"Talking about Piaget, Skinner, Freud, Vygotsky, Habitology, Social Ecology ... In my grandmother's kitchen, she will listen politely. Finally, she will say: this is a theory, a very good theory, but what does this have to do with Frank? Frank is a nine-year-old child. " -Children: Psychological Development of Children (9th Edition) "
It's like digging. Some people say that the square is good, others say that the circle is good, and the exchange is endless, but they don't pay attention to the water as an element of the pool. What is water in education? It's love, it's love. Without love, education will become a stagnant pool. Whether you are square or round, you can't escape a kind of emptiness. Xia Mianzun.
What will we say to a guest who forgot to bring an umbrella? Will you catch up and say, "What's wrong with you? Every time you come to my house, you leave something, either this or that. Why can't you be like your sister? When she comes to my house, she is always very disciplined. You are 44 years old! Can't you keep a long memory? I'm not a slave who follows you to pick things up! I bet if your head didn't grow on your shoulder, you would lose it all! " We don't talk to guests like this. We said, "This is your umbrella, Alice." There will be no more words: "You are always careless."
Parents need special ways to get along with their children and talk to them. If any of us is lying on the operating table, before the anesthesiologist anesthetizes us, the surgeon comes in and says, "I really don't have much training in surgery, but I love my patients and I will operate with common sense." How will you feel at this time? We might panic and run for our lives. But for parents who believe that love and common sense are enough, their children are not easy. Parents, like surgeons, need to learn special skills so that they can handle their children's daily requirements. Just as a well-trained surgeon needs to be careful when cutting a knife, parents should also have skills when using language, because language is like a knife, which will bring pain, even if it is not physical pain, it will leave many painful scars emotionally.
-Give me your hand, kid.
"Even the most ordinary children will become extraordinary people as long as they are properly educated!" -Hull maintenance.
Evaluating Piaget's contribution to developmental psychology is as difficult as evaluating Shakespeare's influence on English literature and Aristotle's influence on philosophy. -Pauline (1992)
Every minute, just one minute, about 20 children under the age of 5 in the world leave this world forever; Every day, about 30 thousand children under the age of five will never see the sun of tomorrow; Every year, 10.6 million children under the age of five can't receive next year's birthday presents.
-World Health Report, WHO, 2005
"Facts tell us that parents' instinctive love for their children is more important than those complicated mechanical operation manuals. Every time you pick up the baby, change his diaper, feed him and smile at him, he will feel that he belongs to you and you belong to him. No one else in the world, no matter how smart an expert or how skilled a nanny, can give him such a feeling. "
"Parents don't have to be afraid of their ignorance of raising children. They can easily and confidently cultivate good children. "
"Remember, you always know your children better than I do." -Spock's advice to parents.
"The fate of the country is not so much in the hands of the authorities as in the hands of the mother!" -Froebel
Young people who are teachers must be the top talents in this country ... Now the first-class talents are engaged in economic construction ~ Scientific Outlook on Development, who is a sustainable teacher, of course:-) Let's go back to the intertwined institutional problems ... All we can do is "bow our heads and feel sorry for ourselves ..."
Educate yourself first, and then educate others when you become a person. Wilhelm Von Humboldt
The germination of morality exists in the relationship between the baby and the mother. -Pestalozzi
As a kindergarten teacher, we should not regard this as a career, but as a career. Although there is only one word difference between these two words, there are essential differences. -Zuo Shudong
"Generally, boys are in love, happy to be idle and afraid of being caught, such as at the beginning of vegetation, comfortable and frustrated. Today's teaching for boys must make them tend to be inspirational and happy, so they can't enter. For example, in rainy spring, when flowers and trees are stained, it naturally grows longer and longer; First frost is gone, business is depressed, and the manuscript will be dry in the future. " Wang Shouren.
Parents, teachers and friends are virtuous people, who are fond of seducing and being used to dyeing since childhood, and are worried about being possessed. -(Qing) Liu Yuan
From 65438 to 0960, Zhang Xuemen suddenly suffered from encephalopathy and paraplegia. Although his eyes are almost blind, his hands and feet are out of order, and his ears are deaf, he still struggled to write many books on preschool education, such as Kindergarten Curriculum Activity Center and Kindergarten Behavior Course, and made a theoretical summary of his lifelong preschool education practice.
-History of Early Childhood Education Thought, edited by Du Chengxian and Shan Zhonghui, People's Education Publishing House, first edition in June 2008, P 178.
The child doesn't understand why he wants this and that. But adults, like children, stumble on this land and don't know where they come from or where they are going. They also lack real goals and are dominated by biscuits, cakes and whips.
-"Young Werther's Trouble"
"He is now in his twenties, well-proportioned, physically and mentally healthy, muscular and dexterous; He is full of emotion and reason, and his heart is very kind; He has good moral character and aesthetic ability, he loves beauty and is willing to be kind; He got rid of all kinds of cruel desires and prejudices, he obeyed the laws of reason, and he listened to the voice of friendship. He has many useful skills, but he also knows several arts; He doesn't care about money. His means of making a living is his arm. Wherever he goes, he doesn't worry about bread. "
Rousseau.
PS: Although Rousseau has been criticized for his children's behavior, this virtual emir may be the ideal of many parents.
The practical kindergarten school we invented and successfully adopted is the first step taken so far to create a reasonable system for organizing and managing human beings and introduce human beings into a truly peaceful and prosperous world. Irving
If parents sow wayward seeds in their children's hearts, but want to reap the fruits of discipline, it is impossible. -Comenius
"I have been living among them from morning till night. It is my hands that provide them with all their physical and mental needs. They all get the necessary help, comfort and instruction directly from me. Their hands are held by me, and my eyes are fixed on their eyes. I shed tears and smiled with them. They don't know there is such a world, and they don't know there is such a Stenz, but they can't live without me. Their diet is my diet. I have no home, no friends, no servants, only them ... At night, I was the last one to go to bed, sleeping among them, praying with them and reading with them until they fell asleep; I get up the earliest in the morning, change their dirty clothes and wash their dirty things. "
"I am very pleased to see that these young children used to be very poor and now they are slowly growing sturdily. Their faces are full of satisfaction. They learned to work and their spirituality improved. Tears glistened in their eyes when they prayed. From these abandoned children, I can rediscover the dawn of their hope, morality and emotion, which makes me extremely gratified. I'm afraid people will never dare to expect these poor children to become all kinds of qualities of human growth. It is difficult to describe the happiness of finding talented people among these miserable children. "
"If you can't love children, I don't know what rules, methods and skills you can talk about."
-Pestalozzi
Your own behavior is the most decisive ... parents' demands on yourself, parents' respect for their families, and parents' behavior-this is the first and most important method of family education.
Makarenko.
Writer Ondelin Brooks attributed her analogy ability to the games her mother encouraged her to play when she was just walking. "The game with the deepest memory is invented by my mother herself ... She will say,' Let's visit our yard', and then we will listen to the story of every plant and every stone ... Lizards sunbathing on bricks will soon become heroes in dinosaur stories. The jagged mushroom on the fence that fell to the ground turned into a ladder to a mysterious country, and a daisy turned into a doll in a azalea skirt ... Her way of observing the world included poetry ... When I was five years old, our small yard contained a parallel universe. "
-13 genius thinking habits