Everyone faces setbacks sometimes, even the victorious generals. The key is how do you view setbacks? If you take setbacks as a denial of yourself and never recover, then you are a complete loser; And if you regard setbacks as the mother of success and learn to absorb reasonable factors to promote your growth, then setbacks can promote your success.
There is no such thing as failure for a confident teenager! As long as we have indomitable will and firm goals, we can get out of setbacks and finally succeed.
Please look at the life story of an outstanding figure in history:
When Edison, an outstanding inventor, was a pupil, one day the school sent him home and told his parents that the child could not be made. Edison was very shocked. Such setbacks made Edison feel that he had to work hard all his life, and it was this spirit of hard work that made him a great inventor later.
Edison's later hearing impairment may be regarded as a great misfortune by some people, but Edison accepted this misfortune in a special way, that is, he gradually cultivated the ability of "inner listening" through the sixth sense organ, which may be an important reason for his successful creation of a large number of inventions.
Edison was also full of setbacks and hardships in the process of invention. In order to solve the problem of thin filament of glass bulb, he tried thousands of materials and finally found a better material as filament. In his career of solving and applying electric light, he not only experienced thousands of experimental setbacks, but also was often misunderstood, slandered, attacked and destroyed by people around him. For example, the gas company consortium was afraid that the development of the electric light industry would destroy the gas industry, so it organized rumors, attacks and sabotage, which created various difficulties for Edison. Even those colleagues who made electric lights called Edison a liar. None of this knocked Edison down. He devoted himself to his work and worked tirelessly for seven years. Finally, in 1885, all the cities in new york and the United States used electric lights. The invention and popularization of electric light is an epoch-making achievement and the most brilliant achievement of Edison's life. It has brought light to all mankind and made great contributions to mankind.
Edison's great achievements are inseparable from his high emotional intelligence, perseverance and innovative spirit, which dare to face difficulties and setbacks directly.
Whether a setback is lucky or punishment depends on the individual's reaction to it. If someone can take setbacks as the invisible guidance of the hand of fate, accept this signal and adjust his direction to the right track, then setbacks are happiness for him. If someone regards frustration as a hint of God's weakness and then turns his spirit into ashes, then frustration is his punishment.
Frustration is the best "device" to measure personal weakness, which will provide opportunities to overcome it. In this sense, suffering setbacks has become a kind of "luck".
There are two ways in which setbacks affect people:
First, it is a challenge to greater efforts;
Secondly, it impacts the individual's courage to try again.
Most people give up hope at the signal of frustration, stop, and even lose heart without warning; There are also many people who lose their armor after only one failure. Excellent people are not like this. They always summon up more enthusiasm and energy after setbacks.
Young friends, might as well check your own setbacks and see if you have strong willpower and can give a firm response to setbacks.
If you can persist in your struggle after three consecutive setbacks, then there is no doubt that you can become an outstanding person in your chosen field.
If you are still eager to try after 12 consecutive setbacks, it means that the seeds of genius have sprouted and grown in your heart. As long as you give it the sunshine and rain of hope and confidence, it is expected to bloom successfully.
In short, if you can always forge ahead after setbacks, then "success" will give you a generous understanding of temporary setbacks and failures; However, those "crimes" that stop because of the hardships ahead will not be forgiven.