The building stands tall because it has strong pillars. Ideals and beliefs are the pillars of the building of life. Below is what I brought to you for your enjoyment.
: Having fun alone
I don’t know when, I fell in love with a light smell.
A touch of fragrance, a touch of communication, a touch of smile, a touch of sadness.
There is a kind of person who has always lived in your life. Nothing has ever happened to him, and he has never gone deep into it. He just pays attention to you with eyes, heart, tenderness and heart.
Maybe there will be no contact for a long time, maybe we will think of you occasionally, maybe just a glance, maybe it has been many years.
Yes, if it is too strong, it will taste boring. If you feel it too deeply, you will never remember it. Only those bland, tasteless things will always be by your side without being given up.
Gardenia flowers are blooming, white, not so eye-catching, but elegant and beautiful. Viewed from a distance, the subtle whiteness reveals a lasting gesture. No fighting, no fuss. When the prosperity is over, it quietly blooms the stamens. The light flower body just stands in the night, a little white and a little fragrant.
The wind-swept path is leisurely and winding. Just walking in a calm and unhurried manner, my heart was extremely calm. Many memories are just blank. Maybe there is nothing to think of at all. In that case, just let nature take its course.
In the deep night, light a heart lamp to warm up the somewhat cold night. It's not that I don't remember it, it's that I don't remember it at all.
There is a woman who is like the fragrance of wood, hidden deep inside.
Many times, I will dwell deeply in this light time, stir up the economics in my heart, and weave sweet sadness. The densely packed space is filled with poetic Andantes one after another.
I like a pearl-like soul, so bright and bright. The purity washed by countless seawater breeds a smooth soul. It is that calmness and calmness that is so cherished.
Live a simple life.
Quiet in a flower field, it is lonely, but also sentimental. Because I gradually understood that no one is living life like this, so why should we expect a grand and prosperous life?
Self-opening and self-falling, a spring scene. A year of summer. Let nature take its course, let your heart bloom without distracting thoughts, and let it fall without any sadness.
Nothing can be let go.
That’s it, looking at the past lightly.
Sitting on this day full of gardenia flowers, facing the changes in the world. Some people come and go, and the scenes of people coming and going are all dimmed by the lights of the years.
Since you like to relax, then have fun alone.
: The more right you do, the more people will talk about you behind your back
In life, there are two things you should do as little as possible: one is to interfere with other people’s lives with your own words , the second is to rely on other people’s brains to think about your own life.
A life without explanation is a truly powerful life. The most unfortunate life is to live in unfortunate memories, the most unscientific life is to live in bad habits, the least ideal life is to live in the same mistakes, and the most desperate life is to bury one's ideals with one's own hands. Traveling around the world is just to find a way back to your heart.
Some decisions only take us one minute, but it will take us a lifetime to regret that minute. Nostalgic, not because of how good that era was, but because you were young at that time.
Life is a long journey, and we cannot be perfect every step of the way. It is not a bad thing to fall a few times and take a few detours. At least it allows us to taste the frustration and add experience, which makes our life better. Life is colorful.
Don’t easily expose your inner fragility, learn to bear everything you should bear; don’t easily talk about the embarrassment of life, learn to face the messy and disorderly reality; don’t easily waste every day, because that is the rest of your life On the first day of life; don't compromise to the world easily, it makes you cry, you have to make yourself laugh while persisting. As long as we can bear it, don't escape, cherish it, and have a strong heart, life will not be too pale.
The more right you do, the more people will talk about you behind your back. The better off you are, the more people will ridicule you behind your back. The stronger you become, the more people will attack you from behind. I don't mind at all if you hate me, I don't live to please you.
The today you waste is the tomorrow that those who died yesterday hoped for. The present that you hate is the past that you cannot go back to in the future. Time is cruel, cherish the people in front of you. Time is really good. It makes the pain no longer hurt and lets go of the things that can't be let go. Don't always feel that you are not happy enough. There is no unhappiness, only dissatisfaction.
Only by being low-key can you act with a high profile. To be expensive but not showy, to be flashy but not dazzling is the highest state of life. Being low-key means meeting people on a narrow road and walking side by side.
When the earth is low, it becomes the sea, and when people are low, they become kings. Being low-key can minimize human interference and obstacles, and make it easier to achieve career success. The lower you put yourself, the higher your status will be in the hearts of others.
If no one brings breakfast, just make it for yourself; if no one says good night, just say it to yourself; if no one greets you, just pay attention to the sunny or rainy temperature; if no one makes an appointment, just plan a fulfilling weekend by yourself . If you keep staring at the water in your hand, you will spill it. If you keep thinking about getting rid of being single, you will end up doing more haste than speed. The one thing that can never go wrong is to work hard to make yourself more wonderful. If you bloom, the breeze will come.
The best is like water: Being a human being is like water. If you are high, I will retreat and never drown your strengths. If you are low, I will rush in and never expose your shortcomings. If you move, I will follow you and never expose your shortcomings. I will never leave your loneliness behind; when you are quiet, I will stay with you and never disturb your peace; when you are hot, I will boil and will never hinder your enthusiasm; when you are cold, I will freeze and will never ignore your coldness. The best is like water, following the good is like flowing, and life is like water, following the fate and following the crowd.
