the other is deep under the sea.
If you and I stand at the farthest poles, how can I say I love you?
If love must go through wind and rain to appear bright, then I can only be gloomy.
The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I love you.
But love can't be together.
The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death.
It's that I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you.
The furthest distance in the world is not when I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you.
But I love you so much that I can't say I love you.
The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I love you.
I miss you deeply, but I can only bury you deeply in my heart.
The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I miss you.
But love can't be together.
The furthest distance in the world is not loving each other, but not being together.
But pretending not to care when you know that true love is invincible.
The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between trees.
But branches born from the same root can't depend on each other in the wind.
The furthest distance in the world is not that branches cannot depend on each other.
But those stars that look at each other but don't meet.
The furthest distance in the world is not the trajectory between stars.
But even if these tracks meet, there is no place to find them in the blink of an eye.
The furthest distance in the world is not that there is nowhere to be found in an instant.
But we are doomed not to meet before we meet.
The furthest distance in the world is the distance between a fish and a bird.
One is in the sky, and the other is deep under the sea.
If you and I stand at the farthest poles, how can I say I love you?
If love must go through wind and rain to appear bright, then I can only be gloomy.
Poetry wine suppresses the yearning for Tang Wan, but at this moment, the old feelings buried deep in my heart can't help pouring out. Four eyes are opposite, thousands of thoughts and mixed feelings, but I don't know where to start. This time, Tang Wan and her husband Zhao Shicheng went to Shenyuan and were waiting for her to eat. After a great trance, Tang Wan, who is already someone else's wife, finally took a heavy step, took a deep glance and left, leaving only Lu You in a daze among the flowers.
The breeze woke up Lu You who was immersed in an old dream. He couldn't help following Tang Wan to the pond under the willows. He saw Tang Wan and Zhao Shicheng eating on the waterside pavilion of the pool. Vaguely see Tang Wan lower the head, frown. He stretched out his jade hand to drink tea intentionally or unintentionally, and drank slowly with Zhao Shicheng. This deja vu scene broke Lu You's heart. Yesterday's dream, today's delusion and today's resentment are all around my heart. I am deeply touched, so I began to write a title on the white wall, "Feng Feng", which is the first word mentioned at the beginning.
Subsequently, Qin Gui died of illness. Lu You was re-employed in North Korea and was ordered to work as a bookkeeper in Ningde County, far away from his hometown of Yin Shan. The following spring, with an inexplicable longing, Tang Wan came to Shenyuan again, wandering among winding corridors, and suddenly caught a glimpse of Lu You's inscription. Repeatedly chanting, recalling the scene of two people's poems singing together in those years, I couldn't help but burst into tears and my heart vibrated. I unconsciously neutralized a poem that was written after Lu You's poem. This is the second "Hairpin Phoenix" mentioned at the beginning.
Tang Wan is a woman who attaches great importance to friendship. Her love with Lu You was a perfect combination, but it was destroyed in the secular wind and rain. Although Zhao Shicheng gave her emotional comfort, after all, the sea is difficult for water. The unforgettable love with Lu You has always remained in the deepest part of her emotional world. Since seeing Lu You's inscription, her heart has been difficult to calm down. Recalling the watery past, sighing the helpless world, the emotional fire tortured her, making her listless and unhappy, turning into a fallen leaf in the bleak autumn and quietly passing away with the wind. There is only a sentimental "Hairpin Phoenix", which makes people cry.
She could have had better relationships and memories. Human nature is:
What's more, things are different, and eventually they meet.
Shallow feelings are like the end, the clouds are uncertain and dreamlike.
The wishes of the poor are thinner than clouds and fresh water, and it is more difficult to be kind.
I didn't think about it carefully, but many places broke my heart. I don't agree with that person.
