1. Title:
When a person reaches middle age, his material resources are low, his family is high, and his spirit is high.
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? 2. Topic selection (values, central idea):
To win people with a rich heart, live out Countless wonderful things. When a person reaches middle age, his material resources are low, his family is high, and his spirit is high.
? 3. Structure: Progressive layer by layer
1. Low allocation of materials and cannot be dominated by materials.
2. A good family match. No matter how much wealth you have, it is not as good as family harmony, and no matter how great your reputation is, it is not as good as family happiness.
3. Good spiritual match: Being born as a human being requires more than just physical shelter. , more need a habitat for the soul.
? 4. Beginning and entry point:
1. Introduction: The best way for a person to live is to have a low material balance, a high family balance, and a high spiritual balance.
2. Entry point: Professor Banbai’s explanation of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs introduced the topic.
? 5. Materials:
Part One: Low-quality Materials
(1) Celebrity Examples: Li Zehou: Wearing famous brands is a burden
(2) Celebrity Examples: Chuck Feeney, the founder of Global Duty Free Group,’s simplicity
Part 2: High-quality family arrangements
(1) Celebrity Examples : Lin Yutang’s family.
(2) Celebrity examples: the family of the glass king Cao Dewang.
Part Three: Spiritual Match
(1) Movie: "Shawshank Redemption"
(2) Story: Mu Xin: If the soul is desolate, Life will also become tacky
Part 4: Summary: People with a rich heart can live countless wonderful lives and countless postures
6. Ending:
Echoing the beginning, it emphasizes focusing on the abundance of the spiritual world and ignoring unnecessary external things, so that you can live a good life.
7. Golden Quotes:
1. Hemingway said that in an era of luxury and waste, the things that human beings really need are very few.
2. When you pass middle age, when you filter out unimportant magazines, you are actually getting rid of burdens.
3. In an era of rampant materialism, many people seem to dominate material things, but in fact they are dominated by them.
4. The ancient Greek philosopher Epicotita once said that happiness in a person’s life should come from minimizing dependence on external things.
5. Psychologist Schwartz proposed a concept called the "paradox of choice": happiness means having freedom and choice, but more freedom and choice cannot bring greater happiness. On the contrary, more choices lead to less happiness.
6. Lin Yutang once said that an ideal family life is to have a wife who talks and laughs, and several cute children who can run with him in the heavy rain.
7. There is no absolutely happy family. Men must shoulder the responsibility of the family and make the family happy and glorious.
8. Zhou Guoping once said that home is a small boat that has to carry us through such a long time.
9. The Austrian poet Rilke said: "When the soul loses its temple, rain will drip on the heart.
10. The human world is just a place to stay, and the vast spirit The world is his place to wander.
11. If the soul is barren, life will also become tacky. 8. Thoughts:
Every piece of wood is tacky. You can become a Buddha, as long as you get rid of the superfluous parts. The same is true in life. When you are middle-aged, you should cut out the complex and simplify it, don't be obsessed with material things, focus on valuable things, and live the life you want.