What China's parents call telling their children what to do in their eyes is actually the embodiment of their parents' love. They don't want their children to experience too many setbacks, and hope that their children can spend their lives safely, so they always tell their experiences, and their children always hinder what they do, because their rich life experiences may think that their children are wrong or cheated, and they don't want their children to take more detours, so they will do this.
How can parents in the world not love their children? Who doesn't want their children to complete their unfinished dreams at that time? Children are the continuation of parents' lives. Parents can see the future and hope in their children. They put everything on their children. What's wrong with being hard on your children? Your "pointing" may be a bit derogatory, but how can you describe your parents' love in a derogatory way? Maybe at this stage, you still don't understand how many successful roads and bright prospects parents have planned for their children, but you just want to do what you love and live up to your parents' expectations. Is this what you want to see?
I'm not saying that we must listen to our parents. What they say may not be right. However, it is good for children. I hope you can understand that life may be your own, but life can never be said to be yours alone. Life contains many people you love and people who love you.