At this time, Lu You's career was in full swing. His literary talent was praised by Song Xiaozong, who was newly enthroned, and was awarded the background of Jinshi. Since then, my career has been smooth sailing, and I have been a servant of Bao Hua Pavilion. During this period, he not only devoted himself to politics, but also wrote a lot of poems reflecting his concern for the country and the people. At the age of 75, he wrote to ask for retirement and got a golden thread to take home. Lu You has been wandering around the world for decades, trying to forget his sad past with Tang Wan. However, the farther away from home, the more Tang Wan's shadow haunts my mind. After returning from this tiring tour, Tang Wan has already passed away, which is already a twilight year. However, he still has a deep attachment to the past and Shen Yuan. He often wandered alone on the secluded path of the deep garden, recalling the scene that was deeply imprinted in his mind, and wrote the poem "Deep Garden Nostalgia":
First of all:
The dream is broken and fragrant for forty years, but the old willow in Shenyuan does not fly;
This trip is a tribute to Shan Ye, but it is still a matter of suspense.
Second:
On the city, the sunset painted a corner of sorrow, and there was no revival in the pool platform of Shenyuan;
Under the sad bridge, the spring waves are green, which is suspected to be a stunning photo.
Shenyuan is Lu You's homesick place and also his sad place. He is thinking about Shenyuan, but he is afraid to go to Shenyuan. Spring is coming again, the weather is sultry, birds are singing and flowers are fragrant. Although Lu You, who is in his twilight years, can't go to Shenyuan to look for traces of the past, but the meeting with Tang Wan, the iraqis' sad eyes, poor manners, helpless steps and embarrassing appearance all make Lu You fresh in his memory, so he wrote the poem Sleepwalking in Shenyuan:
First of all:
The road near the south of the city has been afraid to walk, and the injury of Shenjiayuan is even heavier;
Incense wears plum blossoms on the guest sleeves, and Qingsi Bridge is born in spring.
Second:
The small stranger in the south of the city meets spring again, and only plum blossoms are not seen;
Jade bone has been under the spring for a long time, and the ink mark is still locked in the wall.
Since then, Shenyuan has changed hands several times, and the personnel landscape has changed its former style. It is already a "powder wall drunk dust desert", and only "clouds break dreams without boundaries". One day in the spring when Lu You was eighty-five years old, he suddenly felt relaxed and extremely light. I was going to go up the mountain to collect herbs, because my physical strength was not allowed to go to the sacred hospital. At this time, the Shen Garden was rearranged, and the scenery was roughly restored to the old view. Lu You wrote Shen Yuan's last love poem affectionately:
The flowers of Shenjiayuan are like brocade, and half of them were known that year;
I also believe that beauty will eventually become soil, and it is too late to dream.
Shortly thereafter, Lu You died suddenly.
Feudal ethics destroyed Lu You's pure love, but it could not stop Lu You from thinking and singing about love. Faced with the harsh reality, he was powerless to return to heaven, and he could only pour out his grief and indignation in useless words. A "Hairpin Phoenix" can't save Lu You's love world, but it has become a swan song.
Time has passed, the scenery of Shenyuan Garden has changed, and the poems on the powder wall have disappeared without a trace. However, these poems, which recorded the love swan song between Tang Wan and Lu You, have been circulated among lovers of later generations for a long time.
Love in Song Poetry
A cluster of plum blossoms
Lotus root is fragrant, and jade is lingering in autumn. Gently untie Luo Shang and go to Lan alone. Who sent the brocade book? The word goose returns, and the moon is full of the west building. Flowers from Shui Piao to water, one kind of lovesickness, two places of leisure. There is no way to eliminate this situation, only frown and mind.
This word is entitled "Don't worry" in Huang Sheng's Selected Poems of Hua 'an, which was written by Li Qingzhao after studying abroad in Zhao Mingcheng. Yi Shizhen's nirvana in fire said; "Yi An knot for a long time, Ming Cheng is a negative tour. Yi Anshu couldn't bear to say goodbye, so he found the word "a piece of plum" in Jinpa's book and sent it. "The recent film Li Qingzhao followed Yi Shizhen's theory. When Zhao Mingcheng embarked on a cruise, Sang Song "cut a plum" and "let's untie Luo Shang and go to Lanzhou alone". I think that understanding this poem as a farewell work is inconsistent with the meaning of the word, and even the words' light interpretation of Luo Shang' are difficult to explain. " "Luo Shang" does not refer to men's "Luo Yi", because there is no need to change "Yi" to "Shang" and "Luo Shang" from the perspective of level and level, which undoubtedly refers to silk skirts, and men in the Song Dynasty did not wear skirts. If the first one was written by Li Qingzhao and the next one was written by Zhao Mingcheng, where did the next one come from? How do these two meanings relate? It seems that the title of Hua 'an Anthology should be Don't worry.
After Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng got married, they had a good relationship, and their family life was full of academic and artistic atmosphere, so they were very happy. So it is not difficult to understand that once two people leave, they miss each other. In particular, Li Qingzhao admired Zhao Mingcheng more, which was revealed in many of her poems. This word is the author's ingenious pen to express her inseparable feelings, which reflects a new soul, a newly married young woman who is addicted to boundless love.
The word Li Qingzhao mainly expresses her yearning for her husband. There are quite a few such themes in Song Ci. If you don't handle it well, you will fall into a rut. However, Li Qingzhao's ci has its own characteristics in artistic conception and expression, so it is full of artistic appeal and is still a masterpiece. Its characteristics are: first, the love expressed in words is charming, pure and soul-to-soul; It is very different from ordinary people who simply think about their husbands or complain that their husbands will not come back. Second, the author boldly eulogizes his love, without wriggling or pathological elements; It is as sweet as honey, as clear as water, and open and generous. It is completely different from those who are very much in love and affectation. Thirdly, the language of Li Ci is mostly vulgar and fresh, and this word is no exception. However, it has its own characteristics, that is, conjunctions are often used in popular culture, such as "relax Luo Shang and go to Lanzhou alone", "a kind of lovesickness, sorrow for both places" and "frown, but take it to heart", which are antithetical, easy to understand, catchy and harmonious in sound and rhyme. If it weren't for the master of word casting, it would be difficult to do it.
Prune plum (I went to Guangdong and spent the night in the wind pavilion)
Author: Liu Kezhuang
Shu Yun traveled ten miles at night, getting a poem bag and abandoning his pocket. When it is cold, the road is slippery and the horseshoe is stiff. Yuan is Wang Lang. Come and see Liu Lang off. Wine ear fever said article 4, shaking the adjacent wall and pushing down the Hu bed 5. Clap your hands and laugh while watching. 6. What's wrong with being sparse? Crazy. What's wrong?
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1. In fact, Liu Kezhuang's best friend Wang Mingmai sang a lot with them. Fengting, the name of the post, is in Putian County, Fujian Province. In the winter of the third year of Jiaxi (1239), Liu Kezhuang went to Guangzhou to promote Guangnan East Road. Wang Shizhi saw him off.
2. Tie up these messy things and make them into torches for lighting. Nocturnal travel is transformed from The Book of Songs. Zhao Nan Xiaoxing, "Su Su Zheng Xiao, stay overnight in the public", means to travel hard.
3. Wang Lang, namely Wang Shizhi. Liu Lang and Liu Kezhuang claimed that this was a comparison between Liu Yuxi, who had the same surname and was determined to reform, and was repeatedly hit.
4. Talking about articles should not be understood as chewing words and commenting on poems, but implicitly implying their comments on current events, the expression of ideals, and the pouring out of worries and sorrows.
5. Wang Shizhi is bold and heroic, and he is called Zi Ang and Tai Bai. Liu Kezhuang is also a bold and talkative person, bold and fearless. The words "knocking down the adjacent wall, knocking down the bed" are the expression of their heroic image. The first sentence is about objective reaction, and the second sentence is about character behavior.
6. On the sidelines, the author assumes that there are bystanders here.
This is a unique farewell speech.
This time, the poet made a judgment in Chaozhou, Guangdong Province, and his good friend Wang Shizhi gave him a farewell dinner in Fengting. It completely abandons children's sentimental feelings and vividly describes the parting of two depressed and unwilling lunatics. Bold and fierce, deeply worried and angry, it shows the characteristics of Xin poets. The farewell to friends is vividly written, with the activities and plot development of the characters, focusing on the development and change of feelings from the dynamics of the characters, starting with sadness, then anger, and finally generosity. Push the plot to a climax with wild talk and avoid direct discussion. In Liu Kezhuang's ci, this is a very distinctive sentence.
