The villain's lack of money and poetry
It is no use just giving him money. Even if your father is Shen Wansan, what about helping him for life? The key is to solve it from the source. For example, give him a better job or a part-time job and let him eat the money he earned and feel at ease. At most, he owes you one. Before he finds a job, you can take him directly to find a job and invite him to dinner. As for things, you can buy them for him first. If he says he's embarrassed, you can say, "Don't get me wrong, I'll lend you these first, and wait until he has money." Either take the money and invite him out for a meal. You can also say, "It doesn't matter if you ask me to lend you money, brother." Don't let him think that you are his cash cow.