What is a real scholar?

In the eyes of most people in China,' gentlemanly demeanor' is just dressing appropriately, respecting women and being educated or cultivated. Even due to the limitation of environment and education, quite a few people think that a gentleman is hypocritical and derogatory. In fact, the meaning of the word' gentleman' is far beyond many people's understanding. The word "gentleman" originated in western countries, where people generally believe in Christianity. It refers to a person's love and respect for other lives, and it is also a quality that a person should have. If everyone calls a person a real gentleman, it means that people have given him recognition and praise. In fact, a true gentleman is a group of people who insist on faith, imitate Christ and love God. They believe that God loves the world, and they don't want to see mankind fall into sin and suffering and suddenly face eternal death, that is, the punishment of being separated from God forever. So he sent his only son, Jesus Christ (the Son and God are one), to bear the pain and death for mankind, so that all those who believe in him will not perish, but will have eternal life. Jesus, the son, showed the infinite divine love of God to mankind. The creator of heaven and earth was humble enough to become a servant, a body of flesh and blood, and even willing to be crucified for all mankind! God loves us so much, how can we not love him! ? Since we love God, how can we not obey his commands? ! Because it is God who tells us to love our neighbors as ourselves, even our enemies, and to pray for those who persecute ourselves. These are the reasons and motives for a gentleman to respect others and selflessly dedicate his love to other lives. Of course, there are many fake gentlemen in this world, so what's the difference between them and real gentlemen? First of all, the purpose of a hypocrite's behavior is to satisfy his sense of superiority, try to raise himself or for some secular interests, in short, to satisfy his physical life. What a real gentleman does has no secular purpose, but is out of selfless love from the heart and the' fruit of gratitude' from God's holy love and redemption. Secondly, when a hypocrite faces great interests or sacrifices, his true colors will be revealed. A true gentleman will stick to noble humanity, respect and care for others, and even in the face of death, he will take the initiative to leave the hope of life to others. The whole world is witnessing; Both the Titanic and the World Trade Center are in danger. Almost all adults will take the initiative to leave the right and hope of life to women and children, and to those who have not converted to Christ. In them, people see what a real gentleman is! What makes them leave their life rights and hopes to others when facing death? What made them overcome their fear of death and keep a calm and quiet heart? The answer is: people's faith in Christ, God is in people's hearts! ! Because Christians firmly believe that they have gained eternal life far more precious than physical life! Many people don't know or don't want to know that a true gentleman's demeanor must be based on faith and must grow up in a heart that loves God. If people don't have a heart that loves God, they can't have true selfless and self-sacrificing fraternity like God, because love comes from God, and God is love! And a man who claims to be a gentleman but has no faith is like a body that has extracted his own soul. Physical death without soul, a gentleman without faith is false!