First, see how he treats his brothers and sisters, father, mother and relatives. If a person doesn't even love his relatives, even if he loves others, it is false. I knew there was such a young man who became a metre, and the unit generally reflected that he was amiable. But he treats poor relatives, including uncles and aunts, as if they don't exist or are not his relatives.
Second, see how he treats his former friends. If his position gets better, he can still treat his former friends as always. This man has a noble character. I have so many friends, no matter how the gap between us is getting bigger and bigger, but he is always friendly to me, which makes me very grateful.
Third, see how he treats people who have helped or educated him. If you kick down the ladder, or don't know how to repay a debt of gratitude, such a person has a low character. There is an old saying in China: "Gratitude is not a gentleman, and failure to repay is a villain." There is such a young man in a certain unit. When he needs your help, he can be particularly affectionate and friendly to you. Once you don't need to help him, or you are of no use or value to him, he can immediately ignore you and even attack you with others.
Fourth, see how he treats his former boss. When the boss is still his boss, he can please the boss in every way, and even be a cow and a horse for the boss. However, as soon as the boss is transferred, or the boss is unlucky, he can immediately turn his back on others or insult his former boss. This is not an objective and fair evaluation, or even a slap in the face. Such a person has a filthy personality. I have met many such people.
Question 2: How to test a person's personality? People's quality is the external manifestation of people, and form is the individual characteristic of everything. But human matter is human mind. What is in a person's heart is expressed through his behavior. If a person's material has problems, so will his form and form of expression. If a person's heart is filthy, the external form he shows will inevitably expose his inner essence. If there is a problem with character, then there is also a problem with this person's mind. If there is evil inside, it shows evil, and if there is good inside, it shows good. It can be shown from the external behavior to see if the other person has a keen feeling, and everything people do will be revealed, because what people gain is what they gain, and the essence can be seen from the fruit ~
Question 3: How to judge a person's character? First, try to be a good person. I've been thinking about this problem for a long time, and there are many entanglements. No one will deliberately be a "bad guy", but in reality, there are always many conflicts between interests and hearts. Many people choose to sacrifice their hearts and pursue interests. The reality around me once bothered me: Do you want to be one of them, so that you can get rid of the bottom of society and live a better life as soon as possible? Later, I told myself firmly: I must listen to the most primitive voice in my heart and try to be an honest, upright and compassionate person. Why not? Just to have higher expectations for yourself. Because I want to stay away from bad people and get close to good people, I hope I can identify them. The way to recognize them is to observe their subtle words and deeds, especially when interacting with some relatively weak people. The first time I met a friend was at a restaurant dinner. In this process, he deliberately made things difficult for the waiter, just to take advantage. Although he was very enthusiastic about me, I immediately lowered his score to a very low level. Later contact just verified my initial judgment. So don't judge a person's character by what he said or did to you. These can be disguised. But a person can't pretend all the time. When he thinks it doesn't matter, or in the process of interacting with "others who have nothing to do with you", he will expose his true colors.
Question 4: How to judge a person's character? Let me tell you a little trick. It's simple. See how he treats or evaluates people below him, such as waiters, beggars and so on. If you can respect everyone, your character must be good.
Of course, it will take a period of observation, at least four or five times.
Question 5: How can we tell a person's character? Several people upstairs get along really well when traveling.
You ask such a question, which shows that you are immature. Let me tell you, you don't even need to know the exact answer about personality. Because people are more multifaceted than you and I can predict, in a special environment and a special group, he may be generous and gentle. Outside this circle, he may be full of all kinds of psychological gloom in address unknown.
We can only decide whether we can associate with a person according to our own will, and we must think clearly about the benefits and benefits. If you can accept the worst result, it is worth doing.
Again, don't define a person easily.
Question 6: How to look at a person's personality and pay attention to details.
There was a man chasing me before.
He is also good-looking and has a good family condition.
It's good for me, too
But from what he said, I can see his character.
He said he was infatuated, but he had been in love dozens of times.
He said he kept his promise, but he would be late for the appointment.
He said he didn't like money and liked independence. But everything about him comes from his family.
Everything about him is contradictory. Although he will invite me to dinner, he will take me to many places.
But he doesn't even remember my birthday. If it were another girl, she would fall in love with him.
I didn't. Later, I was glad of my decision. When he chased me, I don't know how many times he cheated on me.
Really. Details are important. There is also a person's word of mouth. People around him. People with gangsters.
He is not a good person either. It's too grandiose to say that he wants to transform gangsters.
Question 7: How to judge a person's character? Listen to what he usually says and see what he usually does, especially after drinking. Everything he says and does can reflect a person's character ~ ~
Question 8: How to judge a person's character? Try to be a good person. I've been thinking about this problem for a long time, and there are many entanglements. No one will deliberately be a "bad guy", but in reality, there are always many conflicts between interests and hearts. Many people choose to sacrifice their hearts and pursue interests. The reality around me once bothered me: Do you want to be one of them, so that you can get rid of the bottom of society and live a better life as soon as possible? Later, I told myself firmly: I must listen to the most primitive voice in my heart and try to be an honest, upright and compassionate person. Why not? Just to have higher expectations for yourself.
Because I want to stay away from bad people and get close to good people, I hope I can identify them. The way to recognize them is to observe their subtle words and deeds, especially when interacting with some relatively weak people. The first time I met a friend was at a restaurant dinner. In this process, he deliberately made things difficult for the waiter, just to take advantage. Although he was very enthusiastic about me, I immediately lowered his score to a very low level. Later contact just verified my initial judgment. So don't judge a person's character by what he said or did to you. These can be disguised. But a person can't pretend all the time. When he thinks it doesn't matter, or in the process of interacting with "others who have nothing to do with you", he will expose his true colors.
Question 9: How to judge a person's character and let him judge his ambition with right and wrong;
Second, if you are poor, you can observe its changes through arguments;
Three unique skills, consulting them to view their knowledge and consultants;
Four stunts, telling them to look at their courage with disasters;
Five stunts, you can see your sex by drinking when you are drunk;
Six must have, take advantage of it, and look at it;
Seven unique tricks, depending on the letter.
Question 10: How to distinguish a person's personality? What people, events and his friends think of him is also of great reference value.