Marriage is not only joyful and sweet, but also unfortunate. There are also poems in The Book of Songs that describe abandoned wives. In The Sun and Moon, the abandoned wife cries like the sun and the moon, denouncing her husband's "untimely death". It can be seen that her husband used to be very kind to her, but now he is "untimely death". Women are treated unfairly by their husbands after marriage. Desperate women begin to resent their parents for "mom and dad spoil me, but I don't die". Why can't parents support her until she is old, but want to?
In The Book of Songs Meng, the author focuses on the heroine's first love and unmarried pregnancy. The woman accompanied him affectionately through the ice cream water until he was sent to Dunqiu. Patiently explained to him: "When I was robbed, my son had no good media" and "I took the wall and hoped to go back to customs, but I didn't see it, so I cried. Seeing re-entry and talking with a smile, you can see her sincere heart. Just when the reader thought he would live happily ever after. The heroine's "sleepless night" and the hero's "as for violence" make the heroine hate from love, so that she is determined to break up with men. I thought that when I married a man, I wanted to grow old with him. Who would have thought that in the end, my life would be bitter? The ungrateful man completely forgot the feelings of the two children at the total angle, and also completely forgot the vows of love at first sight. Who would have thought that he was so headstrong? This poem has also become a classic of love poems in The Book of Songs. The heroine's thought-provoking "I don't eat mulberries" further aroused readers' sympathy for the heroine.
"Hurricane" in The Book of Songs? Gu Feng also shows the tragedy of the breakup of the relationship between the hero and heroine after marriage. The woman's husband turned out to be a poor farmer, and it was only because of the joint efforts of the two after marriage, especially the efforts of the young wife, that life gradually improved. However, this improvement in living conditions has become the reason for her husband to abandon her. "Rough evil spirits bullied me, and I took on heavy work. I didn't think of friendship at first, but I thought of an empty love in the past. " This heartbroken man not only ignores his wife in trouble, but also likes the new and hates the old, treats her as an enemy, deliberately finds fault, and often adds fists and feet. Finally, on the day I married her, she was kicked out of the house. It is in this case that the abandoned wife in the poem poured out her grievances with tears.
At that time, the fate of women was tragic. They are bullied or even abandoned by ungrateful men, but they are weak and helpless, unable to resist, and ravaged by bitter rain and bitter wind. Actually, what's wrong with these unfortunate women themselves! They all have the qualities of diligence and wisdom, and they all have beautiful youthful faces. The tragedy of their being trampled and abandoned is thought-provoking: on the surface, it is because of the change of family economy, or because of the decline of beauty, or because of inhumanity, but the root cause is the inequality of social status between men and women!