My daughter won the first place in the school in recitation, but I criticized her for crying. Emotional intelligence really hurts!

? The twin daughters won the first prize in the school poetry reading contest in the first grade! There are more than 50 students of all grades in the school, and my daughters and I are very happy to get such good results. On the way home, I severely criticized my little daughter. She cried bitterly and repeatedly assured me that it wouldn't happen again …

? The whole family attaches great importance to this poetry reading contest, especially the children. The first thing they do when they go home to finish their homework every day is to recite and practice. Ma Bao also invited the tutor of the reading interest class that the children had attended before to record the audio of the reading content, so as to facilitate the children's study and practice. After all, children who have just entered the first grade still need to improve their pronunciation and sentence-breaking. Baoda provides technical support, cooperates with the content and time of children's recitation, changes the timeline every second, and stays up late to make video and audio background. The whole family went all out, hoping to perform on stage in the best posture. Children have expectations for achievements. We adults want our children to get heartfelt exercise on the stage. We are not too worried about no results, but afraid of hurting the baby's self-confidence. Therefore, we repeatedly instill the view that winning or losing is not important, and hope that they will participate in the activities happily.

? After school, the children waited for a long time before coming out. The teacher said calmly: First place! But there are also flaws, all jumping up and down, and the typhoon is not rigorous.

I agree with the teacher, because I was very happy and proud when I first heard that the babies won the first prize. I thought the children would get stage fright when they participated in large-scale activities for the first time, but I didn't expect to come directly to the first place! Before I entered the ecstatic state, the teacher added: Pay attention after the typhoon. This competition is the first time. It is estimated that the judges thought it was a twin girl, and they were very distressed, so they gave the first place ... I think the child's mood is not high either. If I hadn't reminded my little daughter, I would have forgotten to say goodbye to the teacher.

On the way home, I asked the children how they jumped up and down the stage. The teacher will emphasize this point. My little daughter always said she wouldn't jump, but when I told her she was a teacher, she wouldn't change her mind. During the period, the eldest daughter generously admitted that the younger daughter never admitted that it was her sister who jumped, but it was not. Finally, I was very wronged and said, ok, even if I jump. It turns out that she has been dancing. When I saw that my little daughter was obviously up to something, I got angry and kept a straight face. I parked my car on the side of the road, told her I was taking her back to school, and asked the teacher why her daughter said she wouldn't jump, but the teacher kept jumping. My daughter is afraid of crying. Tell the truth: when she went up and down the stage, she really jumped up and down, and there was laughter that she thought she liked. The teacher talked about them after the end, so she was unhappy and didn't want to admit jumping off the building. I told my child that I was not angry because she jumped off the building, but because I couldn't tell my parents the truth, hiding and shirking it again and again. I can't allow my family to tell the truth! The child told me in tears that she knew it wouldn't happen again.

Looking at the little girl's delicate and touching appearance, she cried like a pear with rain. Although she was angry at the baby's lying, she felt it was unnecessary. Why do I do this when I am so happy? I've been thinking about it in my heart.

As parents of children, they are very worried about children under seven years old. Every day when they come home, they urge us to supervise them and practice after finishing their homework. Moreover, for the first time, they participated in such a big competition and made careful preparations, surpassing most of the contestants, because they saw many students who were one year older than them, and their recitation was not smooth and full of feelings. Although the children are young, they have observed and compared their upcoming performances and should be able to do well. So they jumped up naturally as soon as they came on stage. After the recitation, their perfect performance on the stage also attracted warm applause, and the children almost floated down. Later, the children also said that the third prize was announced at the end of the game. They didn't listen to their names, and they didn't have their own names after hearing the second prize. Just when they were a little frustrated, they suddenly heard the headmaster announce that the first prize was theirs, and they were excited and excited ... As a result, at the end of the conference, the teacher said that the typhoon was not good because the judges took care of the cuteness of the first grade and won the prize. ...

Although the child won the prize in this competition, it also represents the child's class and is the first and only student in the grade who won the prize. If I were a teacher, I would only encourage and praise them. Even if the children jump around and damage the image of the typhoon, even if it is really because the judges didn't read the recitation content and emotional expression and won the consolation prize, I won't dwell on these again. After all, the children won glory for the class and the first prize for the teacher. You can remind and rehearse in advance next time. Instead of looking for some problems when you are older.

? Thinking of this, it is not worth criticizing the babies. My daughter has been constantly criticized by the teacher and me for no reason. I will not encounter similar problems in my daily education. I have to practice to improve my emotional intelligence in the future, or my daughters will get hurt.