Should girls make do with getting married?

Whether it is a boy or a girl, you can't just get married! I clearly remember that early last year, my best friend told me that she wanted to compromise with her family. At that moment, I felt extremely shocked and puzzled. Do people really have to compromise with age and secularity? So who is this compromise for? So on this issue, my opinion is that neither boys nor girls should compromise.

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In my opinion, as long as a marriage is based on feelings, it is not because of the so-called "marriage age" or "other people's eyes." The only reason to get married is because I met someone I want to work with for life, so we entered the marriage hall. I'd rather be alone if I can't meet that person.

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Some people say that marriage is never about two people, but about two families. But I don't agree with this view. In my view of love, marriage is a matter for two people, and has nothing to do with others. Many times, we have to face the urging of parents, relatives and friends, as if they were more anxious than ourselves. In the eyes of many parents, as long as their children get married and start a family, the task is completed. I can understand their ideas, but I can't accept them. Choosing someone you don't love to live with is far more lonely than living alone.

I am 26 years old. I can still tell my parents firmly and bravely that I must marry the boy I really like. If not, I can wait!

I want to tell my 28-year-old self that you must learn from your 26-year-old self, don't bow to the so-called reality, don't give in to anyone, and don't be anyone's will!