Jianjia is green, and white dew is frost;
The so-called beauty is on the side of the water.
Yiren is a man’s lingering affection. The sweetheart can be a lady, a hip-hop girl, or a shrewd woman. The most important thing is that a certain man just thinks she is cute. The sweetheart can be stunningly beautiful, dignified and beautiful, or a little clownish and weird. The most important thing is ——A certain man just likes her.
I searched for her thousands of times in my dream,
Suddenly I looked back,
That person was in the dim light.
Every man has a dream of a beautiful woman in his heart. He may not necessarily meet her in a certain market or at a certain time. She is affectionate and charming, as if she has known him for a long time. . You were my destined fate in my previous life, and I am the reason why you came to this world in this life. When I meet you, I will live up to my hard work and come to this planet.
Who will wait persistently for his lover? Who suddenly looks back at the sweetheart at just the right time...?
I smell the smell of early spring,
The fresh fragrance is like a childhood dream.
I also taste the bitterness of longing,
This time I look at the boundless desolation like autumn rain in the distance.
My beloved!
Will you still remember my thoughts, sorrows and struggles many years later?
Do you know?
Without you,
My dinging heart!
It’s always like this,
There’s nowhere to put it….
This is "Nowhere to Place" sung by Wang Feng to Zhang Ziyi. When a man smells the fragrance of early spring and his heart is always ringing with no place to rest, that means his lover has appeared. But not beside him. A man over forty finally waited for his sweetheart. Neither of them waited in vain, and neither of them met at the right time.
I am willing to suffer a lot of doubts and ridicules for you, and I am willing to wash away the brilliance for you and be locked into the prison cell of marriage. The dream of Yi Ren is actually the dream of two people. Only when two people feel that the other person is the most suitable couple can the brightest sparks be created.
If you love him, just love him vigorously.
This is not a return to this prosperous world in vain.
Love him truly and truly,
Only then will you not miss the greatest happiness and joy in the world.
I love him forever and ever.
I don’t want to change this love for the rest of my life.
The reason why the scholar Bao Ren still had a deep love for Su Xiaoxiao after his death was not only because Su Xiaoxiao was both talented and beautiful, but also because he had received Su Xiaoxiao’s kind support. Su Xiaoxiao, a famous Qiantang prostitute, supported Bao Ren not only because of her generosity and kindness, but also because Bao Ren had stood up for her, and she developed a good impression of Bao Ren.
The dream haunts the soul, and the person does not want to change life or death.
Su Xiaoxiao’s talents and looks are not only admired by Bao Ren. How many men who have seen her are not tempted? Why aren't those men as affectionate as Bao Ren? ——Because few of them get affectionate feedback from Su Xiaoxiao.
If a person's beauty has nothing to do with you, of course it will be difficult for you to be affectionate towards her. Most people just pass by each other, and only a few can leave a deep mark. When a beautiful phoenix flies from the sky, we can't help but exclaim "Ah... so beautiful." After the beauty is over, we still do what we should do. When we are free, we will say to our friends, "Oh! I once saw a beautiful phoenix." What a beautiful phoenix", this "phoenix" has become a topic of conversation for us. But when this "Phoenix" becomes ill and loses her hair, who will think of taking care of her and loving her? Of course not. This is true for humans to animals, and it is true for humans to humans as well. Only when the two parties have some interactions and have some true feelings of interaction can deep affection be produced.
In a man's heart, a shocking dream does not necessarily involve a person with a very beautiful appearance, but it must be a person who touches his heart with his true feelings, and that person is someone who is willing to get close to him. In this way, that person becomes the sweetheart in a man's heart.
Looking through Chinese books from ancient times to modern times, although Laozi, Confucius, Zhuangzi, Li Bai, Du Fu... they rarely touch on the affairs of men and women, there are still people who let us see this kind of sentiment. outpouring. In the dust of history, the words about the love between the two lovers shine with dazzling light.
Ten years of life and death are uncertain.
If you don’t think about it, you will never forget it.
A lonely tomb thousands of miles away, there is no place to speak of desolation.
