Liang Heng
China has a civilization history of 5,000 years. In this vast historical picture, scholars are like cosmic dust. You know they exist, but when you want to catch them, they suddenly pass away from you. Only talented people can pour the energy of their lives into the burning moment in the vast history, leaving dazzling stars; And great people can always light up the sky and the hearts of generations compared with the stars. However, among these gifted scholars and even great gifted scholars, those who are comparable to Su Shi in character and talent are really "in fact, he has searched all over the sky, but he has failed to find the person he is looking for no matter where he is." It is said that women are most easily moved by words. For five thousand years, only Su Shi has really touched my heartstrings with words. The marriage of talented people and beautiful women has always been the highest realm of marriage. Then, I will practice this life seriously, devoutly and assiduously. Perhaps God has been moving and pitying me, letting me be reincarnated as a beautiful woman with both talents and looks, and fulfilling my once-in-a-thousand-year wish to marry Su Shi. Although he has had three wives (not counting concubines), although his wives don't live long, I am still willing to condense my life into a bunch of candlelight and reflect it on his fingers. Even if it's only eleven years (his woman is always closely related to the number eleven). Even for this, I have experienced thousands of years of love robbery.
Throughout ancient and modern times, the history of people with true temperament is rare, which can be seen from his friendship with his wife. Wang Fu, the first wife, died after living with Su Shi for eleven years. Su Shi planted 30,000 pine saplings on the mountain where the bones were buried. Thirty thousand plants, how long will it take to plant, and how much affection and love are contained in the mud! He turned Acacia into 30,000 evergreen pine trees and stayed with his wife after years of cold and heat. Ten years later, Su Shi wrote the poem "Jiang Yimeng" for Wang Fu, which made everyone who read it heartbroken. Never think, never forget. A lonely grave thousands of miles away, desolate and nowhere to talk about. Even if we don't know each other, our faces are dusty and our temples are frosty. When night came, my dream suddenly came home. Xiao Xuan window, get dressed. Care for each other without words, only a thousand lines of tears are expected to be heartbroken every year, and the moon will disappear. "Born ten years, died ten years, Wang Fu is so lucky, such an excellent person" never forgets "and" heartbroken every year "! As a woman, winning one in ten years is enough. Twenty years or even a lifetime dream, Wang Fu has a spirit underground, and she should smile as brightly as a flower. In addition, Su Shi at this time had married Wang Runzhi, the cousin of Wang Fu, a little Su Shi, who was 1 1 years old six years ago. Su Shi didn't forget his old love because he had a new love.
Besides, Wang Runzhi. As the daughter of Jinshi, it should not be a problem to marry a young and beautiful scholar with a bright future; As Wang Fu's cousin, she should know and even know her brother-in-law Su Shi. Apart from admiration and admiration, I was probably moved by the deep friendship between Su Shi and his wife. Unfortunately, 25 years later, Wang Runzhi died again. The death of a good wife who accompanied her through the ups and downs of her career in Huizhou, Huangzhou, and a good wife and mother who treated her ex-wife as her own, made Su Shi's feelings suffer heavy losses again. Su Shi once vowed to live in the same room and die in the same cave. One hundred days after Wang Runzhi's death, Su Shi asked his friend and great painter Li (Long Mian) to draw ten arhats. When he asked the monk to recite the scriptures for her and let her live in Elysium, he dedicated these ten statues to his wife's deceased. Finally, Su Zhe buried the coffin and Su Shi in a temple in the west of Beijing eleven years later.
In addition to these two wives, there is also a Wang Chaoyun who was righted by concubines. This 12-year-old girl has served Su Shi for decades, at the best and at the worst. Especially in the last few years of Su Shi's exile in Hainan, his concubines "went tree by tree" and lived and died together, which should be rooted in unforgettable love. This "sick man" who is 26 years older than Chaoyun's White Beard Dissipation should be affectionate in addition to talent. Chaoyun is not mistaken. Among the three wives, Su Shi wrote the most poems for Chaoyun. Su Shi called her "the goddess of Wei Mo" and regarded her as a confidant. Maybe God is jealous of Su Shi's love for women. Thirty-three-year-old Chao Yun died eleven years after righting. Su Shi buried her by the Hou Feng Lake in the west of Huizhou, overlooking the release pond opened by the two of them. The lake is clear, just like a piece of Dan Xin in the clouds, which makes Su Shi unable to bear to revisit. After Chao Yun's death, Su Shi has been widowed and never remarried. His couplet to Chaoyun is: out of place, only Chaoyun can know me; A person plays the old tune, whenever it rains, I miss you twice. "Whenever it rains, I miss you twice." Su Shi had a few lonely lights in his later years, so he walked leisurely in the deep affection of Su Shi in his later years, forever. All Su Shi's true feelings are really going on. Unlike Qu Yuan, who loves beauty in vain, no one falls on a specific person, and later generations have to come and go to guess. At the thought of comparing an old and ugly Chu Huaiwang to a beauty, I doubt Qu Yuan's aesthetic level. )
Every time I think of Su Shi's deep affection and love for these three women, my eyes will always be a little moist, my thoughts will spread softly, and I will think of Su Zhe again.
