Everyone is working hard, only you are awake and falling.
"Four bodies are not attentive, regardless of the grain, the text is not energy, and the force cannot be prevented. Finally, they became silent accomplices. " (Excerpted from "100,000 Hippies" by Almighty Youth Club), this lyric has increasingly become a portrayal of some contemporary young people. Indirectly complacent, persistent mixed eating and waiting for death, the dream is higher than the sky, but even the pen for study can't be lifted, knowing that everyone is secretly trying to go further, and only they are confined to comfort, lamenting their three-minute heat, and the more they struggle, the weaker they become. What are the reasons for these?
Why is everyone getting better, and only they are still marking time? I can't think of any other reason except my unwillingness to work hard.
Then please read this article carefully.
Of course, I'm talking about methods. If you are still as hot as the first three minutes, then even if you read it a hundred times, this method is just a fart.
1 Don't limit yourself.
How terrible is it to set limits for yourself?
Locusts are long jumpers in the insect world, and they can jump several times or even dozens of times their bodies in one jump.
Scientists made an experiment with insects, put glass more than ten centimeters above the locusts, and then stimulated the locusts to bounce. At first, locusts violently installed glass, but later they seemed to have learned their lesson and only jumped to the height of the glass. Later, after removing the peeling, scientists stimulated the locusts to bounce again. Without glass, locusts just jumped to the height of glass. No matter how exciting it is, it can't reach the level it deserves.
Is it very similar to humans?
This is self-limitation, because when you hit a wall several times and encounter several setbacks, you completely deny your due ability.
So, no matter how you lose, don't deny yourself. Arrogance can be saved, inferiority can't be saved, don't be afraid of failure. Who hasn't fallen a few times? Always remember that you are the best!
2. Make a detailed timetable and timetable.
It is always more efficient to carry out actions in a planned way.
Instead of thinking about when and what to do, take some time to make a timetable.
But we must strictly follow our own timetable, stick to it slowly, and one day we will thank ourselves for making a detailed plan.
3 Stay away from the comfort zone.
Principle Those who will only drag you into the water will either scoff at your efforts or drag you to seek comfort. This environment is unacceptable.
Go to the place where you really study, the place where you progress, the study room and the classroom are the places where you grow up.
If you have friends who make progress together, that's what you really should cherish. Don't blend into a circle that doesn't suit you for fear of destroying friendship.
4 learn self-discipline.
Self-discipline is freedom.
True self-discipline is active self-realization. -The Elephant and the Rider
If you want to be self-disciplined, you must proceed from your own purpose and need certain utilitarianism.
For example, fitness attracts girls, and learning pr and ae makes extra money.
With this goal, you can stick to it and form the habit of self-discipline, instead of forcing yourself to be self-disciplined.
Motivation is the first step in everything.
5 focus on one thing.
We are not Nezha, superhuman powers, ninjas, two places at once, and we can't share so much energy.
Many people, who can concentrate on doing one thing all their lives, are already great men.
Fragment time is synonymous with inefficiency.
6 Moderately relax.
If you feel tired, you might as well relax, play basketball, watch movies and play a game with dear TA.
This kind of time will not only be wasted, but also make you more motivated.
Set a high goal.
Not that distant dream, but your goal at this stage is to take it to a higher level.
Those who pursue the best get the best, those who pursue the best get the best, and those who pursue the best get nothing.
With higher goals, there will be more sense of urgency, and this sense of urgency is exactly what you need, forcing you to move forward.
Don't stay up late, don't stay up late, don't stay up late!
Today's work is finished today! Work in the daytime is done in the daytime!
Leave today's work for tomorrow, play during the day, and leave the work during the day for the evening. How about tomorrow? What if I rest at night!
Do what you should, not to mention the danger of staying up late. Can you handle this accumulation?
Even if you pretend, you have to pretend to be a perfect person.
In front of anyone, the appearance has become what you want to be, even if it is not enough now, even if some can't persist, you must bite your teeth and pretend.
You will gradually discover those pretentious things and gradually become your own.
Many excellent people are slowly pretending.
* * * Encourage