1. The meaning and feelings of the ancient article "Lazy Woman"
A woman is extremely lazy, and her husband handles all her daily needs. She only knows how to reach out for clothes and open her mouth for food. . One day, the husband was about to go on a long journey and would not return until five days later. Fearing that he would be too lazy to starve, he baked a big cake and put it on the woman's neck for five days' needs, so he went out without worries. When my husband returned home, he had been starving to death for three days. The husband was horrified. When he entered the room, he saw that he had only eaten one piece of the cake near his mouth, but the cake was still untouched.
——"Laughing Lin Guangji"
General idea: A woman is very lazy. Her husband usually does everything at home. She only knows how to stretch out her hands for clothes and open her mouth for food. One day, the husband had to go out and would not come back for five days. He was worried that she would be too lazy and starve, so he baked a big cake and put it around the woman's neck. It was enough for her to eat for five days, so she went out without worries. By the time her husband returned home, the woman had been starving to death for three days. The husband was surprised. When he entered the room, he saw that the pancake wrapped around his neck had only been eaten in front of his mouth, and the other parts were not moved at all.
This is the pinnacle of laziness, absolutely great. This kind of persistence towards the bad habit of laziness can be said to be absolutely amazing.
Thoughts from "The Lazy Woman"
I recently read through "Laughing Lin Guangyu" and saw this joke: A woman is extremely lazy, and she Eating and drinking is all handled by her husband. She only knows how to stretch her hands with clothes and open her mouth with food. One day, the husband was about to go on a long journey. He was afraid that he would be too lazy to starve, so he baked a big cake and put it around his neck, which he would need for five days before he could go out safely. When her husband returned, the woman had been starving to death for three days. The husband was horrified. When he entered the room, he saw that he had only eaten a piece of the cake near his mouth, and the rest remained untouched. This joke is obviously too exaggerated. In real life, it would be difficult to find such a lazy and stupid woman.
No coincidence. According to an article: A certain school is a nationally renowned key school, known for cultivating students with both academic and moral excellence. But there was a third-grade student whose mother got up in the middle of the night to "pee" for him every night; when he was eleven years old, he still couldn't put on clothes or hats. There is a fourth-grade student who, in addition to other meals, has to bring an egg every day for lunch, and his parents are responsible for peeling it and putting it in his lunch box. Occasionally, the egg was not shelled, and the child was in trouble. He looked left and right, but he had no idea what to do, so he had to take it home. When his mother asked him why he didn't eat, he blamed her and said, "How can I eat without a seam?" This may seem absurd, but upon closer inspection, it's not uncommon.
I have a colleague who has a daughter who is over 18 years old and studying in a college in this city. She is usually very busy at work, but she has to rush to her daughter’s residence every weekend. Wash and dry. I asked why this was so, and she actually replied: "While my daughter is still around, do more for her and be willing to do more. When you get married in the future, you will have no chance to do anything for her." I was shocked!
This reminds me of a modern classic: In the past, children who did not listen to their parents would have no food for you to eat today; children today, if their parents do not listen, I would not eat today. Some parents are no longer "the head of the government is willing to be a slave", but "the head of the government is willing to be the slave of his children". They are obedient to their children, from head to toe, eating, drinking, toileting and sleeping. As a result, the pampered children are like the lazy woman in "The Lazy Woman", who only knows how to "stretch out her hands for clothes and open her mouth for food", and her ability to take care of herself seems to be zero.
"Hope your son will become a dragon and your daughter will become a phoenix" is the wish of every parent. Of course, parents should provide their children with some help in daily life, but blindly "caring for them all" will not only make their children lazy, but also lead to the harm of the next generation. As the saying goes, "It's the father's fault if you don't teach. If you don't teach strictly, it's the teacher's fault. If you don't learn when you are young, what will you do when you are old?" No matter how smart the child is, how high his IQ is, or how good his academic performance is, if he does not pay attention to the survival ability of at least adapting to the living environment and natural environment, if he wants to become a "dragon or phoenix" and do something big, I'm afraid it's unlikely.
At that time, it would be strange not to verify Su Dongpo’s “Everyone raises his son to be smart, but I will be harmed by my cleverness throughout my life”! 2. Who can give me a classical Chinese essay about youthful vitality?
Youth, such a vibrant word, youth, such an arrogant word, youth, such a flying word, youth, This is our golden age. What should we leave behind for our youth? Pity? No, just muddle through? No, we should leave the most brilliant and glorious strokes for our youth, so we must cherish the youth we have and not let it go to waste.
