Think about it. Modern times don't teach this. Girls don't understand. How could she like it? When I was in college, female students would admire and envy me when they knew that many computer technologies surpassed them. I think that's the reason.
She needs to understand, and then you can do what she can't. She will love it! But now most people, especially young people born after 1980-90, don't know Chinese studies, but only play. What do you think they will like?
Answering now is also answering myself that I have been confused for 16 years!
Why don't you learn to ride a horse and play golf? You ask a girl to go on a golf date, and she will definitely go!