Home is the harbor of the heart
Gong Li
I think home is more than just a harbor. When you are tired, the most important function of home is the inflatable tube. No matter you are tired or you are hurt, home can give you enough gas and let you renew the sail of life
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after wandering in the entertainment industry for several years, I suddenly found that my favorite place is home, which is the affection of my family, simple family style and the sweet smell of family reunion.
When taking a nap in filming and walking in a foreign land, the home comes to my mind the most, sometimes the dish of pickles on the dining table at home, and sometimes the shabby sweater on my mother's body. I asked myself, why do you think of this?
I gradually understand that the heart will go with the family. Because home moistens me and nurtures me. Wherever I go, the ethos and spirit of my family will continue in my behavior and generate new vitality. Home has been deeply rooted in my heart.
As a public figure, it is common to be misunderstood or even belittled. I feel deeply exhausted and lonely. At this time, I will definitely think of home. As soon as I want to get home, I will have strength. Home has always been a force to support me and accompany me, and my steps forward have become light.
Before I got married with Huang Hexiang, I made a special trip back to my hometown to pick up my mother for the wedding in Hong Kong, only to learn that my mother was seriously ill and was in hospital. At that time, my mood was very complicated and I was deeply caught in a dilemma. As the only daughter of her old man's house, I have no reason not to be with her when she is going to have a life-threatening operation at any time, but the invitation to the wedding in Hong Kong has been sent out. If the media finds out what consequences it will have on me, I don't have to think about it.
My mother insisted that I return to Hong Kong early on the grounds that changing the wedding date was unlucky for me. My three brothers asked me to put public reputation first and hold the wedding as scheduled. They are all my beloved relatives, and their understanding makes me feel that I am not alone in society, and I don't just work for myself. I feel a kind of power.
Mother has a purple pullover, which I bought for her a few years ago. It was bitten by a bug and it is very old. After my mother got cerebral thrombosis, it was difficult to lift her right arm up and down, and it was very difficult to wear a pullover. I want to buy her a cardigan and get rid of this old one, but my mother won't allow it. She asked her aunt for help, cut the middle of the sweater, knitted a side with wool of similar color, and changed the pullover into a cardigan.
I was really touched to see my mother do this. Their generation lived with bitterness and sweat. Now their children have the conditions to let them enjoy happiness. Why do they still do this? This is an idea and a spirit. These things permeate my life imperceptibly, affecting me, and I have no choice but to carry the imprint of my home in everything I do.
once, after a meal in a restaurant, I packed my bags and went home. A reporter wrote an article "Gong Li can't eat". Actually, my mother does this every time. Mother has a famous saying that has been said many times: "No one is qualified to spoil food." That time, my mother and I ate out together, and the crucian carp soup was served late, and everyone just took a symbolic sip. I thought the soup was bad, so I said forget it. Mom said, "No." She asked the young lady to pour out the leftover soup and pack the crucian carp and tofu to take home. The next day, we drank the white crucian bean curd soup she made again.
Maybe many people don't believe it. I often go to the "Xiushui Street" stall in Beijing to buy clothes. First, because my usual clothes are very simple, the clothes on the stall can meet my needs. Second, because I have always believed that in daily life, there is no need to package yourself in a luxurious and luxurious way without the most comfortable and humanistic life, that is to say, everything outside is for people. This is the most basic understanding of life that my family has given me. As long as it's not acting or socializing, I hardly wear any jewelry at ordinary times. I don't like bling, because my mother is like this. She is over 7 years old and has never had her ears pierced. This is very rare. She even told me the disadvantages of luxury like a child. She never wears some jewelry I bought her. It seems that her pleasure is only in collecting.
By analyzing the successful families, we can see that there are hard-working, frugal, enterprising and honest trees growing in the soil of those families, and each tree can give the family the necessary shade for growth. People who come out of such a family, whether brilliant or not, will at least be unanimously affirmed in their life.
I think home is more than just a harbor. When you are tired, it allows you to park and rest. The most important function of home is the inflatable tube. No matter whether you are tired or you are hurt, home can give you enough gas and let you regain the sail of life.
I am today, and I am very grateful to my parents for creating a positive home for me. This home has given me great support and will always support me.