Due to the impact of the epidemic, this year's graduates are facing severe employment problems. Under such circumstances, the students of Wuhan University are confused about the future and have no way to look forward to it. He wrote this feeling in this letter, and also expressed the anxiety of many graduates who are about to graduate.
After learning this, Gao wrote back a long letter, comforting the students of Wuhan University with his past experience. Don't feel confused, there is always such a stage in life.
Although the original intention was good, it was vomited by netizens:
"High, forget it. It is normal for college students to be under great pressure. College students should have had this kind of mood. How to say it, let's lower our mindset. "
"Chicken soup is still rare. This kind of thing is suitable for children to dream."
Some people also put forward their own views on military college students:
"As long as you do everything down to earth, you have the right to pursue your dreams."
Some netizens also questioned:
"Wu da graduated without a way out? Are all the remaining undergraduate and junior college students dead? Freshman, don't say you are difficult. See how many preferential policies the country has given. Please look at the middle-aged unemployed. "
No matter from which angle, we can sum up the position of college students in Wushu in one sentence: they can't walk any further, and they don't want to take a step back.
Summarize Gao's comfort in one sentence: life is really not easy, why not eat minced meat?
Life is sometimes like this:
We lack the courage to say we don't deserve it. All confusion and anxiety come from anxiety about the future. At the same time, we still don't understand the truth that the road of life needs to be taken step by step. Finally, we haven't found the miniature "Poetry and Distance" around us that is worth cherishing.
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We lack the courage to say that we are not worthy of ourselves.
There is a poem that makes people feel that the days of life should be spent slowly, and that is Li Yuansheng's "I want to waste my time with you".
"I want to waste time with you.
Like looking down at the fish.
For example, put the teacup on the table and leave.
Waste their beautiful shadows
I also want to waste it with the sunset.
Like walking.
Until the stars are all over the sky ... "
The scene described in the poem has made countless people yearn for it and shocked many people's souls. People can't help but stop for a moment, only to find that the life they are pursuing is like a poem, and finally they are defeated by reality.
So some people don't want to leave their troubles behind, travel, go straight to naked resignation, and rush to that desperate dream life. In the end, few people can really find a practical direction.
He has such a friend, Xiao Ning, who has just graduated and worked for a long time, and finds his work very boring. Living at 3. 1 minute every day makes him gradually fall into disgust with life.
He always felt that he was not fresh enough, so he worked for less than a year and went to naked resignation and went on a poor trip to Europe.
I imagined the exotic customs of northern Europe in my mind, and I was in trouble as soon as I went out. First of all, the plane had to be delayed for two hours because of the weather.
Later, after a series of tossing and turning, he finally arrived and had a good time, but he always felt uneasy. Finally, he had to face the problem of insufficient cash budget. One night, he simply slept in a European station.
After coming back this time, Shinohara Ning has changed. At dinner together, he told us that he had found a new job and was ready to do it well. No matter what happens, we must stick to it. He felt that his previous impulse was a little naive.
Of course, he also shared with us the strange things he encountered in northern Europe.
The distance between the poem and the distance may be very short, so short that you can touch it with your hands, but then this short touch will make people know clearly that the poem and the distance are still far from real life.
We always feel that we can enjoy this life, but we can't believe that once we indulge in luxury, we will understand that poetry and distance are like a fairy tale.
Fu Seoul said such an interesting remark in A Wonderful Story. After careful consideration, it is worth pondering: "In fairy tales, it is said that the prince and princess finally lived a happy life, and you talked about a boyfriend breaking up. It is strange that fairy tales lie to you. Which country are you a princess? You are just a woman, and fairy tales never tell you that a woman falls in love with a man, and they are really happy. "
Sometimes, most people need to run hard to get the life they want. We always feel that we have worked so hard and deserve better, but few people realize that there are some things that we don't deserve to enjoy at present.
Fu Seoul also had such a high-energy debate moment in "Qi Pa Shuo". In view of the "exquisite poverty" problem of contemporary young people, she said this:
"How can young people with poor families and high hearts choose a life that suits them in this consumerism-ridden life?"
"I just feel young and need some courage, determination and patience. If the world is not good enough for us, I think it is also a way to fight. "
"Too many young people in our time are willing to tell themselves that I am worthy, and too few people will tell themselves that I am not worthy ... We always have the determination to tell ourselves that I am worthy, but we don't have the courage to tell ourselves that I am not worthy."
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The road of life needs to be taken step by step.
There is such a short film abroad, interviewing people of different ages from 7 to 93. Everyone gives a piece of advice to people one year younger than themselves. What kind of law will appear from young to old?
From the youngest 7-year-old child, she wanted to tell younger children that only babies rely on training wheels.
From childhood to adolescence to adulthood, every growth is summed up by experience.
As an adult, you gradually understand the true meaning of "life", and survival seems more important.
After middle age, I began to realize that other people's opinions are actually not that important.
Walking into the tail of life, people who have experienced it will tell you that you squander everything and have no regrets!
Finally, the 93-year-old man, with a wrinkled face, said slowly in front of the camera, "Don't listen to other people's advice, because no one knows what he is doing!" "
Every stage of life is just a stage, and each stage has its own puzzles and problems to be solved. It seems that you have no choice but to take the current step.
Only in the end, step by step, can you say a word to yourself in front of you.
Just like when you were in primary school, you felt wronged, afraid and lost because you lost an important game, which became a hurdle you had to cross at that time.
But later, I found that life is always ups and downs, and maybe it will continue to fall, so it is particularly important to take every step well.
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We have our own poems and distant places.
Some time ago, in a program, I saw one thing:
A college student, relying on the hard-earned money saved by his sister and mother, realized his poetry and distance. When the college student proudly told the host about his experiences of backpacking through Tibet, hiking through the rainforest and stepping into the desert, the host didn't respond to him, but asked him, "Do you know that your mother will do odd jobs to wash dishes in the restaurant after work for her dream?"
The college students were silent for a while, and then said, "I think people should do something meaningful while they are young and see the world more."
The host became very serious: "However, all this should not be based on the pain of your mother and sister. You should see the world on your own. If not, you should be practical, study hard, work hard and make money. "
Many people want to take advantage of their youth to have a good look at the world and do things like "poetry and distance", but we have to admit that many times life is limited and regrettable, and how we tolerate these regrets is very important.
Poetry and distance can be put aside, and before you have laid a good foundation, make money first.
Money is a concept word. It's not tacky to mention money. The key is how to get it and how to use it.
A gentleman loves money, takes it wisely and uses it wisely.
Poetry and distance are by no means empty words. What we need to pay for them is not only a feeling, but also a belief in doing things in a down-to-earth manner.
Over the years, Li's videos have been loved by people. Li's videos make people feel the comfort of returning to nature in the hurried urban life.
The content quality of each video is also very high, with exquisite snacks, natural scenery of the four seasons and the display of various traditional crafts.
Today, on the Weibo platform, Li has 24.84 million fans. At first, it was said that it might take a long time for Li to have an injection alone. Once she stood in the snow and froze for two hours before she fired a shot.
Why do people like her videos? In addition to the high quality of Li's content, there is also the content that Li feels inside and outside.
From her proficiency in housework and farm work, we can know that this is not a person who studies sales just for shooting, but her long life experience and experience support her achievements today.
For example, Li's New Year's Eve dinner looks not only delicious, but also beautiful. This is her romantic life texture, which is inseparable from the satisfaction of doing things in a down-to-earth manner.
Jiang said at the round table: "I hate what young people say now. Life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance. But I don't think these two aspects are opposite. We have to accept the triviality of life, and the present is also poetry and distance, as well as poetry and distance. "