The Story of Lu Bu and the Story of Diexin
It is rare for Xuzhou to have such good weather in winter, and the sun rises early. Although it is early in the morning, it is not cold at all. Only Lyu3 bu4 really felt chilly. No wonder today is the day when he said goodbye to his beloved The Story Of Diu Sim. He thought and thought about what to say to Cao Cao. Just then, the door slammed open and two swordsmen came in for a little military salute. Qingyin went to "send the general on the road today on the orders of the Prime Minister". Lu bu knew it was useless to say it, and nodded in return. Stride out of the prison gate.
The prison car quickly pulled Lu Bu out of the city. Lyu3 bu4 still took a deep look at the general's office where he once lived, imagining the scene of the story with Diusim. I can't help but sigh and regret that I didn't listen to Mrs. Gong, which made it difficult to leave today. The execution ground has been arranged. The thugs brought Lu Bu to Cao Cao. Cao Cao glanced at the prisoner coldly and said coldly, "What happened today was not personal, but the country had to do it." Lu Bu knelt down with a glimmer of hope and earnestly pleaded, "Lu Bu dare not hate the Prime Minister. If the Prime Minister can spare me, I will repay the Prime Minister with death. " Cao Cao couldn't help laughing. "Since the general fought side by side with me, every battle has been a pro-arrow stone and has never retreated. Why are you so afraid of death today? " The left and right sergeant also laughed. Lyu3 bu4 angry, immediately stood up, turned to cao cao loudly way "what's the fear of a gentleman's death, if it weren't for The Story Of Diu Sim, I Cao Aman how can kneel to you. Shut up and walk to the scaffold with your head held high. Cao Cao slightly pondered and waved "chop".
As he approached the scaffold, Lu Bu turned and knelt down again, saying, "I think the Prime Minister is also a hero today. Can you fulfill Lu Bu's last wish and feel the great kindness of the Prime Minister under Lu Bu's grave? " The soldiers next to him thought that Lyu3 bu4 wanted to be reborn, but they thought that Lyu3 bu4 was afraid of death, and it happened. Without waiting for Cao Cao to speak, Lu Bu added, "The Story Of Diu Sim helped me kill Dong, so I cherish the kindness and support of the Prime Minister. Lyu3 bu4 will repay the prime minister for his kindness in his next life. In addition, I want to be buried upright in the mountains, with my face aimed at the middle of Xudu, so that I can see The Story Of Diu Sim day and night. " All the soldiers cried when they heard this. Cao Cao was a little touched. He hesitated. Liu Bei hurried forward and said, "Don't be fooled by Lu Bu's words. If you don't save it today, there will be endless troubles. " Zhang Liao, the old general of Lu Bu, stared at Liu Bei with anger. Liu Bei had to step down. Cao Cao pondered for a long time and sighed, "I didn't expect to see you again today on my farewell my concubine." All right, I'll give you what you want. I miss your husband and wife and let you see The Story Of Diu Sim again. " . Then he turned and went back to watch the gallows.
When I was young, The Story Of Diu Sim arrived. The Story Of Diu Sim, who was born beautiful in the past, had a haggard face and red eyes. "General" The Story Of Diu Sim let out a cry and threw himself into Lu Bu's arms. Choked and didn't speak. Lu Bu gently stroked the face of Deuxin in the story and said, "Chen, I'm sorry. Now I regret not pursuing that wealth. I might as well be a farmer and love you forever. Now that I'm gone, take good care of yourself, if you meet someone with deep feelings. It is no problem to remarry. " Hearing this, The Story Of Diu Sim cried, "I would like to live and die with you." . Say that finish, I suddenly got up and stabbed the sergeant's sword into my chest. Lotus flower flowed from the sword. The land was bright red, and everyone was shocked when they saw it. They hurried to visit it.