Students, let We cherish the youth we have in front of us, learn more knowledge in class, lay a solid foundation for our future, learn more housework that we can do in life, and exercise our self-care ability for future life. .
Looking back on the past, when I was in elementary school, my teacher told us this: A student who was excellent in both essays and essays was admitted to a key university. During his youth, his parents never allowed him to He didn't want to do any housework himself. He only thought about how to study well and ignored other things. When he was in junior high school, he had no close friends. Later, he finally got into college, but he only studied one degree. Zhou Shushu called his family and said that he didn’t want to study anymore. His parents felt very strange about this. Two days later, his family went to school to find him and saw that his bed was covered with dirty clothes and socks, and the quilt was also messy. Everything was so embarrassing. Looking at the other roommates, they were neat and clean. The parents suddenly understood: their son said, "I can't do anything." The parents cried and patted their son. It was because you didn't let him do it when he was in junior high school. Doing housework will harm you. My son said: "A person should take advantage of his youth to learn to do more things, otherwise he will harm himself. From this incident, I understand that the student in the matter did not have much time in his youth." I am learning to do housework, but my self-care ability is too poor to adapt to it. I think a person should learn to do more things while he is young and full of energy, and do not let himself regret it. The regretful youth should not erase a trace on his soul. The shadow that will not go away, we must cherish the youth we have.
Youth, let us fly, youth, let us travel, youth, let us try, cherish the youth we have in front of us, in youth During this period, you will encounter a lot of troubles, in studies, between friends, between teachers and students, and between parents. You should not regard these troubles as difficulties and feel that life is too tiring. Don’t think so. You should cherish Challenge these unstoppable difficulties with a challenging mentality. You must know that the bitterness comes first and then the sweetness. There is a lyric in the song: How can you see the rainbow without going through the wind and rain? And cherish the difficulties of youth. These are all honing your will and letting go. Your future path will be more fulfilling and more stable.
When you are young, you must absorb more knowledge. The knowledge you learn in youth is extremely important. As the saying goes, "If a young man does not work hard, he will be in vain." "You must cherish the youth you have. 3. Help me write an article about junior high school life with the theme of "Growth". The content can be written (learning methods, self-care skills
Golden childhood is beautiful and colorful The youth is beautiful, and the footprints of my growth are left everywhere.
The library full of books has left the footprints of my growth.
From the day I first became literate. , books have become my good teachers and helpful friends, teaching me knowledge and teaching me how to be a good person. Every Sunday, I will dive into the library and swim in the ocean of books. Sometimes I want to make a living in the bookstore. Down. On my tenth birthday, my sister gave me a library card. From then on, I could borrow books I liked and take them home to read. Now, I have read many books in my bookstore and learned a lot from them.
The campus full of friendship left the footprints of my growth.
When I was in fifth grade, I met a good friend, her name was Jiao Xiangou. We once made a beautiful vow on the campus ladder: to be best friends for life. Every time between classes, we would stroll around the campus, chatting and exchanging reading experiences. Under her influence, my personality gradually became more cheerful and my courage gradually grew. Once, my Chinese teacher misunderstood me. I wanted to go to the teacher to explain, but I didn't have the courage. She asked me what I was afraid of, and I said I was not afraid of anything. She said, "If that's the case, it means you have no reason to be afraid. It doesn't matter if you go ahead."
With her repeated encouragement, I finally mustered up the courage I gathered my courage and walked to the office. From then on, whenever I encounter difficult things, I will think of her, and I will have courage when I think of her.
When I was a teenager, my warm family left traces of my growth.
Now, I feel more and more the love my parents have for me, that selfless love. When I got to middle school, I had to get up early every day because I had to study early. But my mother got up earlier than me after a tiring day. Amid the symphony of pots and pans, I began to wash my face and brush my teeth. After washing up, a rich and emotional breakfast awaited me. The snow-white tablecloth was embroidered with several pure lilies, and several blooming flowers were placed in vases. Two fried eggs, a glass of milk, and a few delicious snacks, this is my breakfast. For more than a year, I have eaten such a breakfast every day to start my day of study.
In the park with beautiful scenery, in the amusement park with bursts of laughter, and in the bustling streets. . . . . .
The footprints of my growth are everywhere. 4. What are the contents of self-care?
The basic abilities of life, work and labor can be cultivated and exercised from five aspects.
