In the recently hit TV series The Last Romance, the love between Jiang, starring Liu Shishi and Zhang Anren, is a love story of Zhang Anren standing on tiptoe to cater to Jiang.
Sun Nan enjoys Zhang Anren's kindness to himself with peace of mind and firmness, while Zhang Anren is carefully maintaining this love.
When moving, even small items are not willing to ask Sun Nan for help, for fear of exhausting the little princess; Even eating a meal is scary, and even eating drunk crabs doesn't know whether to drink yellow wine.
Even if you ask your aunt to serve wine, you should be cautious in returning the gift, for fear of being rude in front of Chiang's parents;
Zhang Anren bought a house, which is a sense of self-confidence for himself, but for Jiang's father, it is only enough to marry.
Always stand on tiptoe to love someone, the center of gravity will be unstable, and it will not last long, and it will be physically and mentally exhausted.
Humble and grievance in love can't change the equality of love, and the distance on tiptoe can't narrow the gap between two people's reality.
When Jiang's family went bankrupt, Zhang Anren's first thought was to distance himself from the relationship, fearing that the debtors would affect the good image he was trying to maintain.
Zhang Anren's love for Jiang is like an ethereal killing. Zhang Anren's care made Jiang a useless person after leaving Zhang Anren.
Facts have also proved that when Jiang's family suffered changes, Zhang Anren's first escape also made Jiang more helpless and tired. This kind of love is undoubtedly a disaster for Jiang Lai.
Tu Lei said, "It is unrealistic to stand on tiptoe to love someone." .
Never accept a person who loves you on tiptoe. The more you need to maintain your feelings, the more fragile you are.
True love is always the willing efforts of two people, rather than a person carefully protecting the flower of love in a glass bottle.
It is painful to lower the quality of life and love someone.
In the first half of his life, Luo Zijun had just divorced and lived a hard life with his children. At this time, Laojin has a car and a house in Shanghai.
Although it is not expensive, it is much better than Luo Zijun renting a house without a car. Therefore, Lao Jin has a sense of self-confidence in front of Luo Zijun and thinks that he is lucky to have a crush on Luo Zijun.
At the same time, I am eager to help Zijun solve some problems, such as repairing water pipes, picking up children, doing what a boyfriend should do in front of people, and shaping a reassuring boyfriend image.
Then I set foot on Zijun's life: what kind of clothes to wear to the party and what kind of bag to carry can be called Zijun's identity.
Luxury goods that are too expensive are vanity for Zijun. Only a simple and simple dress is worthy of a stable boyfriend of Laojin, and a good woman who can live in a down-to-earth manner.
When Laojin saw Zijun spending high-end with his colleagues He Han and Tang Jing, his psychology was very unbalanced. He thinks that if he secretly loves Zijun, Zijun should be grateful.
In fact, in Laojin's mind, Zijun is a woman who drags the bottle to get married twice, without any capital to remarry and the right to enjoy life.
So he kept lowering Zijun's living standard to match his stable low-end quality of life and make them look more suitable.
Low-quality love is not as good as high-quality singles.
Facts have proved that Zijun has this value and ability. With his own efforts and the help of He Han, he finally lived a free petty bourgeoisie life.
If a woman lives a high-quality life, she will have a high-quality love.
Don't regard love as the whole of life, and don't regard marriage as a straw to change your destiny. It is an iron law that women should grasp when choosing lovers.
For a love, I wronged myself and lowered my quality of life, which not only obliterated my ability, but also lost the opportunity of self-growth. Such love is the beginning of suffering.
Good love is a fulfillment in itself, which will make each other better and happier.
It is a disaster to keep a love with your life.
The murder of Jiangge 20 16 shocked the whole country. Because Liu Xin's boyfriend, Chen Shifeng, didn't agree to break up with Liu Xin, holding a grudge and preparing to kill Liu Xin, he met Jiang Ge, Liu Xin's best friend, and hacked Jiang Ge to death outside the door.
Jiangge, which had a bright future, was devastated by a doomed love, and we were all very sad.
However, more is vigilance, and those paranoid people who bet their lives on love should be avoided in time.
It is extreme to use murder as a threat to retain your lover or suicide as a means to retain love.
If you meet this kind of person one day, you must leave safely in a way of self-protection, otherwise you will tie a bomb to yourself, and you will be upset if you are not careful.
Just like Xie Hongzu, a rich second generation in The Last Romance, committed suicide by jumping into the river because of his failed proposal. The lock has been moved. Xie Hongzu won Locke's consent with his life, and he got married as he wished.
But when Lock Lock got pregnant, Xie Hongzu was tired of marriage. At this time, his first love returned to China, and Xie Hongzu ended his marriage with life by divorce and ran to love with his first love.
Life is not an act, affection is not a game, and marriage is not a child's play. We all need to learn to be responsible for ourselves and our loved ones.
Sometimes clinging to love is a burden or injury, but giving up is a kind of beauty.
Love is not that one heart hits another, but that two hearts collide with each other.
People who commit suicide or kill people without love are actually people who make excuses for their own selfish desires or control desires under the guise of love.
If you are not careful, ta will control you in the name of love and satisfy all the requirements and desires of TA. This is not love, it's a control freak. Stop loss in time and leave safely and rationally.
Close love is the happiest.
We are human beings first, then lovers, relatives and friends. Only by maintaining an independent attitude can we confidently become a member of various relationships.
Diving champion Guo Jingjing and rich second generation Huo moved from love to marriage. At first, we were not optimistic about this marriage, thinking that Guo Jingjing was clinging to the rich family.
As Guo Jingjing said, he is a giant, and I am still a champion! There is only one champion, and there are many giants. It happened that Huo liked it very much, which was consistent with Guo Jingjing. Now they are the envy of everyone.
You're fine, and I'm fine. That's what love should be like.
There is a saying in Jane Eyre: "Love is a game, and we must always be evenly matched, so that we can depend on each other for a long time."
Love is a matter between two people, and there is no problem with your mutual needs and satisfaction.
The problem is that when a person's desire is based on binding, binding or using another person, it is easy to form a vicious circle, and more often it will cost him his life, which is not worth it.
Love begins with face value, is loyal to talent, is trapped in character, and is intoxicated with family.
People who love each other have the same outlook and the same ability, which is the beginning of long-term happiness of love.
When love is mixed with this naked utilitarian desire, you must turn around and leave.