Suddenly it was cloudy and windy and rainy. Even the world was moved by it. When Cao Cao approached, The Story Of Diu Sim was pale and panting. The Story Of Diu Sim said helplessly, "Lyu3 bu4 has offended the Prime Minister, and I would rather die for his atonement and beg the Prime Minister. . . . . "。 Before I finished, I opened my eyes wide and died. Lyu3 bu4 saw also don't talk, grabbed the sword from The Story Of Diu Sim cross the throat. See lyu3 bu4 tall body as if to aim at something, straight towards The Story Of Diu Sim, two people hug to each other tightly. Everyone was stunned by the touching scene of love life and death. They all stood still. In a blink of an eye, the rain stopped and the heavy snow floated down, covering the bodies of the two heroes. Dye a large piece of white. As if with filial piety to them.
Cao Cao stood for a long time, sighed for a long time, and said to Liu Bei and others, "It is really my great sin to kill someone who is so loyal to love." . Say that finish personally come forward to gently close The Story Of Diu Sim's eyes, tears turned to leave. Zhang Liao, the old general of Lyu3 bu4, came forward to hold the bodies and wept bitterly, while other old soldiers dug a grave by hand and buried them.
Cao Cao was sighing in his account when he reported to Zhang Liao. Holding two pieces of white cloth in his hand, he said, "I found this from me when I buried Lu Bu and The Story Of Diu Sim. I dare not hide it in private. Please ask the Prime Minister to have a look. " Cao Cao took it with his hands and opened it, tears streaming down his face. It turned out to be two poems written in blood.
A poem by Lu Bu is
Stuart didn't give up. You and I are holding hands. We are connected with each other in the moonlight. After the excitement, we didn't sleep a wink for several nights. Unexpectedly, we suddenly changed. Although we didn't meet in a house, we lamented the moon sky. In order to save you from the bitter pool, the two of us sent Dong Zhuo home. We have been wandering in the rivers and lakes for many years and experienced hardships. You and I comfort each other, painstakingly and sweetly.
I hate that I didn't listen to you, so I went to the grave today. I remember how carefree I was, and countless enemies scattered on the battlefield. Now, for you, I will kneel before cao thief. My reputation for half my life was gone in an instant. The wind is rustling and the snow is cold. Why give birth to me on earth, or even leave me today? Gentleman, I can stand tall. I have no regrets about life and death. My idealism leads you, and I am willing to bury me in the mountains.
The Story Of Diu Sim's poem is
Dong Zhuo was cruel to play politics and stood in the hall without authorization. None of the officials dared to speak, and the great man was in danger. Although I am humble, my loyalty to the Han family remains unchanged. I can't turn it around, but I'm empty. The adoptive father saved the situation and decided to adopt me. In order to get rid of the whole rivers and mountains, why should we cherish honor and face? But make father and son cannibalize each other, bear the burden of humiliation, only sigh at night, who knows what I want?
LiGuo killed the mutinous soldiers in front of him, leaving infinite pain for Chang 'an. I heard that the adoptive father's life is difficult to complete, and his heart, lungs and intestines are broken. Tears can't help flowing to the Weihe River in Chang 'an. I hate the sword for a long time, but my enemies can settle my grievances with their hands. Only put filial piety in the sky, and the thief will be caught.
My marriage with Lu Bu is very good, and we will always be partners in life and death. If he goes today, I will follow, and there will be no The Story Of Diu Sim in the world. Lu Bu's affection is as heavy as a mountain, and his love for me is long-lasting. May we seek common ground and be beheaded, and meet again in the underworld. Instead, I asked the Prime Minister to give you a thin coffin and bury it side by side. * * * sleeps with a pillow before he dies, though he is still dead.
Cao Cao was very moved after reading it and ordered his men to mourn for three days. Bury them again. After hearing about this incident, people from Fiona Fang Baili came to pay homage. It's been around for thousands of years.
Ai Qing
love
love
The strongest form of interpersonal attraction. There are three differences between love and liking: ① Love has more illusions; Like is not aroused by others' fantasy, but by others' realistic evaluation; Love is not as fanatical, intense and urgent as love, but always stable, quiet and objective. 2 liking is a simple emotional experience; Love is associated with many contradictory emotions. ③ Love is often related to sexual desire; And like does not involve this demand.
