Zhou Zeng said in "Settle Your Heart": Love is love without reason and tolerance without preconditions. ? Once a woman moves her heart, she will have many weaknesses, especially after moving her heart to a man, she will tolerate each other.
A Shuo and Ping Er are high school classmates. Soon after they entered the university, they met again at a class reunion. Pinger, who secretly loves Ashuo, decided to seize the opportunity and didn't want to miss the person she liked, so she took the initiative to confess to Ashuo.
Fortunately, Ashuo once had a good impression on Pinger, so they walked together, but because the universities they attended were in different cities, Ashuo would look for her in the city where Pinger's school was located every month, but never let Pinger look for her.
Pinger doubts whether her boyfriend is sincere to herself, but doubts belong to doubts. Pinger chose to get to know each other through her own efforts and the trust that Ashuo had established with her before. After all, Ashuo also said that she didn't want Pinger to find him, because Pinger was prone to carsickness.
In the emotional world, no one knows what will happen, but if you don't build trust in each other, or don't want to understand and tolerate each other's decisions, it will be difficult for this relationship to come to the end.
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Some people may say that Ashuo didn't allow Pinger to visit him every month, really for Pinger's good.
But Ashuo is easy to be emotional, or naive, which sometimes brings her a lot of trouble, but she never dislikes her boyfriend's naivety.
If Pinger has no feelings for Ashuo, no matter how good-tempered she is, it is hard for her to tolerate Ashuo's troubles again and again.
It is precisely because Ashuo understands this that he cherishes Pinger very much. You know that there are no perfect people in the world, and only girls who have moved their hearts can accept your imperfections and spoil your little temper.
What boys should remember is that she can tolerate your little temper. She has always been the little princess in the family, and she is loved by thousands of people. Even the family will pave the way for her.
But she just wants to learn her favorite major, marry you she likes, and be willing to tolerate and understand you. If you don't cherish and love her, what will she lose? Everything? .
Therefore, when you meet a girl who is willing to tolerate your little temper and understand you, you must cherish this person in front of you. Don't wait until you lose such a girl to realize that your choice is wrong.
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Ashuo, who had never felt Pinger's tenderness and skill, suddenly found that Pinger felt different from others about himself. It is because I understand Pinger's love for myself that I chose to be with her.
Some men may think that tolerance means not loving, and may suspect that the other person has saved enough disappointment in front of himself and has no courage to continue to be with himself, so that it will be easy for him to do things.
Maybe rage is what she should look like in your eyes, but then she will only target those who have nothing to do with herself.
And you are an extremely important person to her, so she won't lose her temper in front of you at will. She will choose to accommodate you in everything and give you enough understanding and tolerance.
When you find a girl around you who is willing to tolerate and understand you without reservation, then he (she) is moved by you. You must not ignore her love for you and still misunderstand that she hates you, because tolerance is the expression of love.
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Love is very powerful. It can make a person determined to make a change. Whether it is living habits or his own temper, people who love you are willing to tolerate and understand.
Remember, when the girl around you is moved by you, she will show something, such as a sense of dependence on you, so that she is willing to tolerate your mistakes in front of her.
Maybe you always date the person who is late. She will complain about you, but she won't be unreasonable. Instead, she will choose to tolerate your lateness after knowing the truth.
When you meet a girl who is willing to pay for you and can tolerate you, remember to cherish her existence, and don't let her save up enough disappointment because of her incomprehension, and then lose confidence in you.
If you feel the same way about the girl around you, maybe you can try to give her more understanding and tolerance, make her feel full of love and make your feelings happy.