Many things are not something you can do just by thinking about them. Many things are not something you can get if you ask for them. Many people can't be kept if you keep them. Don't take everything so seriously. The lost scenery, the separated people, the longing that cannot wait, all live at the end of fate. Why be too persistent? What should come will come naturally, and what will go will not be retained. The best life is to let go of your obsessions and just go with the flow
: Life is about living together as a partner
Life is about living together as a partner, but the key point is what kind of person do you partner with? What kind of guy? What kind of life will they live?
Everyone is pursuing a life based on love, and always hopes to enjoy their life every day The feeling of being surrounded by the breath of love, they always feel that this kind of life is worthy of their life, and only such a life accompanied by love is the real life they want, or maybe this is every psychology The perfect life pursued by healthy people.
But I was thinking: "Life, shouldn't real life be about daily necessities? Shouldn't it be noisy? Or should I say that I am living with that specific person every day?" Have you survived the years? Living together like this is life, isn't it?" Sometimes, no matter how romantic the process is, under the baptism of life, you will no longer just enjoy the romance of love, but more. It is the pursuit of the true meaning of life, real life. Because life is not always as casual as one wants, it is more about firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, more about endless noisy fights over the trivial matters of life, and more about all kinds of things that start under the pressure of money. Such nonsensical disputes, as well as ordinary years and ordinary home-cooked meals, this is life, this is the reality of life, this is real life!
I once read an article, the content is roughly It is about a woman's pursuit of life. The woman said to the man she once had a romantic relationship with: "What I fear most is that I will not marry you in the end. Yes, I just like his money." Maybe many people will criticize this woman very decisively without thinking about it, and will use all kinds of sharp words to say that this woman is not good. If I see these people's comments, I will still laugh at these people. I laugh at these people's ignorance, laugh at these people's lack of brains, laugh at these people's false high-mindedness, laugh at these people who have brains but never use them to think, and they don't understand that only after serious thinking are people qualified to comment on this woman.
The woman said: "At that time, I thought, I earn my own bread, it will be good if I have you, and you will give me love."
A friend of mine told me this A more realistic story. When she was in high school, she fell in love with a promiscuous man and later eloped with him. The man forced her to work in a nightclub, giving him every cent of the money she earned every month, and she had to endure his doubts and scoldings. Later she met a man who was very kind to her. He could give her enough money and care, but he could never give her a home. Many people think that she can do anything for money, and they are full of disdain and contempt when mentioning her. The woman said, "I used to think that we could earn bread together. It would be nice to have him and he would give me love. But later I discovered that not only did I have no bread, I didn't even have love." Anyway, I don't think this woman has it. What's wrong? Maybe some people will say: "I am a girl who doesn't know the heights of heaven and earth, right and wrong, good and evil in the world." But I still laugh at your words, and I still don’t agree with your point of view. The simple truth is that if a woman is willing to be with a man without pursuing any material things, then the result is that she chooses to have love lingering in her heart. The other kind of life is when she chooses to be with a man who has a certain financial foundation and chooses to be surrounded by money. Many times, the choice must come at a price, because no matter what kind of choice it is, in the final years of life, she will definitely continue to live the same way. A life with love and a life with a material foundation are both important. If you choose to live together as a partner, your future partner life will definitely have a different flavor.
They still live together, but luckily or unfortunately, you are in love during the years of living together, and sometimes in real life, you can’t even have that poor love. They will all disappear.
Or if you have money, you will live a different life, a different kind of life together under the guidance of money, but I still believe that some of them want to be together at first. All they want is love. Later, under the pressure of reality, they may discover and feel how naive and ridiculous they are. You will feel happy or sad. At least you have the memories of your past love to survive the coming years together. The days to come are considered a blessing, right? I don’t know, what will the result be?
It’s not bad to live with a partner without love and money. Bring abundant money and live with the person who is willing to live with you, live a life where money brings benefits, and enjoy a different state of mind. Since we are all living together, the choice is particularly important. Just remember that you cannot have your cake and eat it too. I remember a friend of mine who, in order to pursue a life of partnership with love, would rather abandon his newlywed wife who had established a partnership with him without a basis for love and start a life of separation. I think it is unwise, life is like a This is a classic work that contains Yongzhen. Only those who can stand the test of time and live together can truly appreciate the meaning of life. Maybe you will say that life with love will be more satisfying, but I want to tell you that people who have not experienced life with you but only experienced love may not necessarily be able to cooperate with you and live together. years.
I hope that everyone can find the person who is truly willing to live with them. That person can be someone who has never been in love with you, but he must be someone who is particularly cultivated, cultivated, and capable. Interesting, able to tolerate you and bring you peace of mind, and have the same interests and hobbies as you, willing to chat with you every day, occasionally quarrel with you, occasionally get angry, and always be with you Good one. I think only such a person can live an ordinary life with you, and can stand the test of time and years. Only then can you be qualified to say that I have found someone to live with, and I have found the true meaning of life.