Girl, please treat him with heart! I always hear people say how soldiers hurt you and how sorry you are, but have you ever thought about it, have you given him a sense of security? Soldiers are inherently insecure. He is in the army and you are outside. This society is full of temptations. Maybe one day you get tired of waiting for him, and you have a better man around you. At this time, you are likely to abandon him ... as long as you are not sure, even a little, he will have a hunch of losing you. ...
Girl, please treat him with heart! No one is ashamed, and the dignity of a soldier does not allow him to bow and scrape to you. He can't let you go until you break up. He knew that nothing he said would help. Since you said the word "break up", you will leave him one day. Today, he will keep you, but there is tomorrow. What should he do tomorrow? Let you go now. At least he doesn't have so much anxiety and hesitation. The heart of a soldier is to love you seriously from the beginning of your love, and let you fly when you don't love it. ...
Girl, please treat him with heart! Many men are afraid of taking responsibility, but if one day he says love to you, it means that he has made up his mind and he will take all the responsibilities. And in the army, he dare not make a promise to you easily, because he doesn't know what his future life will be like. Maybe he started chatting with you out of boredom, loneliness and emptiness; Maybe he will like you after a while, but he dare not tell you that he no longer regards you as an ordinary friend. Not because he is timid, but because he is worried that you can't wait for him, that you will get hurt one day, that you can't keep your promise, and that you can't give you the happiness you want. ...
Girl, please treat him with heart! He knows that it is not easy for you to love him, and he also knows that he owes you too much. When you watch your friends and classmates walking in pairs on the campus path after dusk, he wants to be with you, want to be in a long carriage with you, want to go shopping with your beloved, and want to date you in the moonlight ... but he can't do all these, just because he is a soldier. From the moment he chose to wear a military uniform, he had a responsibility on his shoulders and a commitment to the motherland and the people.
Girl, please treat him with heart! His special status determines that everything he sees every day is olive green, so it is really not easy for him to find a girlfriend. Because he is a soldier, his love is not easy, so he will cherish you especially. He is stupid and won't say those sweet words to make you happy, but he definitely has a sincere heart for you. He gave you all his love. He regards you as his treasure. He loves you with his life and hurts you. ...
Girl, please treat him with heart! He leads a relatively boring life in the army. As long as he has a little leisure, he will miss you more, and he will only think of your goodness at this time. As the saying goes, "It's better to miss each other than to meet each other." Most of the time, he can't be with you. No matter what difficulties you encounter, he can only comfort you on the other end of the phone when you cry, but he wants to hold you tightly in his arms when you are sad, but he can't ... So he has always apologized to you and can only tell you on the phone: Baby, I'm sorry for making you suffer now, and I will pay you back twice when I come back. You should believe what he said, because the army attaches great importance to cultivating the hard-working spirit of soldiers. ...
Girl, please treat him with heart! He also knows that it is not easy to be a military spouse, not only to give up some, but also to endure the incomprehension of relatives and friends, and to sacrifice a lot, a lot … even more bitter than being a soldier and lonely! But when you can't sleep alone, he is also very sad that he can't hug you and put you to sleep. Soldiers are also flesh and blood, and he also has feelings for children. It is said that men don't cry lightly, but every time in the dead of night, he will think of you in his heart. Thinking about his heart hurts, thinking about his tears, and wanting to see you sleep every night. He always cares about you from afar, so you must take care of yourself and don't let him worry about you. ...
Girl, please treat him with heart! How much he wants to be with you all the time, take care of you, care for you, love you, protect you and make you happy … Really, really, really … But he is a soldier, and he can't! He cares about you all the time, afraid that you are unhappy, afraid that you are wronged, afraid that you miss him heartbroken, afraid that you will leave him one day ... so for him, you should be happy every day, be strong when you are alone, and one day he will face it with you. ...
Girl, please treat him with heart! Because he really loves you. He will keep your promise every day, and you are his strong backing. Don't make him feel uneasy about you. Don't promise him easily. Since you have decided to love him, love him well. If you choose to love him, you must be strong and put on your wedding dress when he comes back. ...
Write this essay in your spare time, and I will give it to the girls waiting to join the army. I hope these girls can join hands with her soldiers to grow old together! ! !