Su Shi's true temperament is also manifested in his brotherly affection for his younger brother Su Zhe. The preface to the well-known "When is the Moon at the Head of the Water Tune" for thousands of years is clearly written as "Travel with Children". "When is the bright moon? I take my glass from a distance. I don't know about palaces in the sky. What year is tonight? I'm willing to ride the wind to the sky, I'm afraid I can't stand the cold for nine days in a pavilion of fine jade. Dance and enjoy the shadow of the moon, which is in the world. The moon turned into a scarlet pavilion, hanging low on the carved window, shining on the sleepy self. The moon should not have any resentment against people. Why is it round when people are gone? People are sad and happy, and they are separated and reunited. The moon has yin and yang, and there are gains and losses. Nothing is perfect, even in the past. I hope that people will last for a long time and have a good scenery. " The sleepless thoughts and the earnest prayers of "May people live for a long time, and there will be a bright moon in a thousand miles" all show deep affection for brothers and sisters. After Su Shi was imprisoned for the Wutai Poetry Case, a misunderstanding made Su Shi mistakenly think that the emperor was going to kill him. In his panic, his first thought was his younger brother, leaving two farewell poems for Su Zhe. On the way home from Hainan, Su Shi was seriously ill. What he never forgets is that he never saw the reason after he came back. Brothers are so affectionate that nothing is more important to a husband than brothers.
How many people can there be in this world, such a man who values affection and friendship, such a brother and husband? How not to let the ruthless "hero" fall, how not to let the man who loves the game be ashamed! It should be said that both Liu Yong and Du Mu are very popular with women, but in the end, isn't it also "a dream in Yangzhou for ten years, winning the brothel and being poor?" It is both a brothel and a fickle affair, and their desire for their wives is not recorded in the history books. Therefore, after a thousand years of searching, I want to marry Su Shi, an interested brother and a man who loves his wife wholeheartedly.
Su Shi's frankness can also be understood as integrity. When the old and new parties were fighting for their own interests, Su Shi did not follow suit for his own self-interest. In Wang Anshi's new law, there is a provision to promote the sale of salt. The price of salt is so high that the people can't afford it: "I don't know the taste of Shao?" There is no salt in March. Based on his concern for all sentient beings, Su Shi did not fully agree with this new law. When Sima Guang wants to completely abolish the new law, he insists that the part of the new law that is conducive to the prosperity of the country should be retained. Su Shi, who has worked hard in officialdom for most of his life, has never learned to distinguish right from wrong. Whenever something goes wrong, he will "spit it out quickly". Only by living a glass-like life with an open mind can he be said to be a scholar who has really read sage books. It is no wonder that after he went to prison, both politically compatible and antagonistic people were rescued in many ways (including Wang Anshi and Sima Guang). This is not his personality charm. How did this happen? The man who conquers the same sex is the emperor among men. If you marry such a man, you will be the queen. Wherever you go, you can write your pride on your face, hold your chest out, twist your waist and make a sound. Everywhere I go, the sun and the moon are ridiculous, adding color to the mountains and rivers. Who doesn't want to marry such a man? Marry him, and I won't be a poet who gets drunk and burns poetry. I will be a cloud, pack his bags and accompany him on a long journey.
From the perspective of a gifted scholar, Li Bai is undoubtedly a great gifted scholar. But Li Bai is a little cold-blooded. Looking for Li Bai's words everywhere, few involve friendship, let alone love between men and women. Li Bai disdains romance. Li Bai and Du Fu traveled together in Mengshan for more than 20 days, and once "drunk in autumn and walked hand in hand with the moon", which made Du Fu unforgettable and always missed him. There are ten poems that are directly sent to and in memory of Li Bai, such as "Li Bai's Dream" and "To Li Bai at the End of the Sky", which are full of memories of his dream appearance, but Li Bai seems to have left only two poems at that time, and then there are no more. What Li Bai loves most is his wine, followed by his sightseeing and his complaints. Su Shi also loves wine and drunkenness. When you are drunk, sleep with your friends until dawn after the "mess". He is really as clean as white clouds. He is never afraid of any drunken gaffes, and he doesn't care whether others laugh at him. He drinks to his heart's content and gets drunk calmly. After he was drunk, he wrote: "I drank Dongpo at night and woke up drunk, just like the third night." The child's breathing sounds like thunder. Don't knock at the door. Listen to the sound of the river on crutches. I have hated this body for a long time. When will I forget the camp? Midnight is calm and the grain is abundant. When the ship dies, Jiang Hai will spend the rest of his life. " After finishing my homework, I fell asleep. Someone took this word to tell the satrap: "Since then, the ship has died, and Jianghai will spend the rest of his life"? Isn't this just running along the river? Huang Zhou, who is responsible for supervising his behavior, hurried to look for it, but Po Weng snored like thunder in bed. Su Shi, who is so carefree and forgetful, takes pleasure in holding a cup. He advocates "poetry and wine take advantage of time." He "asked heaven for wine", he "drank a lot of wine, but his courage was still in full bloom", and he "drank a bottle of wine for a month". Even if there is no wine, he often holds an empty cup. He seldom has the resentment of "raising a glass to dispel his worries", but he has the pleasure of "drinking from the heart" and a thorough understanding of life. It can be said that the attitude of drinking can best show a person's nature. Cunning people always shirk, and if they can't shirk, they cheat-either steal or change water; Treacherous people often walk in front of others and gloat when others are drunk. I'm not saying that everyone who is drunk is a good person, but people who drink like this must be honest and really cute. Su Shi spread himself out under the sky, opened his chest to dry, and was as loyal as a baby. For thousands of years, reaching out to hug is unbearable. People who are so frank and honest are always lovely and trustworthy. Friends trust them, but wives trust them more. A husband who "knows his appearance without doubting his appearance" with his wife has always been the ultimate goal pursued by women. It is said that women live for love, and I am convinced of it. I can live without a gorgeous dress and a luxury car villa, but I can't help but admire a person who makes me completely convinced and full of tenderness. I can't live without my love!