(1) Learn to take care of yourself in daily life, such as dressing yourself, folding quilts, washing, organizing school bags and desks, washing small items, and going to school independently, etc. (2) Help parents with housework, learn to boil water, cook, stir-fry, shop, clean the room, operate the washing machine, settle utility bills, etc.
(3) Learn to do team work and social welfare activities well, be able to complete the tasks assigned by the Young Pioneers, pursue "the interests of the people above all else", and pay attention to social welfare activities. (4) Participate in productive labor within your ability.
(5) Receive enlightenment education in science and technology. In each part of self-care, we must strive to strengthen its knowledge, scientificity and creativity, increase its scientific and technological content, raise self-care activities to a new level, and lay the foundation for team members to engage in modern production labor and social activities in the future. 5. A 300-word essay on the unforgettable self-care ability competition
On Wednesday, the school held a self-care ability competition. Under the leadership of the teacher, we took the stools to the small playground to gather.
As soon as we sat down, the fierce competition started. The third grade students were the first to play. The third grade students all stared at their opponents eagerly, as if they wanted to eat them in one bite. As soon as the whistle blew, the third-grade students quickly folded their quilts, not losing to their opponents. The classmates on the cheerleading team behind them shouted "Come on" with all their strength, their voices getting louder and louder. Soon the whistle sounded again, and the third-grade students had to stop. Many people did not complete the task.
Next is the fourth grade. As soon as we saw our classmates coming out, we shouted as hard as we could. As soon as the whistle blew, the students in our class quickly folded their quilts like cars on the highway. We also shouted more crazily, some simply shouted "Come on! Come on!", some shouted "X X I was so moved, perhaps because of the intensity of the competition, that our class was far ahead and quickly completed the task and entered the finishing stage. Time passed by minute by minute and soon entered the countdown, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, stop! Our class stopped in time, although it was still a little unfinished. Students from other classes wanted to do it again, but unfortunately they were discovered and had to stop.
The self-care ability competition ended with our shouts. I hope our class can get the first place. 6. How to improve students' self-care ability
Only those who can take care of themselves can truly be self-reliant and live independently, thereby growing into a person who is useful to the family and society! This book will tell you the importance of self-care ability. It will also discuss with classmates the difficulties we usually encounter in life and study, and tell you some tips. I believe these will be very helpful to you.
When you become a person with the ability to study and take care of yourself, you will be an almighty little superman among your classmates and friends! Self-care is a required course in life. There was an Englishman named Robinson Crusoe. During a voyage, he unfortunately lost his way and drifted to a desert island.
There is no one there except cruel savages and poor captives. There was nothing to eat, wear, use, or shelter.
However, Robinson lived alone there for 28 years, relying on his strong self-care ability. During a long period of 28 years, Robinson transformed three caves into his own home, hunted wild animals for food, and then used their furs to make clothes.
He also grew grains and made bread from their flour. Later, Robinson rescued a native and trained him. He named him "Friday" and taught him many things, so that he would not be so lonely in the future.
The reason why Robinson Crusoe can survive depends on a kind of strong perseverance and the ability to survive independently in difficulties. And doesn’t the ability to survive independently begin with the ability to take care of yourself? If Robinson had no ability to take care of himself, or had poor self-care ability, I am afraid that he would have become a meal for those savages, and there would be no day when he could return to England.
Some students may think that my self-care ability is very poor, but I have a good mother and she will help me take care of everything. Parents can help for a while, but not forever.
I would like to ask: What should you do if your parents are not around? Learning to take care of ourselves will benefit us throughout our lives. It is not only a required course leading to a happy life, but also a golden key to a successful life. Learning to take care of ourselves and learn to survive are indispensable and compulsory courses for each of us in the life classroom.
If one day, you, who have always been picked up and dropped off by your mother, say to your mother: "Mom, from today on, I will go to school by myself, and I don’t need you to pick me up or drop off." I believe that at this time, you will get a big blessing. hug.
Do your own thing. We all learned this children's song when we were young: People have two treasures, their hands and their brains. The hands can work and the brain can think.
Only by using your hands and brain can you be creative. "Do your own thing" seems to be an unnecessary topic to talk about. Who doesn't know that you can do your own thing? However, in reality, there are indeed many students who do not do their own things. Let’s take a look at the following two examples.
When Xiao Li came home from school, he threw away his schoolbag, took off his coat, and threw his dirty sneakers onto the floor. "Grandma, I'm tired. Pour me a glass of juice. I want it iced."
