Who broke your heart? Relatives, friends, loved ones? If your heart is broken by a relative, I believe the wound can be healed in a short period of time if there is blood and family ties. If a friend hurts your heart, you can distance yourself appropriately and maintain a safe distance to avoid being hurt again. The most laborious and difficult to heal is the third type: being broken by someone you love.
The deeper you love and the more you give, the deeper you will be hurt, the more unwilling you will be, and the harder it will be to get out easily. But precisely at this time, one cannot be timid! Because we come to this world once to experience the scenery along the way of life, not to endure the ravages of life. If you think you are still a little strong, don't tell others easily. There is no empathy in this world. You can only know the warmth and coldness, and handle the joys and sorrows by yourself. You don't have to lose the reason why you are strong. Grit your teeth and hold on. You can cry, you can curse, you can get drunk...but you have to do it secretly by yourself, and try not to let others see it. After venting, work hard, eat well, sleep well, and leave everything to time, and everything will be fine. Soon, you will find that the sky is still blue, the scenery is still so beautiful, and you are still that cool person.
The wound is too deep, and maybe just doing these things is not enough to heal the wound. Then try to change your working and living environment. If it is not easy to achieve, you can also choose to travel to distant places, see different scenery, and pay attention to animals and plants in the new environment that are different from what you have known before. Seriously experience the local customs and customs. Eat all the local food. When so many fresh feelings during the trip fill your memory, you will find that the pain is much better.
There is one thing that is best to insist on, and that is reading. People who often turn the pages of books will have light in their eyes, the fragrance of ink flowing between their fingers, and even the fragrance between their lips and teeth. The fragrance of pear blossoms can be smelled as soon as they open their mouths. It's light and makes people feel like spring. A period of time like "the fragrance of flowers fills your arms and the fragrance of ink touches your fingers" is enough to enrich your soul.
Blessings to all those who are sad. Don't passively wait for the wound to heal, but actively use various methods to actively heal it. Later you will find that the process of active healing is also the process of our own growth. Your horizons will be broadened and your picture will be bigger. Looking back on the past, you will laugh about it.
If your heart is broken, you are suffering from a heart disease. Is a heart disease treated by a heart? It depends on the degree of your injury. Minor illnesses can be treated on your own. For example, you don’t necessarily need to take medicine for a minor cold. It depends on your body’s resistance to heal itself. You should see a doctor if the illness is serious, such as love breakup, marital changes, family conflicts, and poor interpersonal relationships. These illnesses should not be underestimated. More serious heart problems that are not going well in work, career, official career, economic, political, ideological and moral aspects will be troublesome and must be treated immediately or even require surgery. Otherwise, life is not guaranteed. I wonder what kind of heart disease you have? The best way to treat heart disease and heart disease is to rely on yourself. It is best to control it when teeth are sprouting. There is no good doctor for chronic disease!
The sadness you are talking about here should be about emotional matters. Emotional heartbreak is mostly caused by the trauma caused by the betrayal of the other party.
Emotional trauma can range from mild to severe. The mild ones are when the other person is not single-minded and likes to flirt with women and flirt with women. If you don’t get distracted, you should live a good life. This kind of heartache is relatively minor. , if he comes back one day, your heartache will slowly heal over time.
What if it is serious? For example, the other party not only has an affair, but also shows his heart to the third party. He values ??the third party more than his lover. For the sake of his lover, he ignores his family. Not only does he empathize, but he also gives. Property, such heartbreak is difficult to heal.
What to do? You can only rely on yourself and use your strong will to withstand such a blow, convince yourself, work hard to get out of the pain, heal the wounds yourself, time is the best medicine, and wait for the day when the wounds will heal.
You need to rely on your own strong perseverance to heal your heartache as time goes by.
I hope my answer can help you!
There is too much helplessness in every journey. If your hand is injured, you can rely on the coagulation of blood. If your heart is injured, you can only heal by yourself... The beauty of love is pursued by countless people in the world, and some The merits are perfect, and some are covered with bruises! We are constantly wandering in love but not getting it, getting it but not loving it. From the initial temptation, to the gradual discouragement, and then to the sadness! Such a process has tortured too many people, and you may not meet the right person after all your efforts, and there will always be disappointment and heartbreak. When your heart is broken, pick it up and hide it, and let time slowly lick its wounds until they heal... There is no heartbreak that cannot be healed in this world. It will not stay with you for a lifetime. Many years later, When you look back, you realize that it was just an episode in your life. In this world, the earth will continue to rotate without anyone, and nothing will change because of someone's departure. The so-called heartbreaking is just leaving something for youth! so what? There are too many people with stories, and everyone is the protagonist of life. There is no other way but to heal by yourself. If your heart is sick, let it have a good rest! Love yourself more, maybe you will find that there are still many beautiful things in life, but there was only one moment when we were temporarily blinded.
There are still many things in this world that are worthy of our love. It is better to accept them calmly and be grateful for everything God has given you, whether it is sadness or laughter! ! ! Come out, look up at the sky, the sun is still shining brightly, it hurts your eyes. It is telling you that you can look at other things, and the relief in your heart will make you open-minded. Love is still beautiful, and the heart is still simple...
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Healing by time
A broken heart heals by distance. The further the distance, the faster the wound will heal!
A broken heart is not easy to heal. The only way is time. In addition, you must learn lessons and find ways not to let others hurt you at will.
However, you must see if others hurt you intentionally. If you hurt others first, and then others hurt you back, then you must review yourself. And even if some people hurt others, they don't know that they have hurt others. This is precisely not easy to solve.
When we learn to analyze problems from different angles, we will be able to see whether the other party is intentionally causing harm. Learn to forget the unintentional harm to others and not take it lightly.
In addition, if you have done nothing wrong and the other person intentionally hurts you, then at the appropriate time, you must let the other person know that you have been hurt. You can use what the other person said and return it intact.
Also, if you can stay away from people who intentionally harm yourself, stay away. Because life is short, why waste it on painful people.
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It is the most difficult to heal a broken heart.
To heal, first, stop recalling the sad past.
The second is to read more psychological books or consult a psychological expert to explain your feelings.
The third is to slowly adjust your mentality and mind, think more about happy things and not sad things.
A wounded hand can heal by the coagulation of blood, and a broken heart can heal slowly by itself.
Why I say this is because I personally feel that if you are sad, no one can help you.
If you tell the person who loves you, the person who loves you will not only feel distressed and comfort you, but it seems that it cannot solve the problem. They will also worry.
If you talk to people who don’t have deep feelings, they won’t be able to understand you. Maybe even laughing at you behind your back. After all, there is no empathy in this world.
Even if I don’t laugh at you, if you repeat it, you are copying the pain again, which will only make it more painful.
So, comfort yourself and slowly digest the sad things. Besides, time will dilute everything.
If time is not enough, don’t deliberately avoid it. Gradually you can think about it, do more meaningful and interesting things, and let it go naturally.
Time!