Happiness is a pure natural product, a gift of 100% support and affirmation. Without self, all happiness is a false illusion. Even if people criticize you, deny you and attack you, it doesn't mean you are yourself; Being denied, the only person who can deny you is yourself.
As long as there are people, there are right and wrong; As long as people have mouths, there will be opinions and criticisms. Moreover, people who care too much about other people's ideas are not only unhappy, but also easy to lose their own characteristics and personality and fail to exert their potential.
In short, the mouth belongs to others, and life belongs to oneself. Those who are habitually "abused" by others' mouths, please use their left and right brains to think: Why should I be a slave to others' mouths? Why do you care so much about what other people think? As long as you figure it out, you have the right to happiness! Wear each other's shoes, and you will know where it hurts ... In fact, the key to whether the world is beautiful or not and whether life is beautiful is to get out of your own hut. Negative, self-enclosed, life will be full of desolation; Take active actions and love life, even the desert will become an oasis of life.
Don't fantasize that life is always so round and full, and don't fantasize about enjoying all the spring in the four seasons of life. Everyone's life is doomed to trudge and taste bitterness and helplessness. As long as the faith in my heart has not shrunk, as long as there is no severe winter in my season, even if there are ups and downs, what can I do?
Many things in the world are unpredictable, success is often accompanied by failure, and failure often breeds success; Good things will turn into bad things, and bad things will turn into good things. A person's life is the unity of success or failure, good or bad replacement. Smart people will try their best to turn bad things into good things, and beware of good things turning into bad things.
You can live in a different way by changing your mentality. An optimistic person, in life, can laugh at winning or losing, not just recognize the final outcome. They are convinced of the future and don't complain about the status quo. They can make use of their own advantages, give full play to their potential, climb up step by step and succeed.
Simple life, free and easy. Simplicity is dull, but not monotonous. Simplicity is ordinary, but not mediocre. Simplicity is a kind of beauty, and it is also a kind of primitive beauty.
It is more meaningful to be kind to yourself and be the best than to be kind to others. In addition to learning to restrain yourself, tolerate others and fulfill others, we must also learn to fulfill ourselves, tolerate ourselves, give ourselves more time and space, and let ourselves continue to develop and improve. In this way, you can live a full and happy life.
The purpose of losing money is to leave a useful body to do bigger things. This is precisely "staying in the green hills, not afraid of not burning firewood", and losing money temporarily is to gain more in the future.
There is a thin line between gain and loss in our hearts, and what we think is pride; If you think you are lost, you are depressed. People who can understand gains and losses will be happy in life.
Sometimes the mood is like a tree, and happiness is a straight trunk. Spring has come, shake the happy branches, and those yellow leaves and gloomy clouds will fall. Spring is coming, shake the happy branches and life will open a beautiful smile. A good mood can not only change yourself, but also infect others. If you want to be a happy person, then you must keep the mood of eighteen.
Deliberately looking for happiness, often can not find, but bring emptiness and trouble. But sometimes, intentionally or unintentionally, happy things come unexpectedly and are hard to predict. The satisfaction of doing a good deed and completing a contribution will naturally make people enjoy it.
The difference between people lies in talent and willpower. A person is not afraid of being stupid. As long as he is diligent and enterprising, the fruits of success will be picked by him sooner or later. Everyone knows the story of the race between the tortoise and the hare. Sometimes cleverness is mistaken by cleverness, but fools have a foolish spirit. Miracles always happen to ordinary people.
To be angry is to punish one's own foolish behavior with the fault of others. The sunset is like gold, the moon is like silver, and the happiness and joy of life are still endless. Where did you get the time to get angry? Relax!
God is really fair. When fate closes a window for you, it will open another window for you. Everything in the world is multifaceted, and what we see is only one side. This side makes you miserable, but the pain can often be transformed. Any misfortune, failure and loss may become our favorable factors.
As long as you live out your self-confidence and high style, let others talk. As Dante said, "Go your own way and let others talk!"