Grandma, who was busy in the kitchen, quickly brought over a glass of iced orange juice. "Little ancestor, look at the mess you have made in the house."
"Grandma, you are here. My task is to study." "Okay, okay, as long as you study well, you don't need to do anything else. Take care of it."
Zhang Qian is a student in Class 3 of a certain school. His father is a businessman and his family is very rich. Every time it was Zhang Qian's group's turn to sweep the floor, Zhang Qian said to the other students: "I will clean the floor by myself."
As a result, he cleaned more classrooms than other groups. clean. For this reason, teacher Li, the head teacher, often praised Zhang Qian in the whole class for his love of labor.
Later, Teacher Li learned the truth: Zhang Qian spent 10 yuan to hire the old man in the reception room to clean every time he was on duty. In fact, people are born with the instinct to take care of themselves. For example, when they are born, they know how to find breast milk, when they fall down when they are toddlers, they know how to get up, and when they see adults wearing shoes, they also want to put on their own shoes, etc.
However, as I grow older, I don’t do these things that I should do, or I don’t know how to do them. The reasons are, first, the pampering of the parents, and second, the dependence on oneself.
Our parents’ attitude towards us must change, and we ourselves must also adjust our mentality. You must do the things you can do by yourself; you must learn to do the things you can’t do.
If you rely on your parents for everything and develop the bad habit of reaching out for clothes and opening your mouth for food, over time, not only will you become lazier, but you will also not know how to deal with life. A high school student, he has excellent academic performance, but has been doted on by his parents since he was a child.
During the college entrance examination, he was admitted to a prestigious university. However, years of living with clothes to put on his hands and food to eat made him lose the ability to live alone.
At school, he couldn't wash clothes and didn't know how to go to the cafeteria to get food. He could only call home over and over again. Less than half a month later, he sneaked home. His parents had no choice but to let him drop out of school.
Emphasizing on doing your own things by yourself is to cultivate the ability to take care of yourself, develop self-care habits, and lay the foundation for future independence and self-improvement. Of course, learning to take care of oneself not only refers to being able to take care of oneself in life, but also includes being able to take care of oneself psychologically, being able to adjust one's emotions, and maintaining a positive, optimistic, and calm attitude; it also includes being able to take care of oneself in learning, so that one's studies are orderly and orderly. sequence.
We use our hands and brains to make ourselves more and more capable, especially when we save ourselves and succeed without any external assistance. This allows us to truly feel our own power. . Let us go all out to maximize our potential and pursue amazing success.
We will understand the world better and better, and we will understand ourselves better and better. Self-care gives you the wings to fly high. In response to the problem of students' poor self-care ability, a certain school organized the "Good Children Should Care for themselves" activity and achieved remarkable results.
The following are some responses from parents in the home-school contact form: Charlene’s mother: Charlene did a great job this week. She got up in the morning to help adults fold quilts and took the initiative to arrange the dishes. Yang Fan’s father: Our Yang Fan never tidied the room before and kept things randomly. As a result, he could never find them when he needed them.
Now, things on Yang Fan’s desk are always arranged in an orderly manner, and his studies are carried out in an orderly manner according to the study plan made for the day. Ma Xiaoxian’s grandma: Xiaoxian studies very well, but she doesn’t like to work.
Through this activity, she has made a lot of progress. Yesterday we went to the supermarket with me and he even offered to help me carry my bag.
Thank you so much for school Ning! . 7. Respectively, about the meaning of good habits; the meaning of self-care ability; the meaning of maintaining an optimistic attitude
Many years ago, on the vast sea, there appeared something that amazed even fishermen with many years of experience. A spectacular scene: more than 300 giant whales one after another, chasing and running in the same direction in the wind and waves. A group of whales swam from the deep sea to the bay, then from the bay to the shallows... and finally stranded on the beach.
Various media responded quickly and issued reports of the sudden death of more than 300 giant whales.
Why is this?
It turned out that these giant whales were chasing sardines and were unknowingly trapped in the shallows of the bay. Biologist Frederick Brown Harris said: "These small fish lead the giants of the sea to their death. The whales die violently chasing small profits, expending their huge strength for trivial goals." A group of whales with huge power and potential were defeated miserably by tiny sardines.
No matter how powerful you are, if you cannot withstand the temptation, you are likely to fall into an irreversible abyss.
No matter how powerful it is, as long as the goal and direction are wrong, it is likely to decline or even die.
No matter how powerful you are, as long as you cannot defeat yourself, you cannot remain truly powerful.