However, it is not masculine to say that others are false mothers (in fact, many southerners do), which is usually used to make fun of others (of course, it is necessary to determine whether the other party is hostile to you first). Masculinity is relative. For example, the northeast man said that southerners are false mothers, and the Mongolian man said that the northeast man is a false mother, which is relative. Masculinity has always been synonymous with men's personal courage and masculinity. Speak confidently, forcefully and so on.
I don't think a person should judge by his daily behavior. Gentle actions and words show that you care about other people's feelings. It is very gentle to show consideration for others.
A real man is a man who never flinches when encountering difficulties and collapses when encountering difficulties. Do this, you are a man.
Personally, I think, if described, you are a standard southern man with a taste of scholarly family. It only means that your family education is very good.