Even if we meet each other, we should not know each other,
My face is covered with dust, and my temples are like frost;
I suddenly return home in a dream at night,
Xiaoxuan Window, dressing up,
Looking at each other speechless, only a thousand lines of tears...
Su Shi was a man who dared to show his true temperament. Although he was in an official position, he never flattered others and would rather be demoted than follow what others said. No matter whether he is promoted or demoted as an official, his love spans life and death. Su Shi was lucky enough to become a couple with his sweetheart. He loved her all his life and traveled through life and death.
In addition to Su Shi, Cangyang Gyatso was also a man of true temperament, and he also left exquisite poems for our descendants.
That night I listened to Sanskrit singing all night,
Not for enlightenment, just to find a trace of your breath;
That month, I shook All prayer tubes,
are not for salvation, just to feel your fingertips;
That year, I kowtowed and prostrated on the mountain road,
Not for the audience, just to be close to the warmth you left;
In that life, I walked around the mountains, rivers and pagodas,
Not for the next life, just to be with you on the way. You meet...
As a Buddhist, Tsangyang Gyatso did not follow the Dharma and frankly expressed his absent-mindedness about Buddhist scriptures. In fact, Tsangyang Gyatso was not the only one who was absent-minded about Buddhist scriptures?
No matter whether it is the Buddhist scriptures, the Bible, the Tao Te Ching, or any other scriptures, they cannot eliminate a man’s love for his beloved. Chanting sutras only increases people's restraint. Chanting sutras will make people's love infinitely deep, so deep that they can avoid seeing each other, and so deep that the lover is deeply implanted in their hearts and dreams. The beautiful woman becomes a shadow, an illusion, and an inescapable nightmare, so the man doesn’t want to do anything but concentrate on chanting sutras.
One is Langyuan fairy flower,
The other is flawless jade.
If there is no romance,
I will meet him again in this life;
If there is a romance,
How will things end? blur.
One is complaining in vain,
The other is worrying in vain;
One is the moon in the water,
The other is the flower in the mirror.
How many tears can there be in your eyes?
How can autumn flow to the end of winter and spring flow to summer?
Cao Xueqin devoted his life to writing one of China's best novels, "A Dream of Red Mansions", which went against the norm of Chinese literati and took the personal relationship between children as the theme. Through Jia Baoyu, Cao Xueqin spoke the truest words hidden deep in a man's heart. For Brother Bao, the greatest meaning of living in this world is to be with Sister Lin. Other fame, wealth and honor are all muddy and boring things. Without Sister Lin, what's so lovely about this world? Living has become a boring thing. So Brother Bao wants to become a monk, and he wants to become a monk so that he can be reunited with Sister Lin's soul.
As is the story, so is the reality. Sure enough, our Emperor Shunzhi became a monk for his concubine Dong E. Because his favorite Concubine Dong E has passed away, and his lover has passed away, being an emperor is very boring. He can only continue to live by listening to sutras and chanting Buddha. Shunzhi was the first emperor to enter the Qing Dynasty, and he was also an emperor with outstanding achievements. He had grand plans and knew strategies to govern the country and stabilize the country. He reigned for eighteen years. This period was the most critical eighteen years for the Qing Dynasty to grow and unify China. Even such a man would be disheartened by his lover's departure, let alone all living beings and ordinary people.
Although not every man can meet his sweetheart, as long as he does, he will not be able to bear to divert his attention. This kind of attraction will make men willing to overcome all resistance, just to be able to be with her. The beautiful people are together. Only when a man has a sweetheart by his side can his heart truly be at peace and his life be full of vitality.
The most shocking dream a man has is to be with his sweetheart. If one day, a man's lover dies, someone will hear a bang, and the man's most beautiful dream is shattered.
The author Yu Lian, a life experiencer, has traveled many roads and done many things, and finally fell in love with words. His representative works include the novel "Night Road", "Man's Forty-One Flowers", the prose "Friends in Strong and Mild Love", "How Long Do You Need to Wait to Love Someone", "On Living Understandably", the poems "My Heart Wanders", "It's a Pity for You" Don’t love me enough”.
First draft time: 2015.10.03; first publication platform: Literary Consultant; first publication time: 2016.10.27; re-publication platform: Modern Prose Network; re-publication time: 2017.03.23