Why can't you control your tears every time you say sorry to others?

Tears are God's creation. By shedding tears, you can get rid of things that affect your health. If you cry, you will feel better. But it's unfair. You make it sound like a person. People still can't help you solve it, but they can only comfort you helplessly, but Revelation 2 1: 4 in the Bible says that God will wipe away all their tears. There will be no more death, no more sadness, crying and pain, because the past has passed. "