Love itself is not a bad thing, but loving too deeply can become a burden. When people live in one place for too long and stick to one image for too long, we all feel a little tired, let alone reality. Life puts too much pressure on love, and no matter how romantic it is, in the end it will only be food, rice, oil, salt and chicken feathers.
There is a story in the Buddhist scriptures. Due to the karma of two people in the previous life, the Buddha in the next life turned one of them into a tree and grew it on the roadside that the woman must pass by, so that they could form a mortal relationship. It was a pity that The tree only cared about attracting the wind and its branches, forgetting the woman waiting for him under the tree. When the waiting became hopeless, she felt sad and left alone. Because some emotions can only be a kind of watch. Under the watch, After one reincarnation, who can say that there is no reincarnation of love? If love is a tree, you cannot hang yourself on a tree, because the content of life is too rich, and the love tree may not be strong enough to carry all the content of life. If you want to hang yourself on a tree, If you want to hang yourself, you are afraid that you will be hanged, the branch will be broken, and you will be hanging half dead. Don't think that as soon as the rope is pulled and your feet are in the air, the result will be quick.
In fact, you have to go through a period of struggle, contraction, and suffocation before you can reach the calm stage, which is amazing. It's not worth hanging from one tree. Can you consider hanging from several trees? This would be equivalent to dividing your own weight and not putting too much pressure on one tree.
Women are like trees, and beautiful women are like Christmas trees. Natural objects are filled with artificial things, so it is not worth hanging on a woman tree. It is better to pursue a beautiful Christmas tree. An apple tree is real. The beautiful Christmas tree is lifeless. It is used to show off to others, but the apple tree will bring you results and harvest.
Therefore, smart men will not hang themselves on a tree. They should learn from the experience of hanging themselves on a Christmas tree, learn from their mistakes, and no longer pose difficult problems to love. Love equals love, moonlight, poetry, 9999 roses plus eternity. Because this kind of love is too perfect. Too perfect means that love is over and people are over. Smart men don’t get married, but stupid men keep getting married.
Every man has a dream, which is to have beautiful women in the world, but a woman has only one dream, that is, when she has a dream, someone will help her realize it. When a man cannot fulfill a woman's wish, he must learn to find other trees. A smart man should spend his life finding more trees to hang himself from, because women are born to reject animals and reject all cheap and inferior clothes. jewelry. Of course, men cannot hang themselves from a tree after rejection. Of course, men should not be afraid of women. Women cannot be men's best friends, nor can they become men's worst enemies.
So the old people often say; keep some wisdom in case of unexpected events, that is to say, don’t be too attached. Love is dangerous because of attachment. Once you find that the tree is withering, find a new tree immediately, and you will have enough. It takes energy and mind to deal with it.
For example, if you don’t get grapes from a vine, you can use the principle of sour grapes to find a better vine.
You can try to fall in love If you go to the forest, you will become an optimist about love. You will feel the birds singing and the fragrance of flowers in the forest of love. You can choose the tree that suits you best to rest. If you are far away from the forest of love, you will be alone. A tree, just when you feel the singing of birds and the fragrance of flowers, you can't help but worry about the allergies caused by pollen and the bird droppings falling from the sky.
Love cannot hang a tree. Only a little love can make us discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. Only by loving a little can we not be too sad when we lose. Only then will we have more surprises; only by loving a little will we feel that loving and being loved is an easy thing.