The reason why I want to marry Su Shi, of course, also includes his natural and unrestrained and broad-minded. Su Shi is the only person I know who is "not surprised when he comes suddenly, and he is not angry when he adds it for no reason". In his life, he never frowned, whether he was proud or frustrated. He always finds pleasure in difficulties. Dongpo, who was demoted as an official in Huangzhou, had to make a living in Yong Lian camp, and he also called himself "Dongpo layman", which was very popular. When it rains on the way, "everyone in the same trade is in chaos", and I take the Dongpo road alone for fun: "I don't listen to the sound of beating leaves through the forest. Why not sing and walk slowly? Bamboo poles and shoes are lighter than horses. Who's scared? A raincoat and hemp fiber, despite the wind and rain, still live my life. The cold spring breeze woke me up. Slightly cold. The hillside is sloping, but it is pleasant. Looking back on the bleak land. Go home. There is no rain or shine. " "misty rain life", so humiliating, unintentional retention, who can do it? "Rain or shine", as easy as lifting weights, which one can do it? I know that Qu Yuan can't do it, and neither can Bai. Qu Yuan resented that "I was alone in the cloudy world, and everyone was drunk and I woke up alone", as if he were the tallest pine tree on the top of Mount Tai, and it was not surprising that he would eventually become a beautiful tree in the forest that would be destroyed by the wind. Li Bai will only be in such desperate moments as "I would like to cross the Yellow River, choke on the ferry, climb the Taihang Mountain with snow", "I drew my dagger, and I walked four ways in vain", and "When he was sent to Beijing and awarded to Hanlin, he went out to laugh"-almost smug; And pretend to say, "oh, how can I bow and scrape to people in high positions?" No one will suffer, he is not a powerful person, but an emperor, an imperial concubine! Su Shi is not. In the ups and downs of his official career, he sighed at most that "life is like a dream" and went to "recite the poems of the bright moon and the songs of graceful chapters" without even complaining. Even in illness, there is a smile: "A sick man is lonely in Dongpo, and his white beard dissipates with the frost." Children mistakenly like Zhu Yan, but when they smile, they know it's burgundy. " Look, this is not an old urchin grinning over his mouth! "My mind is full of hard work, but people live poetically in this land", which really seems that Heidegger saw Su Shi's life and triggered his poetry.
Su Shi's temperament can really seduce women, but what can seduce women is his talent. Prose can be compared with Han Yu, Liu Zongyuan and Ouyang Xiu. Poetically, he and Huang Tingjian are also called "Su Huang"; Ci is the originator of the uninhibited school, and only Xin Qiji can match it for thousands of years; Calligraphy is one of the "Song Sijia" of Su, Huang, Mi and Cai. The school of painting pioneered the school of painting in South China. Ability to supervise and maintain projects-Su Causeway; Can cook "Dongpo meat", "Dongpo soup" and other series of foods; I can collect medicines, distribute medicines and treat people ... even Su Shi can't find them. What can people in that era not do? It can be said that anyone who can make such achievements in any one of these fields can be called a great genius, but Su Shi is a man of genius, and he is a master of human genius. I've traveled all over the world (maybe I'm not well informed), and I've never been like this. He is out of print created by God on earth!
Su Shi came from the beautiful Song Dynasty, his clothes were fluttering and his wounds were entangled. He has a long beard, a white face, small eyes and a smile, and walks in the boudoir and hearts of countless talented women who admire, appreciate and love him. Buddha said, help each other in the same boat for 500 years, and get a pillow for a thousand years. It has been more than 900 years since Su Shi was reincarnated in the wind in A.D.11year, which should be a thousand years. In this Millennium reincarnation, I don't know how many people have looked forward to it like me, but I am still willing to pray with all my piety: let me marry Su Shi in the afterlife and marry the only pride of this god.