Some social psychologists have designed love scale and liking scale to measure the degree of love and liking between individuals. There are several items in the love scale: ① If I can't be with □ forever, I will feel distressed; I will forgive everything □; I think I will believe everything. What I like about the scale are: ① I think □ is easy to get along with; ② After understanding, most people's reaction to □ is good; Is the kind of person I want to be. Using these two scales, we can not only roughly reflect whether the attraction between individuals belongs to liking or liking, but also reflect the degree of liking and liking.
In 1970s, some western social psychologists divided love into six types: ① Impulsive love, also known as romantic love. Being directly and strongly attracted by each other's body, always thinking about each other, always trying to be with each other as much as possible, and often evaluating each other objectively. The conditions are as follows: a certain cultural background provides an individual with a real or fictional model of loving each other; Have a love object; Have your own emotional stimulation, and understand that this emotion is caused by the object of love. Researchers have different views on whether this kind of love can last. ② Self-centered love. The individual who loves does not want to be bound by the object of love, nor does he want the object of love to be bound by himself. He regards love as a series of challenges, solving problems to avoid the burden of commitment. 3 rely on love. People who have this kind of love often show anxiety, sleepless nights and strong jealousy, and the ending is mostly tragedy. 4 actual love. Lovers look for lovers who match each other in personality, religious beliefs, interests, background and other conditions, hoping that once they find the right lover, their feelings can be further developed. This form of love is more common in marriages arranged by parents. ⑤ Love in the company. Different from impulsive love or dependence on love, the two sides are friends at first, have the same hobbies, work together and gradually develop into love. The two parties who have this kind of love relationship may still be friends even if they break up later. 6. Altruistic love. A typical Christian concept of love, patience and kindness, does not need to be reciprocated. This kind of love is often difficult to achieve in real life.
Love has a strong sociality. Studies by some cultural anthropologists show that people with different cultural backgrounds have different understandings of love. Whether the lovers are happy or not depends not on what kind of love they have, but on whether their understanding of love is consistent.
The girl who really loves you hates you calling her stupid, but she is very happy in her heart.
The girl who really loves you is always the first to think of you when she is wronged.
The girl who really loves you blames you when you are late, not really scolding you, but cherishing every time with you.
The girl who really loves you is really stingy, and there is no room for a grain of sand in her eyes.
The girl who really loves you pretends to be upset every time she is angry, just wanting to hear you coax herself.
The girl who really loves you will accompany you to watch your favorite programs, even if she hates them the most.
The girl who really loves you always lets you eat slowly for fear that you have stomach trouble.
The girl who really loves you will take pains to persuade you to give up smoking, even though she knows it is impossible.
The girl who really loves you will play games with you, whether she likes it or not.
The girl who really loves you will collect what you like, because as long as you are happy.
The girl who really loves you, no matter how picky her mouth is, still loves you the most in her heart.
The girl who really loves you is easily moved by you, even if it is a small thing.
The girl who really loves you will be very delicate even if she can be alone in front of you.
The girl who really loves you, when someone bullies you, will be more angry than you, regardless of the image of a lady, and scold each other until she is relieved.
The girl who really loves you will always encourage you whether you have achieved anything or not.
A girl who really loves you will keep mentioning you in front of her good friends, because she also wants her friends to know about you.
The girl who really loves you will always nag you, but that is actually her concern for you.
The girl who really loves you doesn't like you to bear everything alone, so she will be more worried.
The girl who really loves you can't bear to turn off the voice or hang up the phone every time she chats with you, and she won't feel at ease until you turn it off.
The girl who really loves you always revolves around you because she doesn't want to be apart from you for a minute.
The girl who really loves you missed you a minute before we left.
The girl who really loves you, no matter how many shortcomings you have, always encourages you and always cheers for you, because she loves you deeply.
The girl who really loves you always makes you stronger than yourself, because it's for you.
Cherish the girl who loves you.
Love makes everyone great, so selfless, so uncontrollable and so lovely. Love is sunshine, love is rain, love is flower, love is. . . . . .