Happiness comes from love, but more hatred comes from opposing love. Recently, a lot of worldly dust has accumulated in my heart. In foggy days, I always look at the mountains and the water. There is no color in my eyes, no joy in my heart and no poetry in my writing. A depressed heart, like this rainy day, is wet and gloomy. Melancholy, fatigue, burnout, hesitation, boredom, these depressing words, often haunt me with the days of wind and rain.
I don't reject this sad and depressed mood, thinking that the world is like this, there is no blind joy, and there is no blind sadness. For example, on this day, it is cloudy and sunny. Emotions, sorrows and sorrows are all earthly people, and normal emotions and muddling along are derived from them. As long as you believe that nothing in this world is inseparable from you, you can always taste the true meaning of life from this joys and sorrows, and happiness comes from it.
But I will not indulge in these decadent words, nor will I let them live in my heart for a long time and dominate my mood. Enough is enough. I will drive them out of my heart, scribble them on the paper with scribbled words, then strike a match, turn them into a piece of paper ash, put them in my palm, blow them gently and blow them into the wind and rain. "Let's go! Gray and sad. " I said, "Come on! Bright joy! " They really went! I stood in front of the window of a tall building and watched them float around like smoke in the wind and rain. My repressed eyes gradually released light and merged into a fish, and continued to wander in the wind and rain outside the window, looking for joy.
Looking for joy, eyes like a fish, swimming in the soft wind and thin rain outside the window. Don't worry about the wind, worry about the rain, think about the good weather, moisten things quietly, and joy will take root in your heart. Swim to a sunny place, look at the sky, blue clothes, carefree, grazing a group of white fat sheep clouds. Thinking of sunny days, birds singing, flowers fragrant, happiness will sprout in my heart ... "Go to a place with little water, and then sit and watch the rising clouds." Walk until you reach the end of the road. You sit down and look at the sky and clouds. There is always a bright future. At this time, joy grows quietly in my heart!
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Buddha said: everything is impermanent. To live is to die. If you don't cling to life and death, your heart will be quiet and you will get eternal joy.
If you don't cling to life and death, you must cling to the previous life and death. Only by standing first and then breaking, can we truly understand the changing situation, flowers bloom and fall, prosperity falls, and life and death are disillusioned. That's what people do. In the vagaries of the world, they are happy, persistent and gradually enlightened. One day I suddenly realized: Yes! You can't escape the unpredictable situation, whether it is a blessing or a curse. The world will not change its inevitable direction because of my sadness, and the universe will not change because of personnel. Mountain or mountain, water or water. Quiet and happy than I worry about my bright cheeks lest they fade. So the mind is gone, the knot is gone, the persistence is gone, and people are indifferent. Breaking the cocoon into a butterfly is a flower and a world, a leaf and a bodhi, and a bowl of porridge can be drunk with relish. Gradually, the Buddha will settle down in his heart, calm and happy ... such joy, flowing water.
It is extraordinary to have such joy, but it is difficult for ordinary people to have it.
When a few friends get together, they always sigh and say, "That's it, let's live happily!" " "Yes, to live happily, everyone responded in unison. Suddenly, it dawned on me that everyone was trying to be happy, but this kind of happiness is very fragile. Before it began to show its joy, it turned around and was beaten out of the water by the wind and rain of the world. In fact, in many cases, it is not impossible, but walking in the dust, entangled in the dust, and there are too many knots in my mind that I can't give up, making people have nowhere to hide and nowhere to escape.
When there is nowhere to escape, I always think of what Feng Zikai once said: "The world didn't choose you, but you chose the world. Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly and happy. Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. " Since you can't let go of the Qian Qian knot in your heart, tie a beautiful flower knot and hang it on the branches of the years, so that they can become a different kind of scenery in life. It is also a pleasure to walk, see, read and realize all the way! Heart knot, the most afraid of being tied into a fast knot, this kind of heart knot is easy to kill a person's mind and gradually become possessed. Enchanted, it is endless suffering, there is no turning back shore, delicacies, but also feel tasteless. Such people will never be happy.
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A friend of a friend, who attended a Buddhist class for a few days, suddenly left everything behind and went to the temple and never saw his family again. He said that he found unprecedented happiness in the Buddhist sound. When he left, his old parents begged, and his wife and children wanted to stay, but he left with a straight face. I can't agree with him. It is not the purpose of this life to have Buddha and joy in your heart. Why abandon his wife and children, forget filial piety, go to the temple to practice, and never see his family again? After all, he has too many roles to play to leave like this. Everything has been abandoned and put down, but it is by no means ruthless. Such an approach may not really bring happiness.
True happiness can make a person beautiful and vivid from the inside out forever. Can be beautiful forever, which makes a woman who loves beauty tempted!
My girlfriend likes blue and white porcelain, but good blue and white porcelain is valuable. She has no money and can't afford a fancy porcelain, but it doesn't affect her. Yes, she said, "It doesn't have to be. It's fun to go to a porcelain shop! " Sometimes when she sees that her favorite porcelain is sold, she will be overjoyed and say, "Look, someone appreciates it as much as I do!" " "On one occasion, she saw a small blue and white porcelain in the shape of an elegant and clean woman, wearing a blue cheongsam with white background. A friend's eyes are full of joy. She said that her old life seemed like this, and she wanted to end it. But the boss scared her by asking too many questions. No, after that, she went to see the blue and white porcelain girl when she was free. One day it was not put in the corresponding position, and I didn't know it was sold until I asked the boss. There was a moment of disappointment, but soon, she was happy again: "Ah! In the end, the famous flower is taken. I'm afraid she won't get married. This is really a happy thing! "I looked at her face with joy and thought she was extremely beautiful. Looking back now, I understand that she is the one who really has happiness, because she has a happy heart.
There is a happy heart, happiness is everywhere, in a idle cloud, in a still flower, in red and green branches, in misty rain, in the soft wind, in the whispering of Yingying Yanyan, in the firm wheels, in the babbling of children's milk, in the intersection of pots and pans, between the lips and teeth.
There is joy in my heart, and everything is happy! There is joy in my heart, but there are several things that are not beautiful! My heart has always been happy and beautiful! Looking for happiness, I hope I have a happy heart.